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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here for while looking for couples MF but not getting much luck! Got pics and private face pics but not even a bite, I'm fit and good looking! Is it just all time wasters?? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Been on here for while looking for couples MF but not getting much luck! Got pics and private face pics but not even a bite, I'm fit and good looking! Is it just all time wasters??"
So is being fit and good looking all it takes then? Or was that your perception of the scene coming in
It's about using your brain and personality as much as anything else
Case in point.. Can I ask a question?
What do you think all those warnings actually achieve... They are 3/4 of your shop window |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for while looking for couples MF but not getting much luck! Got pics and private face pics but not even a bite, I'm fit and good looking! Is it just all time wasters??"
In answer to your question; yes, yes we are all time wasters, this whole website is an elaborate theatre show designed to titillate and frustrate men and to elicit their personal details so they can be sold to the all powerful gsk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on 3 weeks and whinging and moaning already.
Most couples will not meet bi-men, yes, possibly homophobic or some such horror, but true.
Plus, by claiming to be fit and good looking without showing any evidence of this could come across as rather fatuous. |
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"Wot warnings! "
These ones :
***I do not give any person or institution permission express or implied to use or reproduce for any purpose including study; any information, materials and or photographs in any form both current or future contained in this profile on this web site or any associated sites.
To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. (We suggest the rest of you post this notice.) |
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"Been on 3 weeks and whinging and moaning already.
Most couples will not meet bi-men, yes, possibly homophobic or some such horror, but true.
Plus, by claiming to be fit and good looking without showing any evidence of this could come across as rather fatuous."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Your profile is a bit nondescript and generic. You need to stand out.
You're effectively asking two other people to invite you into their relationship and share each other with you. What do you have to offer them? Why should they meet you rather than any of the thousands of other men here? You need to tell them that. Make them want to meet you.
Slapping up a few pics, (what is going on with the last but one pic btw?), a few words and some pointless warnings and announcing "I'm here, come and get me" is unlikely to work, as you seem to have found. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Ha just wanted a bit of advice and just get patronising responses!!"
No, you're getting the truth.
You must realise you're doing something wrong? Or do you really think it can't possibly be you and the entire site must be fake?
You'll only get anything out of this if you listen to the advice and act on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up 
Shag, you are so not a bull!  "
I got the muscles like one lol. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol."
It takes more than muscles to make a bull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol.
It takes more than muscles to make a bull."
What is a bull? we've never understood it tbh, and it often seems the more someone claims to be a bull, the less they have any 'bull characteristsics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol.
It takes more than muscles to make a bull.
What is a bull? we've never understood it tbh, and it often seems the more someone claims to be a bull, the less they have any 'bull characteristsics"
but the scenario is the same even if your not. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol.
It takes more than muscles to make a bull.
What is a bull? we've never understood it tbh, and it often seems the more someone claims to be a bull, the less they have any 'bull characteristsics"
It's a cuckolding term that seems to have gained popularity and is now being bandied about by those who don't really get it.
I'm not into cuckolding but it seems a bit of a daft term to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol.
It takes more than muscles to make a bull.
What is a bull? we've never understood it tbh, and it often seems the more someone claims to be a bull, the less they have any 'bull characteristsics
It's a cuckolding term that seems to have gained popularity and is now being bandied about by those who don't really get it.
I'm not into cuckolding but it seems a bit of a daft term to me."
yed it sure doed abit confusing term lol. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! I got the muscles like one lol.
It takes more than muscles to make a bull.
What is a bull? we've never understood it tbh, and it often seems the more someone claims to be a bull, the less they have any 'bull characteristsics
but the scenario is the same even if your not."
No, not really.
Besides, taking over someone else's thread to advertise is a bit rude. Start your own!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull!
explain what a bull is"
You're the one who just claimed to be one!
Start yer own thread and stop dragging this one off topic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull!
explain what a bull is
You're the one who just claimed to be one!
Start yer own thread and stop dragging this one off topic
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Good idea, will start a thread about it later, many subjects do get of topic not just this one lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please can all couples please shag the op as he has been on here for a long time
And he deserves to be inundated with offers of casual sex
Lol "
Damn, do couples have to shag every man who has been on here for ages without much success? we are all going to be very busy then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here here, thanks for the advice most of ya, I will take heed! In the meantime if anyone fancies a meet lol"
Do a browse on single males looking to meet couples within 5 miles of your area that will give you an idea of how many males your up against which is why you need to make sure your profile and your messages stand out from all of them. As a few people have already said not many like cock pics and messages need to get the peoples attention and make them want to chat/meet with you. You will have to be patient |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!"
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas."
This is god advice, but let us all be completely honest here, it would mean gaining a few inches in certain places, and definitely adopting a different attitude |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
For as fit and as good looking as you think you may be it still takes brains and personality to put that in a package to make you appeal to you target audience
The reason I asked what you thought the warnings meant is they take up the majority of the profile
Ca I let you into a little secret..... They are not worth a single thing which means you followed everyone else or didn't do basic reading
It's the little things that can make a difference
You have not given couples any idea they may be ideal for you (read your profile again )
I am a huge advocate for sitting down with a pen and paper and jotting down how you want to come across and what you are after before even putting it on here |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"he can be camp he's bi sexual after all. cock shots are ok, as long as they look good. those do not imho."
Agree which is why I didn't mention the pics myself.
And yes, one or two cock pics with a mix of others is no problem. If they look good. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas.
