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Hi just a quick one here
Obviously we are a young couple but we seem to be getting a lot of insults and trouble on here off of people because of how young we are its as if it offends people that we are on this site I think we have the same right as anyone to be on here but there's always someone having a dig does anyone else seem to have this problem or think it's a problem that we are on this site because we can't see what's wrong with it
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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There is absolutely no reason why anyone should insult you or be unpleasant - as you say you have just as much right to be on here as anyone. We've been lucky because people have been nice to us - but we're beginning to realise that isn't true for everyone.
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"Hi just a quick one here
Obviously we are a young couple but we seem to be getting a lot of insults and trouble on here off of people because of how young we are its as if it offends people that we are on this site I think we have the same right as anyone to be on here but there's always someone having a dig does anyone else seem to have this problem or think it's a problem that we are on this site because we can't see what's wrong with it
Thanks "
You only live once so if it feels right and you enjoy yourselves fuck what anyone else thinks |
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Some people on here are over 70 does anyone abuse them for being too old and ask them if their kids know.Its your body and your mind so do what you feel is right for you.In other words fuck um! Fuch um all ! |
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"Some people on here are over 70 does anyone abuse them for being too old and ask them if their kids know.Its your body and your mind so do what you feel is right for you.In other words fuck um! Fuch um all !"
Ummmmmm, I'm 55 and yes I get messages like that  |
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"Some people on here are over 70 does anyone abuse them for being too old and ask them if their kids know.Its your body and your mind so do what you feel is right for you.In other words fuck um! Fuch um all !
Ummmmmm, I'm 55 and yes I get messages like that "
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I think everyone who is on fab has had hassle from someone at sometime on here.
Sometimes its because they are too young, or too old, or too male, or too Asian, or too black or whatever other perceived difference the haters pick on.
Do what you guys want and be what you are and like has been said, report and block the haters.
Enjoy your time on fab, there are lots of nice sexy people that will take you for what you are; you just need to find them.
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You are both adults and know what you want. I was married with 3 children at the grand old age of 21 and knew my own mind. Keep enjoying yourself and report anyone being abusive |
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"Hi just a quick one here
Obviously we are a young couple but we seem to be getting a lot of insults and trouble on here off of people because of how young we are its as if it offends people that we are on this site I think we have the same right as anyone to be on here but there's always someone having a dig does anyone else seem to have this problem or think it's a problem that we are on this site because we can't see what's wrong with it
Thanks "
. You are lucky to be so young and have lots to look forward to. People of all ages get insults on this site on occasions . Just remember that it is the people who are making the insults are wasting their own time , not yours .As you seem to be getting quite a few meets you have nothing to worry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Opinions are like Arse holes everyone has one but honestly who cares? Don't let a few negative people put you off if you are comfortable with what your doing keep on doing it  |
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Hi to you both
Just cause your young doesn't mean your not allowed to enjoy yourselves so each to there own
I'm sure there are many men and women are looking for a younger hot couple like yourselves so ignore others and focus on what you want
Hot pics by the way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'd go one further and report them for being abusive.
sick of bitter people on here who think they can give people shit."
This +1.
Someone's age (young or old) is no excuse for being a muppet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just jealousy....from older couple/women outside your age range. Ignore and block.
if its particularly offensive then report to admin let them take appropriate action.
I'm too old n too far away for you...but have had fun on here with others your age. Good luck and remember.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been here since we were 21 had one or two comments about our age, for us it's not your age that's off putting it's that your entire profile is about being Young |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been here since we were 21 had one or two comments about our age, for us it's not your age that's off putting it's that your entire profile is about being Young "
I think there profile has been set up to answer those that are commenting on their age?
I think age is immaterial, for me its more about interaction, personality.
If people do have a problem with you, it probably is because of jealousy. A threat for some reason. Just ignore and block, or if its really abusive, report to admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some ppl it don't matter what they think the problem is there jealous end of, ignore it bloke them and enjoy all those who are very happy your on here, ppl with high opinion of others they don't know normally have boring life's with nothing better todo , happy fabbing sexy couple xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Glad you're sorted now.
Just one thing I noticed; you're confident to describe Deedar as good looking but Describe Char as average/ good looking.
Be confident. She's hot as hell. Way above average. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lovely to see the support
As everyone else said ignore the haters they are just jealous, have tons of fun and enjoy yourselves, and if you fancya bloody good rave with sexy likeminded people ( 25 - 45 average age range ) get yourselves along to Phukt you will love it x
S and J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"may be they are just plain old jealous of the fact your young and very sexy with it just ignore the hates and enjoy the ones who want to be with you which I am sure there is plenty xxxxxxxx "
This exactly |
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Give it 6 months and they'll be saying you're to old.
What does it matter what anyone else thinks? If it makes you guys happy...... That's what you should worry about. Anyone else, that's what the block button is for. Don't argue with them, don't try and defend it, just block and move on.
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For every asshole on fab there's a gem to replace them so keep swinging we are 21 and 24 and we're happy and live an adventurous sex life honestly speaking keep chatting in forums and maybe go to clubs there's plenty of lovely folk about xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just a quick one here
Obviously we are a young couple but we seem to be getting a lot of insults and trouble on here off of people because of how young we are its as if it offends people that we are on this site I think we have the same right as anyone to be on here but there's always someone having a dig does anyone else seem to have this problem or think it's a problem that we are on this site because we can't see what's wrong with it
too tryue,
You just carry on and do what you want. It supposed to be a free country.
Thanks "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Glad you're sorted now.
Just one thing I noticed; you're confident to describe Deedar as good looking but Describe Char as average/ good looking.
Be confident. She's hot as hell. Way above average. xxx"
Definitely agree, very pretty and an envious old woman here |
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"Glad you're sorted now.
Just one thing I noticed; you're confident to describe Deedar as good looking but Describe Char as average/ good looking.
Be confident. She's hot as hell. Way above average. xxx"
I agree Char is hotttt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block / delete and shrug it off - I (f) get called a fat cow or old ***. As one answering said enjoy and go to clubs.. Enjoy and live  "
What idiots call you fat ! Probably those you have declined to meet etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As many have already said, and to reiterate that....you have as much right as anyone of legal age to be here. It is your choice and as long as you are both happy with it, then go ahead and enjoy yourselves. Don't let detractors put you off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Damn we would love to be your age again with the confidence to explore our sexual desires,which you guy's clearly have.
Well done for having the minerals to do it, ignore the bad messages, we have had stick for being soft swingers and we have politely replied it's our choice and nothing to do with them.
I think the reason the average age is higher on here because couples / singles generally take longer to get enough confidence and experience in themselves to try this kind of thing.
Think of how awesomely experienced your both going to be in 20 year's
Have fun and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people will find something wrong with everyone! It's your lives, your bodies... just ignore them, delete and block.
Enjoy the new experiences and have fun  "
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on since I was 21 guys and was in a relationship for 3 years on fab. You'll met the genuine people who are here to have fun and the others are not worth the time or effort. Keep doing what your doing and enjoy yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As with any online forum theirs the haters, the jealous ones and the trolls who just love to stir the crap. Don't let them bother you, theirs some nice people in here, take the bunch who have posted in this thread, not a bad word, maybe the haters haven't spotted it yet pmsl |
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You will come across people who think you are too young. It's none of their business, so if they are abusive, report them to Admin and block.
As someone said earlier its often sour grapes and jealousy, which drive their comments.
You have fun on the site and ignore them. |
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i love younger and get shit for that just block report if abusive you guys hav a great wknd and please pop bck in more often maybe with a funnier thread? 