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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

In tha same boat matey!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No they haven't you just need to conduct yourself correctly and not worry about other single men!

They do not reflect you, only you can do that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

If you look around you will see there is a general opinion on guys who cannot accommodate. Sometimes there may be a reason, sometimes not. But couple that with a single guy who says discretion is vital it may paint a picture.

You may not feel the need, but clarifying your situation a little may mean you capture a wider potential audience?

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Just be polite and respectful, and patient. Turn up when you say you will, and take no for an answer.

Not really anything else I can suggest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all.

if i have a nice message from a single i will read it and most probably reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No they haven't you just need to conduct yourself correctly and not worry about other single men!

They do not reflect you, only you can do that

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not true ive chatted to many who have blocked single men because of idiots and a few who have been that upset by some they then take it out on nice single guys doesnt matter how one conducts oneself the "idiots" do have a negative effect sorry to say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just don't act like an idiot yourself?

tbh i've just deleted 80 messages that were mostly alright and from polite guys, half of which i would have loved to meet up with, but i can't meet everyone who asks.

i only ever block anyone who messages me a lot and i've no interest in them at all, or anyone who asks me for things that are in my profile not to ask me for because i don't like them, no-one else will get blocked and can message me another time when i'm actually looking for meets.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

sorry........... thats a kop out... I don't in any way determine your success on the site... and you certainly don't determine my success or otherwise

thats puts the blame everywhere else... "oh woe is me"..."it's all those other nasty pasties fault"....

sometimes its harder to look yourself in the mirror... and ask "what can I do to make myself better"

the one thing people don't realise is that the site itself is one small part of a much larger jigsaw... and that it isn't in itself the be all and end all...

the site does give you the tools to make it work, if you want it to..... use all of those tools, some of those tools or none of those tools... thats on you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all of the replies I'm at work and trying to keep up with this at the same time

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"No they haven't you just need to conduct yourself correctly and not worry about other single men!

They do not reflect you, only you can do that

not true ive chatted to many who have blocked single men because of idiots and a few who have been that upset by some they then take it out on nice single guys doesnt matter how one conducts oneself the "idiots" do have a negative effect sorry to say"

Well considering it is single men I am looking for, I would tend to think I know what I am talking about!

If your belief system is that everyone else's behaviour reflects upon you, then you continue to blame everyone else if it makes you feel better!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just be yourself..don't worry about others, if people want to meet you on the basis of how you conduct yourself then why worry...if you are an idiot people can tell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No they haven't you just need to conduct yourself correctly and not worry about other single men!

They do not reflect you, only you can do that

Well considering it is single men I am looking for, I would tend to think I know what I am talking about!

If your belief system is that everyone else's behaviour reflects upon you, then you continue to blame everyone else if it makes you feel better!

I see where your both coming from its a hard one to call

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its by luck really, women get bombared by millions of messages aday so will delete most, hardly no point emailing them in the first place lol but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just don't act like an idiot yourself?

tbh i've just deleted 80 messages that were mostly alright and from polite guys, half of which i would have loved to meet up with, but i can't meet everyone who asks.

I am always polite I just never know whether to say a lot or keep it short and sweet as the first impression counts

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not at all.

if i have a nice message from a single i will read it and most probably reply

I'm a little out of your age range but ill send a nice message on my 27th and put that to the test

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

sorry........... thats a kop out... I don't in any way determine your success on the site... and you certainly don't determine my success or otherwise

thats puts the blame everywhere else... "oh woe is me"..."it's all those other nasty pasties fault"....

sometimes its harder to look yourself in the mirror... and ask "what can I do to make myself better"

the one thing people don't realise is that the site itself is one small part of a much larger jigsaw... and that it isn't in itself the be all and end all...

the site does give you the tools to make it work, if you want it to..... use all of those tools, some of those tools or none of those tools... thats on you!"

Not at all....some people will dismiss single males due to previous experience

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Not at all....some people will dismiss single males due to previous experience "

..... and if that what you want to believe, and its everyone else's fault.... then to be honest you keep thinking that way, no one is going to be able to help you....

not me!... everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blaze your own trail. I don't think single guys have damaged their reputation on here. Some people are jaded by some of their antics but the good ones stand out by far.

