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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone would appreciate some help. I am not having much luck getting meets from female member on this site, I am not sure if it how I am doing the first message or how my profile is. I have had luck with a couple of guys on here so that side I am happy with.
Thanks in advance, Mike x |
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Your profile is probably shorter than the post you just wrote. It contains a very brief matter of fact description which sounds a bit like it was written on a medical form. You do nothing to sell yourself. You do not say why a woman should pick you over anyone else. What do you have to offer? What kind of people are you attracted to?
Your pictures, being totally honest, you look grumpy and the stubble is off putting for me personally but some won't mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be brutally honest, change the pictures. Selfies are bad at the best of times but when you look as miserable as sin too........smile.........ladies wanna see a friendly smiley face over the serial killer look (I'm not suggesting you are btw but you get the drift)
Your profile is your 'shop window' for the ladies of fab to peruse. Use it to its fullest to 'sell' yourself. Give women a reason to pick you over the next guy. Your profile as it stands does nothing. |
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"Hi everyone would appreciate some help. I am not having much luck getting meets from female member on this site, I am not sure if it how I am doing the first message or how my profile is. I have had luck with a couple of guys on here so that side I am happy with.
Thanks in advance, Mike x"
Not a week goes by without single blokes asking the same old question,,,,,,,,,,, yawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
If you read the forum its not just you its the thousands of millions of other males all trying to do the same thing, and get a date.....................
Ok, ok, maybe over counted on the number of males ........... lol |
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over a year ago
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Okay well I have just re-worded my profile giving a full "bio" of myself, what I am looking for ect. and I will adjust the pics accordingly, I used face and selfies as I felt I didn't want to show off my equipment as I am aware some find that off-putting and it the face that sells it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay well I have just re-worded my profile giving a full "bio" of myself, what I am looking for ect. and I will adjust the pics accordingly, I used face and selfies as I felt I didn't want to show off my equipment as I am aware some find that off-putting and it the face that sells it"
It has to be a friendlier face than what's being shown. A tip, if you shoot selfies, look up at the camera not down. It adds pounds to your face..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a huge male to female ratio. If you got few years is normal with no meets. I woulnt worry.
Very encouraging Shag lol"
I know lol been here few years myself  |
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"Hi everyone would appreciate some help. I am not having much luck getting meets from female member on this site, I am not sure if it how I am doing the first message or how my profile is. I have had luck with a couple of guys on here so that side I am happy with.
Thanks in advance, Mike x"
There is a trick though I don't really want to give away the magic formula but i will help with what not to say and that includes
1/Asking a woman's location in a town(you look like a stalker)
2/Not sending a face picture (often you get only 1 chance)
3/Asking how are you (Its lame and most guys do it)
4/Using text speech with r and u (you alienate some using it but nobody complains if you use the correct words)
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Thanks  so the best way to produce a message would be to introduce myself, explain in polite terms what I am looking for and await the reply, and also attach a face picture. |
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