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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?"
not at all, but let a bloke bum you then yeah your bi then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself.
Twosome always talks sense, very much this  "
How very dare you accuse me of talking sense 
Damn........I need to start waffling more  |
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself.
Twosome always talks sense, very much this
How very dare you accuse me of talking sense
Damn........I need to start waffling more "
I have bisexual on my profile, but would prefer bi-playful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had An insightful conversation with user (essex_tom) and have come to the conclusion it's what I fancy, not what I f*ck that determines my sexual orientation, I now declare myself "Bi-Playful" thanks for your input fellow fabbers, let the swinging begin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently you're bi curious until you push back. That's what they told me when I joined.
Now look at me; taking it like a slut, dressing like a girl and they call me Rachael! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now look at me; taking it like a slut, dressing like a girl and they call me Rachael!
Give it time, there's room for improvement here, lol."
I'm practicing lots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men on here would do anything for a partner that dons a strap-on for them, kick back and enjoy your life, no need for labels - you like what you like
Hex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of men on here would do anything for a partner that dons a strap-on for them, kick back and enjoy your life, no need for labels - you like what you like
Hex"
I like your take on this, I feel privileged now. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The Mrs has a fantasy of seeing me get rogered by another bloke, and my fave toy is a strap on.. So naturally killing two birds with one stone, I've decided in my head now, it's what you fancy, not what you f*ck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Enjoy op stuff what the idiot said . We are all individuals and do what you and your Mrs want to do . Good luck to the pair of you "
Oh I will, I wouldn't care if I turned out to be bisexual, I just didn't know how you know if your bisexual, I won't say no to a bloke fu*kng me, but I don't fancy men, can appreciate them tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know where you are coming from. I don't have an attraction to men but am very interested in COCK. Class myself as orally bi. But more on the straighter end of the spectrum. Have fun and enjoy the experiences  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know exactly where your coming from, for me it started when an ex gf used a strap on on me, a fantastic experience and have lots more experiences since.
i have also fairly recently enjoyed the pleasures of having a real cock inside me too and have learnt to push back too. Like you i don't fancy guy but enjoy all the pleasures that guy on guy fun can offer.
does that make me bi then? |
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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago
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Not Bi.
I am genuinely bisexual, that means that I get aroused looking at women as much as men, wanting to touch and explore their bodies.
For me the attraction is about the individual not their gender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi when playing in a group, (It only seems polite when you're fucking their other half! ) but have never seen a woman who I've fancied.
Who cares about labels? Just do what makes you happy...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont fancy many men and dont think I could ever be in a relationship with a man but love to suck and receive cock. Thats the problem with labels you can't always stick one on someone. Best thing to do just enjoy being who you are and what you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it all went wrong between me and my wife I might try a same sex relationship. I've always wondered if I might be gay. Ish. Women really turn me on too though. Confused.com. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I agree with you - it is about who you fancy. Our profile says I am bisexual, but in reality I would just class myself as 'bi-playful', I dont fancy women in everyday life, and I couldnt have a relationship with one, but I do enjoy playing with other women when the occasion arises.
As others have said - why label yourself? Aslong as you and your wife are comfortable with your sexual choices, wheres the need to pigeonhole yourself, or try to fit into an ideal?
Just enjoy the ride you're on. Juicy x |
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"Dont fancy many men and dont think I could ever be in a relationship with a man but love to suck and receive cock. Thats the problem with labels you can't always stick one on someone. Best thing to do just enjoy being who you are and what you do "
and who you do it with  |
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?
not at all, but let a bloke bum you then yeah your bi then."
Yeah a woman pleasuring you with a strapon doesn't make you bi just because you enjoy anal but if you do get a guy to fuck you and you enjoy his hands caressing you etc then that would be bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?
not at all, but let a bloke bum you then yeah your bi then.
Yeah a woman pleasuring you with a strapon doesn't make you bi just because you enjoy anal but if you do get a guy to fuck you and you enjoy his hands caressing you etc then that would be bi "
sounds like I'm bi then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When are admin going to put bi playful as an option... seriously there are just so many people male and female that would like this option its ridiculous. . Please admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There seems to be an overwhelming amount of labelling in Fab of late, you are what you are. Enjoy the fun and don't worry what others think as long as you both are having a good time sod the rest. And pegging is so much fun so get to it . |
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Don't sweat it. Pegging is one of the most satisfying and possibly the best way to bring you two closer (no pun intended). You as a straight male are just letting your missus take the lead. And getting enjoyment to boot.
It's not gay, bi, or even curious. It's with your partner. It's how sex is meant to be.
Now if it was me behind you with your wife watching.... Well then maybe xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had to redraft this 4 times to try and get across my thoughts on this.
A lot of the site get hung up on labels, you can see this from the "no bi's" profiles and the amount of "straight guys" who are bi.
It has been stated many times that sexuality is a spectrum from straight to gay and everything inbetween.
Do you have to fit in anywhere in particular?
Some people are:
Gay but situationally bi.
Straight but bi curious.
Bi playful.
I could go on...
It isn't even as simple as attraction, because whilst you need attraction of some kind to play, raw sexual attraction in the moment is arguably different to sit down with a coffee and a natter.
Would I actively seek out men?
