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By *rancisK OP Man
over a year ago
Essex |
I have a massive fantasy to get with a woman who is a lot older than me, e.g 35 plus. I am 19 and am wondering if there are women out there who would enjoy this and if you think there should be limits too. Thanks for the advice |
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By *rancisK OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry our limit is just outside 95"
That's what I was wondering how low women who like younger men are willing to go, just wondering if I am too young at the moment and should stick with girls my own age? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 23 and I'm the same with regards to Cougars and Milfs - anyone over 35 fancy a meet ha?
BBWs as well, I just don't know why ha x"
I think that maybe using these disparaging terms would put a lot of women off. Women do not want to be defined by their age. Anyone refers to me as such in a message they are deleted and blocked  |
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"I'm 23 and I'm the same with regards to Cougars and Milfs - anyone over 35 fancy a meet ha?
BBWs as well, I just don't know why ha x
I think that maybe using these disparaging terms would put a lot of women off. Women do not want to be defined by their age. Anyone refers to me as such in a message they are deleted and blocked "
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I'm 28 and must admit is my fantasy too to have an older fwb. Searches for cougar dating sites always reveal scam sites, so its hard to find them. I hear you on this one. I think its generally hard to meet women in general though with the masses of men competing so to speak, keep going and be yourself. Good luck |
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"just go to Tescos,,,and keep walkin till u find someone......"
Interesting comment  . Ive heard shopping is a great place to meet women (its popular in america apparently). But aside from a smile and a hello what would you say?...look in her basket and say "nice ripe melons you've got there" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Young guys looking for an 'older woman' might have more luck at a club. Spontaneous, heat of the moment, encounters often overcome potential age difference objections. In our experience anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have any problem fucking a 19 year old - if a 19 year old wanted to fuck me - though we only play in clubs so he would have to be a member."
id Love to meet you guys at a club when youre playing
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As with all things it will be a matter of personal preference, some could have children around your age so find it too taboo, whereas for some you will be ideal.
A good tip is if you find them attractive just call them sexy/beautiful women try to avoid terms that have age references like older, mature, milf and cougar |
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By *rancisK OP Man
over a year ago
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"As with all things it will be a matter of personal preference, some could have children around your age so find it too taboo, whereas for some you will be ideal.
A good tip is if you find them attractive just call them sexy/beautiful women try to avoid terms that have age references like older, mature, milf and cougar"
Yes I agree, I never thought that Cougar was seen as a derogatory term but by some of the comments it seems that some women don't like it at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As with all things it will be a matter of personal preference, some could have children around your age so find it too taboo, whereas for some you will be ideal.
A good tip is if you find them attractive just call them sexy/beautiful women try to avoid terms that have age references like older, mature, milf and cougar
Yes I agree, I never thought that Cougar was seen as a derogatory term but by some of the comments it seems that some women don't like it at all"
Some women do not need to be reminded of their age - we all have mirrors, thank you very much.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As with all things it will be a matter of personal preference, some could have children around your age so find it too taboo, whereas for some you will be ideal.
A good tip is if you find them attractive just call them sexy/beautiful women try to avoid terms that have age references like older, mature, milf and cougar
Yes I agree, I never thought that Cougar was seen as a derogatory term but by some of the comments it seems that some women don't like it at all"
Agreed - apologies for any offence caused. i have seen other women use these terms however will try and avoid in the future!
I must say all the women who've commented on this all look lovely but distance is sort of stopping me from messaging them - always a problem eh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why you old lasses 35 up don't give the kid a chance.  "
Because after 40 your eyesight goes and I'm struggling to read this thread. And it's bingo tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why you old lasses 35 up don't give the kid a chance.
Because after 40 your eyesight goes and I'm struggling to read this thread. And it's bingo tonight "
Luckily my eyesight is still in tact and from your profile pics must say you're looking fantastic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why you old lasses 35 up don't give the kid a chance.
