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By *uzzb OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi
I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?"
Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"flat topped = me flat on my front and the other guy flat on top - just like missionary although I'm the wrong way up !"
Oh. Ok. Didn't know it was called that. It's still great. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its the female half of the couple here so probably completely different...but at certain times my cervix is at a slightly different angle and most positions with a big guy are erm uncomfortable, the best for me at those times is being flat topped so similar to what you say...but I also find spooning positions ok...or where I'm in a little spoon position with a leg up and hes in a kneeling up kinda position but I control the depth more with my leg...not sure if that translates, or if thats not worked for you already, but either way my other half gets as much out of it as me...cant imagine it would be any different for yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?
Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries..."
This^^^
If a guy is just ramming in their knowing he's causing you discomfort/pain, then he's not a gent!!
I will always wait for the "fuck me deeper/harder" confirmation before I go ahead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?
Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries...
This^^^
If a guy is just ramming in their knowing he's causing you discomfort/pain, then he's not a gent!!
I will always wait for the "fuck me deeper/harder" confirmation before I go ahead. "
I quite liked it rough but my bum knows about it this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most of us like rough sex, but i, personally, don't like causing "uncomfortable pain", thats why i wait for the go ahead  people should be able to tell when the person on the receiving end isn't enjoying it.
But true, nothing quite like getting that message saying "my pussy/ass is broken today, thanks" that there is good, when there is no message, that is not so good  |
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By *uzzb OP Man
over a year ago
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thanks everyone. Seems to me I need more experience (so a very nice private messager has suggested) and things will settle down. Also watch out for the big blokes with a big hammer !!
Now I just need to get over the problem of going a bit soft when I try to fuck someone - by the time the condom is on and lubed, and I've found the hole, its gone from ramrod to - well - not so ramrod !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try skyns condoms. Much more sensitivity and they don't taste yuk so I can continue with a helpful BJ for my lovers to ensure ramrod status is preserved  |
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