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By *andy_kisses OP Woman over a year ago

Walsall

Really nervous about arranging a meet !!! I've had 3 but all with people I have known on here for a while. I would love to experiment more but am suddenly worried about meeting - has this happened to anyone else ????? Or am I just being silly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think nerves are all part of the excitement. If you didn't feel nervous then i'd be worried! I always feel so anxious right up until they kiss me, then i'm gone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All nerves are good, just shows that you actually care how it goes.

Just try to alleviate them a little, by reminding yourself that the other person or persons are probably as nervous as you. Also try to meet where you are all equally comfortable, a familiar club to you all etc

Good luck hunny x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always get nervous...even if ive met the person a few times before im still nervous...I think its natural n rather sweet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're not being silly, just doing something new and you don't know what to expect.

I have meets every day now, mostly with regular people but also some new ones and i don't get nervous at all coz i'm used to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Walsall guy here.

Would be nice to get to know someone nearby

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not at all ,i don't meet often and get nervous too when its someone new.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally natural its part of the fun, if my nerves went i think i would be a little worried. Nerves soon turn into excitement and once the fun starts you will forget all about them

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Yep, always nervous, even if it's just coffee

I never want to get blasé about it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep, always nervous, even if it's just coffee

I never want to get blasé about it all "

I totally agree.....nervously excited for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nerves are nstrual x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take the nerves as a good thing, I love the feeling of excitement and unknowing before meeting someone new

Have fun!

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By *onsiderateMan over a year ago

Burgess Hill

I get anxious and I'm a lot older! Want it to go right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think nerves are all part of the excitement. If you didn't feel nervous then i'd be worried! I always feel so anxious right up until they kiss me, then i'm gone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not met since beginning of January and have a meet arranged for the morning and I'm very nervous... mind u I get nervous before any meet lol am sure ul be fine x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol, i knocked over a brew this morning when my meet arrived. Erm yeah i didn't even feel nervous but i think i was.

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