All you have to do is join in be social and not be a knob. Which stands for everyone to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not at all.

if i have a nice message from a single i will read it and most probably reply

I'm a little out of your age range but ill send a nice message on my 27th and put that to the test

feel free but a full profile with likes and dislikes would help

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not at all.

if i have a nice message from a single i will read it and most probably reply

I'm a little out of your age range but ill send a nice message on my 27th and put that to the test

feel free but a full profile with likes and dislikes would help

Advice taken I will get that sorted after work....end of next month and ill be in your age bracket

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not at all....some people will dismiss single males due to previous experience

..... and if that what you want to believe, and its everyone else's fault.... then to be honest you keep thinking that way, no one is going to be able to help you....

not me!... everyone else!"

Nobody is blaming anybody for anything to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Blaze your own trail. I don't think single guys have damaged their reputation on here. Some people are jaded by some of their antics but the good ones stand out by far.

All you have to do is join in be social and not be a knob. Which stands for everyone to be honest. "

Yeah I get what your saying....grest pictures by the way can't beat a woman who takes care of herself

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Nobody is blaming anybody for anything to be honest "

you were blaming other single guys in your opening post.......

the thing is you have to be able to "help yourself" help yourself...... that isn't on anyone else but you.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

single guys have ruined my time on fab for several years...I blame them for my not getting a shag daily...or thricely a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nobody is blaming anybody for anything to be honest

you were blaming other single guys in your opening post.......

the thing is you have to be able to "help yourself" help yourself...... that isn't on anyone else but you....."

Blamed them for what exactly?? I asked for advice on how to show people I'm not an idiot like half of the single males on here seem to have proven that they are.....you have taken the post in the wrong context

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"single guys have ruined my time on fab for several years...I blame them for my not getting a shag daily...or thricely a day

Nobody is saying that though

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you are doing it again....

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!!"

your words... not mine!!!

my response... stop blaming other people! concentrate on making you better.......... help yourself "help yourself"!

running over other people..... thats not "helping yourself!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please credit us ladies with a bit of intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"single guys have ruined my time on fab for several years...I blame them for my not getting a shag daily...or thricely a day

Nobody is saying that though "

I wasnt saying you were ...

what I am saying IS, the half-a-site of idiots havent ruined fab for me...

my question to you would be have you tried any other ways in the swinging world to get meets that are not through messaging on the site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh...and OP..

you joined 3weeks ago and have a verify(verifies?)....

noting you do not accommodate halves your chances also...sorry its true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you are doing it again....

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!!"

your words... not mine!!!

my response... stop blaming other people! concentrate on making you better.......... help yourself "help yourself"!

running over other people..... thats not "helping yourself!""

I have not at any point blamed anybody for anything have I? ? Please go away if you can't read

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Most women ive met and chatted to on the scene over the years will tell you that they read profiles before even attempting to read messages. Personally if id recieved a message from you, after taking a breif moment to read your profile your message would go straight in the bin without being read. That isnt because ive tarred you with the same brush as "all those other no good single guys", its because your profile does nothing to entice me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op needs a holiday in rhyl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"oh...and OP..

you joined 3weeks ago and have a verify(verifies?)....

noting you do not accommodate halves your chances also...sorry its true."
YEs that's right, its very common for single guys to wait years for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"single guys have ruined my time on fab for several years...I blame them for my not getting a shag daily...or thricely a day

Nobody is saying that though

I wasnt saying you were ...

what I am saying IS, the half-a-site of idiots havent ruined fab for me...

my question to you would be have you tried any other ways in the swinging world to get meets that are not through messaging on the site?"

I haven't said anybody has ruined anything for me if you read it all I asked was the best way to show people in not in the same league as the idiots

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Would you like me to give you the real reason why you are struggling on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"single guys have ruined my time on fab for several years...I blame them for my not getting a shag daily...or thricely a day

Nobody is saying that though

I wasnt saying you were ...

what I am saying IS, the half-a-site of idiots havent ruined fab for me...

my question to you would be have you tried any other ways in the swinging world to get meets that are not through messaging on the site?

