|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
So what advice do you need as the flogee? I'm also a flogee and I just submit to what my Mistress decides I am to take.
She reads my signals and takes it slightly further than I can take. I've cried before. Absolute heaven |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm wondering wheres the best place to look for someone who's interested in it "
Lots of people will soanking you if you just ask. As for someone who's really into it; be careful what you wish for! My tears were real!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Danny loves a good spanking, in fact she now requests such lol
The trick is to 1 alternate from cheek to cheek, 2 build on the momentum and ferocity 3 listen to your partner, enabling you to gage their comfort level, which you can gentle notch up from time to time
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'm wondering wheres the best place to look for someone who's interested in it
Lots of people will soanking you if you just ask. As for someone who's really into it; be careful what you wish for! My tears were real!! "
Haha!! That's what I'm a bit worried about!! the guy that did it before had a fabric cat o nine tails whip (not sure if that's what it's proper name is!!)
And sort of built the strength up while stroking and playing..... Very erotic !! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I like to be flogged every now and again. It's very enjoyable if the person doing it gets in right. Start off lightly, building up. Give them little signs when you like it by sticking your arse up a bit, lol. My problem is I left my fave flogger in a hotel room and I haven't replaced it yet!!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Try the fetish markets. very friendly people who will happily chat. Birmingham is the brum bizarre bazaar. London is the London alternative market or the London fetish fair. If you don't fancy that,maybe we could meet up for a chat |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hi,
You don't have to be into any other part of the Bdsm scene to enjoy flogging. Many people enjoy it on it's own. We would suggest you find someone or some people who enjoy the same thing, tell them what you are looking for and if you feel comfortable with them and they do with you the just enjoy what you enjoy.. Good luck with your search. We would suggest you check out your local Fet munch. There will be one in your area. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Hi,
You don't have to be into any other part of the Bdsm scene to enjoy flogging. Many people enjoy it on it's own. We would suggest you find someone or some people who enjoy the same thing, tell them what you are looking for and if you feel comfortable with them and they do with you the just enjoy what you enjoy.. Good luck with your search. We would suggest you check out your local Fet munch. There will be one in your area. "
Thanks I always thought they were for the serious bdsm peeps, so I'll check it out x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Go onto Fetlife and all local munches are listed. Just go along and have a good chat with others that are into the BDSM scene they are not all hardened lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience "
We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience
We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped... "
I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience
We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...
I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues "
Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience
We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...
I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues
Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine... "
The right words whispered in your ear at the right moment |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Try to hook up with couples that have experience. Then either have a private type trial play with them, ie observe them in BDSM activity, then have them try it on you.
Who knows you may progress onto BDSM events at clubs with them also.
What fun |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience
We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...
I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues
Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine...
The right words whispered in your ear at the right moment "
The sudden sting of a smack on the buttocks...or the biting of a nipple... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
" right words whispered in your ear at the right moment
The sudden sting of a smack on the buttocks...or the biting of a nipple... "
I just got one of those...... And I wasn't the one who had been wanking without permission! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience "
Hi, we go to fetish meetings at Liberty Elite, good fun get back to us if you would like some more info.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have also tried canning, that takes a knowledgeable person to carry such activity out, very intense and enjoyable though!!!"
I can recommend a man with a cane, he knows what he's doing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic