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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me?? |
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There's nothing wrong with you but your profile needs some work. You need to say what you can offer, what you're into and remember that there are lots of single guys on here looking for the same thing. You need to make your profile stand out. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You might be good looking but if women don't get an idea of who you are from a profile then they will be put off.
Some couples or women don't want endless back and forth messaging about getting to know who you are, they probably want to know that simply by reading your profile.
It's not about just what YOU want it's also what you can offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile screams of desperation
Don't put things on your profile like that, women will be put off
It makes us sound like objects just to pls you "
This.
Start by rewriting your profile to talk about what you offer, not what you want. |
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"Your profile screams of desperation
Don't put things on your profile like that, women will be put off
It makes us sound like objects just to pls you "
Completely agree. Not a tempting profile at all. That would get one look from us and a no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??"
Why are you approaching people you describe as "not so attractive"? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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oh boy... where to start....
like others have said.... your profile isn't very good and screams of desperation
the headline to your profile even as a long time forum person made me cringe.... and if they is the effect on me, i can imagine it would be an instant no from a lot of other people...
another person who thinks it is just good looks that get you by...
so take a piece of advice from a munter  it isn't matter how good looking you think you are if your words and your personality dont back it up....
sit down, pen, piece of paper and actually think about what you are trying to get across...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggling to get any replies yet where am I going wrong"
Start your own thread rather than hijack this one. But I suggest you rewrite your profile, using more than one sentence, first. Try a forum search on profile help first. |
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"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??"
Need to be patient. VERY VERY patient. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some single blokes moan about not getting replies or meets. There is no rule saying people have to reply, if you cant take the heat leave the kitchen,,,, simples"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't you get some better pics taken? Your not a bad looking guy, if u got it u might as well flaunt it, some tasteful full body and ass shots might do the trick. Johnny"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??
Need to be patient. VERY VERY patient. Lol. "
WHY do you need to be very very patient. That's nonsense. You just need to be sensible and make an effort. Like Fabio said....even us "munters" (his word lol...not mine) can get plenty meets.... Look at my profile. I'm no great looker but I have plenty verifications (if that's what the OP is after....as he seems to be.
Every time , for every thread like this....the answer is the same. Effort in equates to results out!
It really isn't rocket science! |
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I certainly have a hard time because of my interest but I find being polite and unrushed will always help, ive had several meets but not working to something long term....but that's okay, I didn't pick this route as it was an easy lay I was after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some single blokes moan about not getting replies or meets. There is no rule saying people have to reply, if you cant take the heat leave the kitchen,,,, simples"
Another whinging look at my profile please I deserve a meet,......next ,maybe there are better guys that people want to meet |
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