I haven't said anybody has ruined anything for me if you read it all I asked was the best way to show people in not in the same league as the idiots "

ahh sorry if I misread...how about not thinking others are idiots. hows that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Most women ive met and chatted to on the scene over the years will tell you that they read profiles before even attempting to read messages. Personally if id recieved a message from you, after taking a breif moment to read your profile your message would go straight in the bin without being read. That isnt because ive tarred you with the same brush as "all those other no good single guys", its because your profile does nothing to entice me."

Thanks for the advice I'm definitely going to add more to my profile later on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would you like me to give you the real reason why you are struggling on here? "

I haven't said I'm struggling....i only asked a question

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op needs a holiday in rhyl

What/who is op??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My advice. ..work on your profile. That is what will make you stand out...and be engaging when you message people.

PS I don't practice what I preach because I'm a woman and I don't have to

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My advice. ..work on your profile. That is what will make you stand out...and be engaging when you message people.

PS I don't practice what I preach because I'm a woman and I don't have to

Advice taken I will be updating it tonight after work

thanks a lot much appreciated

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Op needs a holiday in rhyl

What/who is op??"

OP is a forum abbreviation that stands for "Original Poster" or Original Post depending on the context in.which its used

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op needs a holiday in rhyl

What/who is op??

OP is a forum abbreviation that stands for "Original Poster" or Original Post depending on the context in.which its used "

I did think that but didn't want to make assumptions...every day is a school day

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By *onny bigMan over a year ago

london harrow

"No they haven't you just need to conduct yourself correctly and not worry about other single men!

They do not reflect you, only you can do that

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm quite capable of distinguishing between an "idiot" and a "genuine" single man. I don't brand them all with the same iron

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Not at all.

if i have a nice message from a single i will read it and most probably reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm quite capable of distinguishing between an "idiot" and a "genuine" single man. I don't brand them all with the same iron "

Glad to know there are people keeping an open mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

Posting a White Knight message may well put you in that league.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Posting a White Knight message may well put you in that league."

What's a white knight message?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Here's an idea.

Write a proper profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Here's an idea.

Write a proper profile."

If you read through we have established that but thanks for the contribution

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

I did read through. Perhaps instead of spending an hour on this thread you should have spent a hour on your profile to stop people bringing it up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

What a load of nonsense, how can others actions have any implication on your success on this site?

Just be yourself and if others want to meet you they will

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I did read through. Perhaps instead of spending an hour on this thread you should have spent a hour on your profile to stop people bringing it up."

I think you mean an hour. I didn't post this to argue with people we have established I need to update my profile which I have agreed to do so your post was pointless really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

What a load of nonsense, how can others actions have any implication on your success on this site?

Just be yourself and if others want to meet you they will "

Sorry I don't recall mentioning my success at any point

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"Its by luck really, women get bombared by millions of messages aday so will delete most, hardly no point emailing them in the first place lol but good luck."

if you don't throw balls, you wont win coconuts..lol..connie xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Its by luck really, women get bombared by millions of messages aday so will delete most, hardly no point emailing them in the first place lol but good luck.

if you don't throw balls, you wont win coconuts..lol..connie xx"

Haha I like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

What a load of nonsense, how can others actions have any implication on your success on this site?

Just be yourself and if others want to meet you they will

Sorry I don't recall mentioning my success at any point "

No you didn't, but your op would indicate that you think by other singles males actions that your not going to get responses to your messages that may lead to meets?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

We would pass you straight by. Based on your profile alone and not preconceptions based on the behaviour of others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its by luck really, women get bombared by millions of messages aday so will delete most, hardly no point emailing them in the first place lol but good luck.

if you don't throw balls, you wont win coconuts..lol..connie xx"
That's right. I do like to suck on 2 coconuts lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Posting a White Knight message may well put you in that league.