Because after 40 your eyesight goes and I'm struggling to read this thread. And it's bingo tonight "
great response!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When is your birthday ?
Um 1995, like I said I'm 19
i was born in 1992 so your nearly 20 x
i like older 30+ black guys not into younger tho x"
Bloody hell if your to young for a 22 year old you have no chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love younger guys, the stamina! my first meet recently was with a guy who was 21 and amazing, depends on the guy though, i'd only choose someone who could have a decent conversation too, levels of maturity vary xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have any problem fucking a 19 year old - if a 19 year old wanted to fuck me - though we only play in clubs so he would have to be a member."
wow!! Your profile and pictures are very appealing!! Yes pleaz
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cougars are shy here lad im still waiting...
Your veris show you've been with ladies older than yourself already...don't you class them as cougars?"
No I wouldn't class them as cougars as I was pretty much the one taking the lead. Id class a cougar as someone who does not give up the dominate role.. without a little....err...tussle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What age is prerequisite to be a cougar? We have just been invited to a cougar and cubs party this week and not sure to be flattered about the invite! "
Anything past thirty I guess! Or maybe even going for someone who is 10 or 15 years younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs. "
Well then it probably varies to your own opinion then! Haha
And so true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What age is prerequisite to be a cougar? We have just been invited to a cougar and cubs party this week and not sure to be flattered about the invite! "
Perhaps you're the cubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has to be said that there are a lot of gorgeous older ladies in this thread "
Couldn't agree more
Wondering whether I am within the limits for any ladies here ha |
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"What age is prerequisite to be a cougar? We have just been invited to a cougar and cubs party this week and not sure to be flattered about the invite! "
Ive always thought of cougars to be around late 30s into 40s. Anything mid thirties and below is classed as milf.
Either way, they're both sexy as hell even into late 40s look at the porn star Jamet Mason for example...id never let her leave the bedroom..lol...Hot... And if the saying some women use, you're only as young as the man you feel ...I'm 28 |
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By *rancisK OP Man
over a year ago
Essex |
"30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs. "
I think It's all about the age gap and the experience of the ladies that makes them cougars, I'm bored of young inexperienced girls |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs.
I think It's all about the age gap and the experience of the ladies that makes them cougars, I'm bored of young inexperienced girls"
atta boy... way to burn those bridges!!!! you do know thats really.... really not helping your cause
once you say stuff like that... the old "backtrack dance" is almost impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha I'm same! Not bored with young women though haha I don't get pleasure off any women haha! But an older women is my fantasy as well mucker! So your not alone as the song goes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs.
I think It's all about the age gap and the experience of the ladies that makes them cougars, I'm bored of young inexperienced girls"
who says young girls arnt experienced x
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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who stays young girls arnt experienced x
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will you sush!!!!! hey if he wants to run over young women in the big bus (okay that didn't sound right)....
i thought it would have been the "cock-snob" line that would have drew anger... damn thats a fiver bet i lost!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who stays young girls arnt experienced x
will you sush!!!!! hey if he wants to run over young women in the big bus (okay that didn't sound right)....
i thought it would have been the "cock-snob" line that would have drew anger... damn thats a fiver bet i lost!!! "
why not a get run over by a lorry might as well x
there's more inexperienced young guys to be far x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i thought it would have been the "cock-snob" line that would have drew anger... damn thats a fiver bet i lost!!! "
Heys, I meant no offence by that cock-snob line, well unless said offended ladies are really admitting that themselves! It's one thing for a woman to have her preferences about size, and another thing to see "VVWEs/BBCs APPLY WITHIN" on their profiles and you're left thinking "HMM... what do they have to offer in return then asking for such requirements from the men?"
You always hear women say how some guys think that packing a large can of whoop-ass in their pants makes them sex gods and they automatically get stud-status/get arrogant, but has anyone thought that some women actually encourage such male mentality by making an overemphasis on size? Hell, you want a nine-inch gun go find an escort, swinging is also about personality and how you do things, not just what you are gifted with!
