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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just put this out here for some advice, I'm looking to further my swinging experience and regularly visit clubs, I've been to Xtasia once before but I found myself not knowing when to approach anyone or if I should what to say to them or wait for someone to show an interest in me? Any advice as to what I could to, maybe to be a little less awkward in the club enviournement? Many thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers, just found myself sitting there thinking if people would be judging me in a way? Like a 23 yo lad what's he doing here? Couldn't imagine many people wanting someone as tough as me? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put yourself out, smile and have a conversation and laugh.
We have seen single men just standing around, and while respecting it is not easy on them, it does not do them many favours 
Her |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
south staffs |
"Just talk to people as if you were anywhere else and be yourself.  "
I agree, Tina, but there are a couple of obvious questions which you might want to avoid due to the nature of the venue and agenda.
1. Where are you from/where do you live?
2. What do you do for a living?
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Don't think like that as it will unsettle you...
We all go there to social and play... We all like different things...
Just chat and smile. They may think you aren't interested if you wait for them to come to you. Just say hi... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mostly go to xtasia on my own, i have been a member for 2 years now so know a few people there. Just go in with no expectations and talk to people as if were in a normal club or pub |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Don't approach people as if you are expecting to play with them. Get a reputation for being polite, friendly and not pushy. People will then feel comfortable in your company and things will start to happen. Don't take it as an insult if people don't want to play - it's their choice.....and don't follow people around. We have a lot of fun with single guys at clubs and they all conform to the above! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Xtasia are opening a section called flirts at the front of the club, maybe try that again and take it from there. There is a thread on it in the club section |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always go to a club with the intention that we won't play. But we take my underwear and outfits just incase.
We never leave disappointed :p
The reason for this is we go for us, and if we have fun then awesome. But we always try and talk to people not as potential victims but as friends. The more friends we make, the better. its boosted our chances a lot because we don't instantly appear desperate to rush off and play, we care about the people. That's more attractive to most than "yeah yeah let's fuck". C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never played in xtasia,, I think it's the club and find it very hard in there to be fair, always end up leaving and going to chams ,, just me though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive never played in xtasia,, I think it's the club and find it very hard in there to be fair, always end up leaving and going to chams ,, just me though "
But for me in answer to your question flash your cock,, if it's big enough, that's it,, think I'm in the minority there |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Ive never played in xtasia,, I think it's the club and find it very hard in there to be fair, always end up leaving and going to chams ,, just me though "
I've only been there on forum socials and its a nice club, but it is always red hot.  |
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