What's a white knight message? "

Its your original post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

It depends on how you message people,if you still finding it hard to prove your not like the rest of the single guys on here,you must be doing something wrong..i.e Dont say in the first message about sex,sucking etc and expect a meet just from exchanging a few messages...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just mention that you're a genuine guy lots in your profile and initial message.

# Hope this helps

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So in essence this thread has been pointless, because the OP has never mentioned he is struggling, he has never mentioned his success or lack of success....It was just a moan at other single men, or have I got it all wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So in essence this thread has been pointless, because the OP has never mentioned he is struggling, he has never mentioned his success or lack of success....It was just a moan at other single men, or have I got it all wrong?

I think so. It seems to be, "Lots of men are crap. I'm not. Women are too stupid to recognize crap men." I think.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Well, thats 10 minutes of my life I'm never getting back...

And I STILL don't understand what the OP is actually asking

Oh well...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just mention that you're a genuine guy lots in your profile and initial message.

# Hope this helps

haha.

i arranged a meet with a guy who 'always turns up', he didn't turn up though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes you have missed the point completely , no worries though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think so. It seems to be, "Lots of men are crap. I'm not. Women are too stupid to recognize crap men." I think. "

Taken it wrong. Don't know why people are so defensive I haven't questioned your intelligence

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Haha I don't say nothing along them lines in a first message

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

We would pass you straight by. Based on your profile alone and not preconceptions based on the behaviour of others"

Thanks for the feedback it's appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just dont see what advice can be given on something I dont find true from your initial post.How can I help when apparently there is no issue?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just dont see what advice can be given on something I dont find true from your initial post.How can I help when apparently there is no issue?"

If you have no advice to give your wasting your time commenting tbh there's plenty of topics so maybe follow one that you can get more involved in

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just mention that you're a genuine guy lots in your profile and initial message.

# Hope this helps

haha.

i arranged a meet with a guy who 'always turns up', he didn't turn up though."

Seen people talking about how they've paid hotels and been let down its a joke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just dont see what advice can be given on something I dont find true from your initial post.How can I help when apparently there is no issue?

If you have no advice to give your wasting your time commenting tbh there's plenty of topics so maybe follow one that you can get more involved in "

appears nobody has any advice on this thread,this is something you have gloassed over on every reply.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just dont see what advice can be given on something I dont find true from your initial post.How can I help when apparently there is no issue?

If you have no advice to give your wasting your time commenting tbh there's plenty of topics so maybe follow one that you can get more involved in

appears nobody has any advice on this thread,this is something you have gloassed over on every reply.....

If you read through a few people have given me some good advice with the main point I've taken is to make my profile a bit more appealing. I am happy with the replies or most of them at least. That's good enough for me

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

Your destiny/success whatever you want to call it on this site, has nothing to do with luck or anything other single men do, its all down to what YOU do and what effort YOU put in, no effort = no rewards simple as that, what anyone does, does not reflect on you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think so. It seems to be, "Lots of men are crap. I'm not. Women are too stupid to recognize crap men." I think.

Taken it wrong. Don't know why people are so defensive I haven't questioned your intelligence "

Well, it seemed a succinct summary and I have no idea how my comment could be considered "defensive" as I said nothing about me. I certainly didn't question your intelligence, just the motivation and purpose behind your post. Oh, well. Probably time to bow out again.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Your destiny/success whatever you want to call it on this site, has nothing to do with luck or anything other single men do, its all down to what YOU do and what effort YOU put in, no effort = no rewards simple as that, what anyone does, does not reflect on you."

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!"

Actually, I am male. I am sure his misfortune is all my fault. I am very sorry. Truly.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!

Actually, I am male. I am sure his misfortune is all my fault. I am very sorry. Truly."

You bad man you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!

Actually, I am male. I am sure his misfortune is all my fault. I am very sorry. Truly."

Promise that you won't do it again, and we will let you off just this once

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By *ifferent69Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Just be patient, honest and courtesse......

Bit of light humour helps...

Look out for socials, and club meets..

Just except your not going to get what you want all the time.

