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we only soft swing when we do swap and had no problems in the clubs we have been to!
I (ritchie) have been to parties that were full on, but if you let everyone know your limits during general chat before playing, I am quite positive that you will get people respecting your wishes. Of course you can get idiots in any situation, but I am sure that if you build a rapport beforehand you won't have any problems.
Now don't let the horror stories that will probably follow put you off! |
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I agree,nost people are respectful of peoples limits/bounderies but you will get people who think they can take a chance in play situation,just make sure you let people know before you meet/play x |
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When we first started clubbing we stuck to soft swinging for the first few visits, people we played with respected that and we had lots of fun without feeling pressured. We had our first full swap when we were both happy to go all the way with another couple. If we're playing with another couple who soft-swing only we don't push things, think you will find most people are like that. |
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At Chameleons it is very easy to do what you want, full blown orgies, full swing, soft swing or no swing or even swing in the swing.
There are group rooms, an orgy room and private lockable rooms where you and your partner can play alone or lock yourselves away with a selected couple/single and just do what you all want to do and nothing more.
Most clubs offer the same facilities (but not all) |
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look in the club tab at the top to see what clubs/spas are in your area. we always state our boundaries at the get go and have always had a great time. we tend to assume people want soft play and then go from there once play starts. you can generally tell if full is an option should you all want it.
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"hi i just wanted to no is their any clubs or partys that soft swing only"
As above regarding clubs...just let the other couple or single know that you only want soft swing(but be precise without being over the top...soft swing definitions vary)
Dont think there are any clubs who just have soft swing evenings unless privately organised.
We both soft swing and full swap but we have wanted to meet several couples who soft swing only and who also wanted to meet others who soft swing....so we arranged our own party...great time,great fun,everyone left more than happy and most very sticky!!
If you are at parties then again just let the others know your boundaries and remember its OK to say no but as long as you are both happy its OK to say yes 
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"It's no good, I've got to ask, as a newbie to all this.......
just what is the difference between soft and full swinging? 
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Soft swing is usually everything(oral,masterbation,touching,kissing)except penetration...there are slight variations sometimes depending on peoples boundaries/preferences ie:full sex own partner only.
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It varies according to different people.
For some it is 4 people in the same room, each plays with thier own partner only, they all enjoy "naughty sex" ie being watched, hearing the other couple, watching the other couple.
More common is as above but with the addition of the girls playing with each other and the guys watching but only playing with thier own partners.
Then there is the 2 (or more) couples in a room all playing with each other, oral sex, carressing, hand sex, kissing etc but each only has sexual penetration with thier own partner. There are various alternatives to that one as not all couple kiss, some will only do oral with condoms on be they the male or female type condom, some like the bukake added and so on.
The real answer is : soft sex is what you want it to be and full swap is what you want it to be, since many couples who "full swap" won't kiss etc.
You just have to sort out with your selected partners exactly what they like and dislike beforehand if your concerned. |
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We soft swing only at the moment though we do want to experience a full swap when the time is right. We tend to go with another couple and will indulge in oral and hand touching and then have sex with our own partners. have never felt under any pressure to do anything more. I have been asked and Ive said no and its been ok, no pressure or anything. |
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