Hi everyone,
I'm completely new to the whole swingers scene. But im a single guy horny as hell 24/7 so figured it would be great chance to:
A: relax and meet great people and make friends in the process
B: hopefully make a friend with benefits.
The problem is im very shy and at the moment feel like a fish out of water. Ive been to 2 socials so far at Amours in Manchester, this second time was easier and I wasnt as nervous. But there havent been any women around my age going to the socials. And im really eager to have some fun.
Is it early days? Can anyone give me some hints to making a success of my goals above from your experience?
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Keep going to the socials and meeting people which gives others the chance to see that you are genuine. The whole meeting fems on the other hand isn't so easy there are so many men in here you have to make yourself stand out from the rest xx |
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As others have said already, keep going to the socials. Its virtually impossible for men to stand out on this site, so you need to makesure you keep going to get your face recognised and for people to get to know you a little.
You will probably always be a little nervous. We still get that before a meet/club visit and we love the nervous excitement, its part of the buzz for us and if we stopped feeling that, we'd know its time to take a break from the scene. Good luck, you've already taken the biggest steps Juicy x |
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Having been at Amour both times you were there we can see that your less nervous tonight, to us, the first line of your profile suggests your seeking a gf.
You can not accommodate, so need to say why on your profile |
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Having been at Amour both times you were there we can see that your less nervous tonight, to us, the first line of your profile suggests your seeking a gf.
You can not accommodate, so need to say why on your profile, also what do you have to offer a Lady? |
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For saying that you've only been here for 3 weeks youre doing fine. On average it takes up to 6 months to meet someone and get verified. Keep doing what you're doing, go to socials, get your face known and chat to people. In going to socials you're already doing more than most guys are, let that count for you.
Work on your profile and selling yourself, its a marathon not a sprint |
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Awesome advice everyone thanks, its very much appreciated and I thank you for your time in replying. Will look into my profile text too, always great to get a 3rd persons view. Its hard to write about yourself and get yourself in one without the waffle lol. |
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"You never get over nerves .
WE still are when meeting new peeps .
Have fun "
Thats interesting and great to know. I think i can understand what you're saying, I guess that though you may get familiar with the whole swinging scene, meeting new people is like doing it all over again on day one. Thanks and have a great week. |
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"Keep going to the socials and meeting people which gives others the chance to see that you are genuine. The whole meeting fems on the other hand isn't so easy there are so many men in here you have to make yourself stand out from the rest xx"
Thank you. I do hope that my friendly and respectful personality will help in that matter. I've heard stories of some guys harassing women and crossing acceptable borders perhaps on interaction. I believe we're here to meet people and put smiles on faces and if connections are made... faces on smiley places but respect is a must for the long run
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Hi you appear to be a very friendly polite guy who has a attractive face and smile try a new photo clean shaven and a shirt no tie outside or doing something you are interested in. be more confident in your profile and less how horny you are (we are all horny) keep doing the socials and do the time game good luck xx |
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