Women always have the upper hand and perogative to be fussy and to change their minds.

If there was a magic technique for success we,d all be at it....

Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My suggestion would be not to put posts like this on the forum!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!

Actually, I am male. I am sure his misfortune is all my fault. I am very sorry. Truly.

Promise that you won't do it again, and we will let you off just this once

Pwomise, pwomise, pwomise. Damn. In the time it took to say that, I have transgressed several times and spoilt his chances again. Thorry for thtanding you up. Had to go to the dcotorth for my itch, honetht.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lets be honest

single men some advice

be respectful

read profiles

try a original message and add something in you read on the profile

no copy and pasted messages

no lying, if you are single u are if attached say

dont think every woman wants you or you are everyones type

ohh and recent up to date photos and not just of ya cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Amazing how some people have the time on their hands to come on here posting their shit....If you don't agree or don't like the topic just move on and post on one that you do like....at no point have I made out I am not happy or blamed single guys for my apparent lack of success..All I asked was some tips on how to prove I am not an idiot like I see a lot of people saying most of the single guys on here seem to be....advice such as update your profile was appreciated and will be acted upon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"lets be honest

single men some advice

be respectful

read profiles

try a original message and add something in you read on the profile

no copy and pasted messages

no lying, if you are single u are if attached say

dont think every woman wants you or you are everyones type

ohh and recent up to date photos and not just of ya cock

This was the kind of advice I was looking for....thanks for understanding what I was asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

pssst...... countless people in this thread have said this...he doesn't want to hear this... its other peoples fault!"

You must have a lot of time on your hands we have established that you don't agree now please go away plenty of topics to comment on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Amazing how some people have the time on their hands to come on here posting their shit....If you don't agree or don't like the topic just move on and post on one that you do like....at no point have I made out I am not happy or blamed single guys for my apparent lack of success..All I asked was some tips on how to prove I am not an idiot like I see a lot of people saying most of the single guys on here seem to be....advice such as update your profile was appreciated and will be acted upon. "

Ooooo. That told us. It was advice, albeit veiled in sarcasm. But you chose to ignore it or interpret differently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't that just common sense, basically send a message that you would like to receive. If a man can't get that bit right them he doesn't deserve to have any success!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loose the attitude, you'll get on much better, just because some have put opinions that you don't agree with doesn't mean that they are posting shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sings *Its getting hot in here, take all your clothes of

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By *randmrsminxyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Single guys as a rule tend not to read all the profile , there cock looks at the pictures then the cock types a message and sends it

Then they wonder why they are blocked by a majority or couples on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

haha i have time on my hands hence doing new pics and shopping ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lets be honest

single men some advice

be respectful

read profiles

try a original message and add something in you read on the profile

no copy and pasted messages

no lying, if you are single u are if attached say

dont think every woman wants you or you are everyones type

ohh and recent up to date photos and not just of ya cock

This was the kind of advice I was looking for....thanks for understanding what I was asking "

ok x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Loose the attitude, you'll get on much better, just because some have put opinions that you don't agree with doesn't mean that they are posting shit "

Think you meant lose....it's when I explain to them that they have misinterpreted what I have said yet they continue to go on and on when there are plenty of other topics for them to comment on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

haha i have time on my hands hence doing new pics and shopping ha

Haha your comments have been beneficial though unlike some

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Single guys as a rule tend not to read all the profile , there cock looks at the pictures then the cock types a message and sends it

Then they wonder why they are blocked by a majority or couples on here "

I ensure I read the profiles and always look our for keywords that people request be put as subject title

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By *he Stuff Of LegendMan over a year ago

Hadfield

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

Slagging other guys off never helps be positive about yourself forget what others do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually it's loose not lose, spelling that way would make you out like some sort of idiot?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loose the attitude, you'll get on much better, just because some have put opinions that you don't agree with doesn't mean that they are posting shit

Think you meant lose....it's when I explain to them that they have misinterpreted what I have said yet they continue to go on and on when there are plenty of other topics for them to comment on "