And sorry if I offended you, I just say it as it is, no sense in sugarcoating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When is your birthday ?
Um 1995, like I said I'm 19
i was born in 1992 so your nearly 20 x"
Jesus born in 92 and 95. I was out getting pissed earning a living getting a mortgage and shagging a lot then.... Now I just feel old |
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Apparently
30 to 40 age group are pumas.
40 to 50. Cougars
And over jaguars !!!
Or if there is bigger than 8 years gal ... But whoses counting
My average cubs are 18 to 22 years difference ;0)
And I'm not a cougar. I don't hunt them !!!! Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently
30 to 40 age group are pumas.
40 to 50. Cougars
And over jaguars !!!
Or if there is bigger than 8 years gal ... But whoses counting
My average cubs are 18 to 22 years difference ;0)
And I'm not a cougar. I don't hunt them !!!! Xx
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I bet they hunt you lol |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
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"30 seems like a little low limit to call a lady a "cougar" methinks. But hey, I do tend to find that more mature women appreciate men more than young ones who have all the looks but are cock-snobs.
I think It's all about the age gap and the experience of the ladies that makes them cougars, I'm bored of young inexperienced girls"
At way out of cougar age range (Is there a out the oap section on fab??)I get very bored with young wanting experience boys! 40+ is good over 35 sometimes acceptable under that and there is no attraction for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently
30 to 40 age group are pumas.
40 to 50. Cougars
And over jaguars !!!
Or if there is bigger than 8 years gal ... But whoses counting
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Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust me mate there plenty of time to go with women 35 + when your my age you would love to go with girls 19 + lol
Happy swinging !!! "
haha its funny how the tables turn. at this rate itll never happen as ill be the 'older 1' and yes probably looking for young hot girls ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 50
Had a lovely 24 year old
And a 20 year old before Christmas
So you could say that I definitely like younger men
??"
A young guy is not just for Christmas |
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"I'm 50
Had a lovely 24 year old
And a 20 year old before Christmas
So you could say that I definitely like younger men
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A young guy is not just for Christmas "
No but he was for a good 18 hours
Lmao
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 50
Had a lovely 24 year old
And a 20 year old before Christmas
So you could say that I definitely like younger men
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A young guy is not just for Christmas
No but he was for a good 18 hours
Lmao
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Ahahaha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well going by the amount of thread's about this subject you would have thought we would have been inundated with messages today after putting up an add this morning for a younger guy for jools to play with tonight.
However we have not had any messages from a single guy in the age bracket we asked for. Under 25
Guess for most talking about it and actually doing it are two different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well going by the amount of thread's about this subject you would have thought we would have been inundated with messages today after putting up an add this morning for a younger guy for jools to play with tonight.
However we have not had any messages from a single guy in the age bracket we asked for. Under 25
Guess for most talking about it and actually doing it are two different things. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's possible that some of us just couldn't have sex with men younger or the same age as their children"
I don't have children.
"Young guys looking for an 'older woman' might have more luck at a club. Spontaneous, heat of the moment, encounters often overcome potential age difference objections. In our experience anyway"
YES, please!
Gents, DO let me know when you are in a club near me!
As long as you are a person with a formed personality, I'm happy!
I do prefer younger than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Hey. We are already on it
Does that mean all you northern cougars and cubs need to come south ?
Or shall I take it on tour"
Take it on tour, yes please! |
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Well I am simply an older woman
Not defined by age weight looks sexuality personality style or intellect
I am the sum of all these things and I'm very content and confident in who I am aged 50
Young men find the confidence attractive more than the age I think
And long may these gorgeous "boys" land in my intra
Because they're most welcome even if we never meet
I reply to almost every message I'm sent
Even if it's a polite no thanks
That's why my verifications are good and recent xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time i was with an older woman i was 17, she was 32, I stayed with her for a year. Next gf was 23 I was 18.