This is god advice, but let us all be completely honest here, it would mean gaining a few inches in certain places, and definitely adopting a different attitude"
I don't think that attitude is bad tbh. I think he misunderstood the nature of the site and what people look for.
Whether he takes the advice on board is another matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas.
This is god advice, but let us all be completely honest here, it would mean gaining a few inches in certain places, and definitely adopting a different attitude
I don't think that attitude is bad tbh. I think he misunderstood the nature of the site and what people look for.
Whether he takes the advice on board is another matter."
Moaning so soon, and the scatter gun use of !!!!! real turn off for people |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"So basically your saying my cock doesn't look good!! It normally gets compliments lol"
No, the pics don't look good.
Maybe it's the pics, maybe it's the cock. We can't know which it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh well I've put them in private section!! All other profiles of guys seem to be similar if not as much text as mine plus the normal cock shot and torso shot |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas.
This is god advice, but let us all be completely honest here, it would mean gaining a few inches in certain places, and definitely adopting a different attitude
I don't think that attitude is bad tbh. I think he misunderstood the nature of the site and what people look for.
Whether he takes the advice on board is another matter.
Moaning so soon, and the scatter gun use of !!!!! real turn off for people"
It's easy to get frustrated on here. The suggestion it's our/the sites fault (we're all timewasters) wasn't great but I can understand the frustration when reality doesn't match what was expected.
Give him a chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh well I've put them in private section!! All other profiles of guys seem to be similar if not as much text as mine plus the normal cock shot and torso shot"
If you are not getting a response from people you message then perhaps cange who you message. There are people for everyone on this site so long as we are all honest about who would meet us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet single guys
We just tend not to meet them directly from here as it seems to be full to the rafters of whingers and wailers at the moment and I don't find that attractive in the slightest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CAMP!! How? Wot am I meant to take pics of then!! And yes I do have private face pics!!!
The bum stuck out ones are a bit camp, if I'm honest.
The towel one and the other one aren't so bad.
Take a look at what some of the successful guys, (the ones with lots of veris), do. That should give you some ideas.
This is god advice, but let us all be completely honest here, it would mean gaining a few inches in certain places, and definitely adopting a different attitude
I don't think that attitude is bad tbh. I think he misunderstood the nature of the site and what people look for.
Whether he takes the advice on board is another matter.
Moaning so soon, and the scatter gun use of !!!!! real turn off for people
It's easy to get frustrated on here. The suggestion it's our/the sites fault (we're all timewasters) wasn't great but I can understand the frustration when reality doesn't match what was expected.
Give him a chance."
Men come on here and expect the world to stop turning as a result. Delusins of grandeur are rife amongst cpls, single men, and women, but we don't think such people should be given a free pass if they decide to start lampooning and moaning about it, and the advice given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet single guys
We just tend not to meet them directly from here as it seems to be full to the rafters of whingers and wailers at the moment and I don't find that attractive in the slightest "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, if folk are trying to give you advice, take it well....folk know what they're talking about (at times) so don't tack a load of exclamation marks onto your replies....makes you look shouty and un appreciative of the advice given....
Slow down, search the forum on your 'problem' and manage your expectations and you'll be ok....
Top tip, go look at the profiles of some of the more 'successful' men....then compare them to yours....you'll see the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like sex, anyone to have sex?
Did I mentions, I like sex?
This would be a better profile than the OP's
Actually lol'd "
Prepare for a whole load of OP !!!!!!!!!!! |
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"Been on here for while looking for couples MF but not getting much luck! Got pics and private face pics but not even a bite, I'm fit and good looking! Is it just all time wasters??"
So you' consider yourself good looking and fit and suspect that all couples are time wasters....
Can't believe local couples aren't beating your door down ......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
you are so money supermarket..lol"
Thanks yes, get all your pennies worth lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet single men at all. Prefer to play with couples that way each of us is happy. Introducing another man means that it is just all about me. What fun is that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't meet single men at all. Prefer to play with couples that way each of us is happy. Introducing another man means that it is just all about me. What fun is that?"
If you have to ask then there really is no helping you |
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull! "
VV - that's just what I was thinking, great minds and all that . But I guess it's all relative, he may make a bull for some couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Shag, you are so not a bull!
VV - that's just what I was thinking, great minds and all that . But I guess it's all relative, he may make a bull for some couple.
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Yes it basically means to have sex with a married woman. |
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OP: you say you're professional? Have the resources to spell check your profile.
I wouldn't bother with the legal warnings. Do you think someone will nick your profile? Honestly?!
Shag: you're a bull, dude, don't let anyone say you ain't got the horn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: you say you're professional? Have the resources to spell check your profile.
I wouldn't bother with the legal warnings. Do you think someone will nick your profile? Honestly?!
Shag: you're a bull, dude, don't let anyone say you ain't got the horn. "
Thanks steve and your right there and I do got the horn as well |
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"Been on here for while looking for couples MF but not getting much luck! Got pics and private face pics but not even a bite, I'm fit and good looking! Is it just all time wasters??"
. You need to add some hobbies and interests to your profile and delete the warnings as they are totally meaningless .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all have a rough idea of what a dick looks like..afterall you talk to the person not the dick "
Exactly. All us chaps have a cock. It's about making yourself as a person appealing to your target 'audience'.
Show people that you have a personality and are not just a penis on legs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Bull? Did you forget to add Shitter? tut tut
;-)"
Yes I did there lol, as well as anal I meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a couple who wants a bull, then as I creampie the wife, hubby will clean her up
Bull? Did you forget to add Shitter? tut tut
;-)Yes I did there lol, as well as anal I meant "
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