No I meant loose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually it's loose not lose, spelling that way would make you out like some sort of idiot?"

it is lose. everyone spells it wrong though these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

slacken the attitude doesn't make sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Loose the attitude, you'll get on much better, just because some have put opinions that you don't agree with doesn't mean that they are posting shit

Think you meant lose....it's when I explain to them that they have misinterpreted what I have said yet they continue to go on and on when there are plenty of other topics for them to comment on

No I meant loose "

Loose the attitude makes no sense at all. Lose the attitude on the other hand makes a lot of sense. Completely off topic though so pointless continuing but thanks for taking your time out to comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

Don't behave like an idiot! Do we really have to tell u that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually it's loose not lose, spelling that way would make you out like some sort of idiot?

it is lose. everyone spells it wrong though these days."

Yes it is lose

my mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Don't behave like an idiot! Do we really have to tell u that!"

Surprisingly no, you dont. That goes without saying.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

No one spoiled it for me, I made my own success in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No one spoiled it for me, I made my own success in the swinging world.

Nobody said anything had been spoilt for anyone. I actually started my post with the words "it seems" and talked of certain individuals giving single males a bad name

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"No one spoiled it for me, I made my own success in the swinging world.

Nobody said anything had been spoilt for anyone. I actually started my post with the words "it seems" and talked of certain individuals giving single males a bad name"

I am speaking from my perspective, your fun on this site holds no interest to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually it's loose not lose, spelling that way would make you out like some sort of idiot?

it is lose. everyone spells it wrong though these days.

Yes it is lose

my mistake "

no problem, i am NOT a grammar nazi, just wanted to stop the argument.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think the argument is really about the spelling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually it's loose not lose, spelling that way would make you out like some sort of idiot?

it is lose. everyone spells it wrong though these days.

Yes it is lose

my mistake

no problem, i am NOT a grammar nazi, just wanted to stop the argument."

No argument on my side, but thank you

I am bowing out of this thread now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

people can have opinions and i'm not bothered if they disagree. idk i focus on the weirdest of things and the spelling argument was bothering me? fuck knows, think i need some sleep...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Threads like that never tend to go as one may think?

Get yourself some sleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow I have to say Liam I admire your energy. You are going to need it if you are going to take on every negative post in the forums .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No one spoiled it for me, I made my own success in the swinging world.

Nobody said anything had been spoilt for anyone. I actually started my post with the words "it seems" and talked of certain individuals giving single males a bad name

I am speaking from my perspective, your fun on this site holds no interest to me.

thank god someone understands this..

this site is about my fun

I love u _iew

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Threads like that never tend to go as one may think?

Get yourself some sleep

Here you go mate here is the response you seem so desperate to get...we can all see your comments well done for not managing to make a valid contribution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol, my very first comment was valid, wasn't meant as anything more than an observation but if you feel that it was not worth noting then why ask for recommendations/advice.

Good luck anyway Liam.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never really thought about silly single guys on here. I think the "Wanna fuck" guys get noticed and will never meet. It has not as yet spoiled my experience on fab.

It is a shame if single guys are tarred with the same brush by individuals, but are these the sort of people you want to meet?

Personally, I would feel uncomfortable in the same room with judgemental people.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

heres where you slagged of other people op, and where the comments are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I never really thought about silly single guys on here. I think the "Wanna fuck" guys get noticed and will never meet. It has not as yet spoiled my experience on fab.

It is a shame if single guys are tarred with the same brush by individuals, but are these the sort of people you want to meet?

Personally, I would feel uncomfortable in the same room with judgemental people."

One of the best responses so far thanks for the input

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

That took an age to read!

We block single guys not because they are idiots,although I imagine a fair few must be..we block because our inbox just gets flooded,and I don't have 30hours in a day to read them all everyday...happy swinging all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated "

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

I was after some advice which I have gotten. This wasn't an advertisement

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Some don't need taring by any brush as they do a good enough job all by themselves! Just saying like.... (With extra time I have in my hands n all that). Will now flutter off to reply to other threads! Lol

Flap flap flap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

heres where you slagged of other people op, and where the comments are coming from."