No.
Could I take a cock?
No.
Could I be blindfolded and given a blowjob by a couple?
Probably.
Could I have sex with a feminine ts?
Probably.
Is there a label for straight but would consider being top under the right circumstances, although I am selfish enough to not want any intraction with another penis, although dvp and dp does not contradict this rule, and incidental contact with my penis by the gentleman of a couple, or a feminine tv/ts, and maybe consider being pegged by a sympathetic and considerate lady for her pleasure only?
According to some, that makes me bi.
I am me, you are you, sod what anyone else thinks! |
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By *onkersMan
over a year ago
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"Just had An insightful conversation with user (essex_tom) and have come to the conclusion it's what I fancy, not what I f*ck that determines my sexual orientation, I now declare myself "Bi-Playful" thanks for your input fellow fabbers, let the swinging begin!"
enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont fancy many men and dont think I could ever be in a relationship with a man but love to suck and receive cock. Thats the problem with labels you can't always stick one on someone. Best thing to do just enjoy being who you are and what you do "
+1
if it feels good do it |
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?"
No it makes you gay now go off and find all the men and leave the ladies to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Enjoy op stuff what the idiot said . We are all individuals and do what you and your Mrs want to do . Good luck to the pair of you "
I suppose the question you need to ask is do you find men sexually attractive as well as women?
... I wouldn't worry too much about labelling but I see the dilemma when trying to organise a specific situation. But then I'm sure there are plenty of like minded fabbers with you here!
... Putting things up your bum for heightened sexual pleasure doesn't make you bi though, neither does having your mrs fuck you with a strap on! For many men this submission is a massive turn on in itself, let alone the great orgasms you can achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?"
No if you do something because your mrs likes it and wants you to do it , just means she is lucky to have a guy that will do it for her pleasure .
I am sure that you can't catch the "bi " from being fucked with a strap on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself."
This is such a stupid & unhelpful thing to say. Especially to someone who's trying to understand themselves.
Whilst labelling can be a horrible thing, it can also be liberating. Try telling a black person to stop labelling themselves as black.
You aren't bi, otherwise you would want to have sex with a man. You did this with a woman, and with no evidence to suggest otherwise, this makes you straight. If you want to try this with a man, there is nothing wrong with that, but if this is new for you your trepidation is understandable whilst you rediscover yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself.
This is such a stupid & unhelpful thing to say. Especially to someone who's trying to understand themselves.
Whilst labelling can be a horrible thing, it can also be liberating. Try telling a black person to stop labelling themselves as black.
You aren't bi, otherwise you would want to have sex with a man. You did this with a woman, and with no evidence to suggest otherwise, this makes you straight. If you want to try this with a man, there is nothing wrong with that, but if this is new for you your trepidation is understandable whilst you rediscover yourself. "
He can understand and liberate himself without requiring a label.
maybe the op would find being labelled a straightjacket? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and the Mrs got a little tipsy and ended up in the directors room a couple of weekends ago, one thing led to another and she was f*cking me with a strap on, ignoring our mobile as the messages were thick and fast.. One message stuck out to me.. "Your Bi mate, letting your missus f*ck you" my profile was set as straight then, it's Bi now so I can fulfil a fantasy for Mrs, I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?"
Nope |
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Does it really matter?? You may get a response you prefer, if you write to the sun, dear deidre, she will also send you a leaflet which explains how we are all on a sexual journey which includes crossroads,hope you take the interesting road... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I'm yet to interact with another male sexualy but I love the missus riding me with a strap on.. Does this make me Bi?"
Well, having another woman fuck me senseless with a strap-on many times has never made me straight....
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself.
This is such a stupid & unhelpful thing to say. Especially to someone who's trying to understand themselves.
Whilst labelling can be a horrible thing, it can also be liberating. Try telling a black person to stop labelling themselves as black.
You aren't bi, otherwise you would want to have sex with a man. You did this with a woman, and with no evidence to suggest otherwise, this makes you straight. If you want to try this with a man, there is nothing wrong with that, but if this is new for you your trepidation is understandable whilst you rediscover yourself.
He can understand and liberate himself without requiring a label.
maybe the op would find being labelled a straightjacket?"
Mr marmite.I am not sure you are in any position to tell the op what he is."Your not bi" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why worry about labels, you are you and that's it.
Don't stress about what to call yourself.
This is such a stupid & unhelpful thing to say. Especially to someone who's trying to understand themselves.
Whilst labelling can be a horrible thing, it can also be liberating. Try telling a black person to stop labelling themselves as black.
You aren't bi, otherwise you would want to have sex with a man. You did this with a woman, and with no evidence to suggest otherwise, this makes you straight. If you want to try this with a man, there is nothing wrong with that, but if this is new for you your trepidation is understandable whilst you rediscover yourself.
He can understand and liberate himself without requiring a label.
maybe the op would find being labelled a straightjacket? Mr marmite.I am not sure you are in any position to tell the op what he is."Your not bi" "
I'm not trying to tell him what he is. I'm encouraging him to be whatever he wants to be. Equally if he wants to label himself bi, that is brilliant. His choice. But this all started from him being pegged and someone labelling him bi.
I honestly don't get the obsession with labelling people on their behalf. |
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