I've mostly been with older women, they are out their dude, keep with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I am simply an older woman
Not defined by age weight looks sexuality personality style or intellect
I am the sum of all these things and I'm very content and confident in who I am aged 50
Young men find the confidence attractive more than the age I think
And long may these gorgeous "boys" land in my intra
Because they're most welcome even if we never meet
I reply to almost every message I'm sent
Even if it's a polite no thanks
That's why my verifications are good and recent xxxx "
I read your profile and that just showed me how filthy you are. Just know that a session would be hot as fuck. Not even interested in age |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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When i was 25 i had an amazing relationship with a woman in her 50s, the best thing was i didn't need to call her an older woman or a cougar, she was just sexy as hell and dirty to boot (first one to use a strap on on me!).
Mind you i've always found that sexiness is about the person first, so i tend to prefer to get to know them (yeah i know that's weird) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
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Quite shocked no responses or just nothing quite right
sorry to no luck  |
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
??!"
Mid week ... Meets for cubs.
At weekends they go out with their girlfriends and mates. Play football and visit their mothers. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
??!
Mid week ... Meets for cubs.
At weekends they go out with their girlfriends and mates. Play football and visit their mothers. Lol. "
lol not all of that is true lol harsh. ... |
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"just go to Tescos,,,and keep walkin till u find someone......
Interesting comment . Ive heard shopping is a great place to meet women (its popular in america apparently). But aside from a smile and a hello what would
you say?...look in her basket
and say "nice ripe melons
you've got there" "
Hello boys
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"Sorry our limit is just outside 95
That's what I was wondering how low women who like younger men are willing to go, just wondering if I am too young at the moment and should stick with girls my own age?"
No - finding women on fab is a tough challenge for all single guys. It's tougher if the guy has stricter criteria for who he'll meet.
Many people like me don't care about a guy being younger, as long as he's got the right qualities as a person.
Using fab needs some staying power for single guys, just like you'll need when you're shagging us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
??!
Quite shocked no responses or just nothing quite right
sorry to no luck "
No responses. Only one's from guy's we messaged and they seemed pretty uninterested and a little vague.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
??!
Quite shocked no responses or just nothing quite right
sorry to no luck
No responses. Only one's from guy's we messaged and they seemed pretty uninterested and a little vague.
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Shame about the distance as I expressed with you, stunning x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we put ad up all weekend for a guy, no luck at all and have a an ad in meets section.
??!
Quite shocked no responses or just nothing quite right
sorry to no luck
No responses. Only one's from guy's we messaged and they seemed pretty uninterested and a little vague.
Shame about the distance as I expressed with you, stunning x"
Yes thanks for message. But as u said distance is the issue. |
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"Well I am simply an older woman
Not defined by age weight looks sexuality personality style or intellect
I am the sum of all these things and I'm very content and confident in who I am aged 50
Young men find the confidence attractive more than the age I think
And long may these gorgeous "boys" land in my intra
Because they're most welcome even if we never meet
I reply to almost every message I'm sent
Even if it's a polite no thanks
That's why my verifications are good and recent xxxx
I read your profile and that just showed me how filthy you are. Just know that a session would be hot as fuck. Not even interested in age"
I agree
It's about the person firstly
But my main likes are younger and 6ft ish
Can't help what attracts me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"y late 60 cant understand lol"
Me? If so, I don't have a limit, I prefer to see how well I get on with the person or couple, and if I am attracted. Age is a complete non issue, my age limits are just set as so because people seem to have an issue leaving it 18-99 |
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By *inzWoman
over a year ago
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Francis I may be a bit shallow but if you want an opinion from a "cougar" your body would put me off ie not manly enough I would suggest hitting the weights? On the upside you have a lovely cock , but like I said that's just my opinion xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Francis I may be a bit shallow but if you want an opinion from a "cougar" your body would put me off ie not manly enough I would suggest hitting the weights? On the upside you have a lovely cock , but like I said that's just my opinion xx"
thats deep...
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