Lol slag people off? I started off by saying it seems...so I didn't even make out what I said was factual

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well! "

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you "

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

5 hours and you have constantly been online and yet still not written a profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you"

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input. "

Sorry, but read mine again! You are blaming other single males for being idiots and therefore hurting your chances on here.

I pointed out from a single female point of _iew that they do not, I am adult enough to know the idiots from the good ones, you chose to ignore! Same as you have totally ignored everyone with experience on here that says what other men do on this site has no effect on you, but of course, you have chosen to pick and chose what comments you like whilst still allowing yourself to blame others for possible lack of success.

I think it is time to grow up, grow a pair and smell the roses!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input.

Sorry, but read mine again! You are blaming other single males for being idiots and therefore hurting your chances on here.

I think it is time to grow up, grow a pair and smell the roses!"

I haven't blamed anyone for anything I haven't even mentioned my success or anything. I started my post with the words "it seems" so I didn't even make out that what I was saying was factual it was just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits "

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input.

Sorry, but read mine again! You are blaming other single males for being idiots and therefore hurting your chances on here.

I think it is time to grow up, grow a pair and smell the roses!"

Read back the only time I replied to one of your comments was to say I seen both sides when somebody else had disagreed with you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right"

No I meant shoe. There are various terms used. Google it

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input.

Sorry, but read mine again! You are blaming other single males for being idiots and therefore hurting your chances on here.

I think it is time to grow up, grow a pair and smell the roses!

You have omitted to say you called all single men on here were idiots and how do you prove your not one, I advised to re-adjust your thinking! But no, that was not the answer you wanted!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

heres where you slagged of other people op, and where the comments are coming from.

Lol slag people off? I started off by saying it seems...so I didn't even make out what I said was factual "

Is "it seems" a get out clause?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right

No I meant shoe. There are various terms used. Google it

It's great watching you fall into the very "idiot" category that you posted about on here you have come across very arrogant and touchy, which MANY people on here have tried telling you but you've obviously chosen to ignore,well done, think you have reduced your chances meeting people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Apparently all of our comments have been a waste of time and why I bowed out, as I only pointed out that other single men have no relevance to how I perceive single men, oh well!

Not everybody but majority of yours have been. If you actually read through I've thanked numerous people for their input.

Sorry, but read mine again! You are blaming other single males for being idiots and therefore hurting your chances on here.

I think it is time to grow up, grow a pair and smell the roses!

You have omitted to say you called all single men on here were idiots and how do you prove your not one, I advised to re-adjust your thinking! But no, that was not the answer you wanted!"

As I said only response I had made was to say I could see both sides when a guy had disagreed with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

heres where you slagged of other people op, and where the comments are coming from.

Lol slag people off? I started off by saying it seems...so I didn't even make out what I said was factual

Is "it seems" a get out clause?"

No not at all. I said it seems because it was an observation I could never say for a fact that a few fools have potentially ruined the decent guys' chances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right

No I meant shoe. There are various terms used. Google it

OMG You guys are absolutely stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right

No I meant shoe. There are various terms used. Google it

In your eyes maybe. You haven't submitted one valid contribution you just seem to be out to argue

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

Any decent single guys on here should get down on their knees and give thanks for all the knobheads that make them stand out like a sunflower in a field of cabbages.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"This whole thread hasn't been good advertising for the OP.

Or for some of the other people who have posted...so I think we can leave it there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems some idiots have really damaged the reputation that single guys have on here!! Any advice on how to show people that I'm not in the league of idiots would be appreciated

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Hahahaha I thought you was just being an idiot until I checked your profile, does that work for you

You call alot of people on here idiots don't you

No I haven't...but if the shoe fits

Lol oh dear think you'll find its" if the cap fits" but yes you are right

No I meant shoe. There are various terms used. Google it

In your eyes maybe. You haven't submitted one valid contribution you just seem to be out to argue "

Sorry we won't contribute any more, we'll just sit back and watch your demise on here

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