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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This isn't a moan up I generally want to get a bit more attention .as I'm not doing to well .no one seems to want to answer messages or chat to me .so is there anything on my profile I can change for the better ? Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see anything wrong with your profile.
are the messages you write nice and interesting?
at the end there are just so many of you on this website. try to stick out of the crowd with your messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get out from behind the keyboard, there's a whole world of fun outside the front door. Social events, parties, clubs. Your severely limiting your options and chances of success by only using the online side of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get some confidence. From these and other posts you make it comes across your lacking in self belief. Get out and mix it up a bit if you socialise on the scene you will soon walk tall. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get some confidence. From these and other posts you make it comes across your lacking in self belief. Get out and mix it up a bit if you socialise on the scene you will soon walk tall. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every single man who posts one of these threads very likely ensures they'll never meet, or never meet again.
Try some pics of you doing stuff, at gym is always good, shows you are active and into staying fit.
Longer profile with some interesting stuff in it, as women and cpls do tend to read profiles. |
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"This isn't a moan up I generally want to get a bit more attention .as I'm not doing to well .no one seems to want to answer messages or chat to me .so is there anything on my profile I can change for the better ? Thanks"
On the whole - the profile is negative: "try my luck", "if you come across as rude or dull", "I will block you", negative sounding status etc.
Your profile should be positive - it is there to sell you - make people think "hey, I'd like to know more".
Too many face photos/not enough variety IMHO.
The likelihood of people originating messages to you will be small.
Get yourself into the chat rooms and/or go to social events in your area ... get yourself known (for the right reasons). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a good-looking guy, keep the face pics
As far as the messaging business goes, it's always good to be nice, but don't be TOO nice. Be a bit of a cheeky asshole. After all, that's what got me this far. Stick with me, kid, and you too could have two whole verifications on your profile inside a year! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're a good-looking guy, keep the face pics
As far as the messaging business goes, it's always good to be nice, but don't be TOO nice. Be a bit of a cheeky asshole. After all, that's what got me this far. Stick with me, kid, and you too could have two whole verifications on your profile inside a year! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics "
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile changes as you see fit, plenty of threads about that stuff if you use the search option in forum.
A profile isn't as important as some, in particular single males, make out - if you make efforts away from here you will get clearer progress in terms of physically being in a place where there are more people in a sexual and / or social environment. Try clubs, socials or events you see mentioned, and if you're positive and social it really helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat"
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice."
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree"
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'."
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private"
Never heard a single woman say this. |
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat"
ok number 1 this isnt a sex site, its a swingers site the name slightly gives it away.
and number 2 I think you will find most women and couples prefer to see a face pic and dont find it weird at all that a man would choose to put a face pic public, and infact would encourage it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private"
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock"
Please ignore these idiots !
You have a smashing profile and lovely pictures. I wouldn't change a thing. The trouble you have is all your local females are blind ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
Please ignore these idiots !
You have a smashing profile and lovely pictures. I wouldn't change a thing. The trouble you have is all your local females are blind !"
aww thank you :0) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock"
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all"
Your point originally was that its off putting seeing face pics on profiles . Our point was you have other people's faces on yours which ARENT blurred (pleased you have permission but again irrelevant).
It's perfectly normal on here not to have face pics and send them later on . We aren't saying that's not normal. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK but I find having no PIC a waste of time .you start chatting to someone send a face PIC and your not their type .saves alot of time having a face PIC .they know what you look like from the start and people can make that choice instead of beating around the bush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK but I find having no PIC a waste of time .you start chatting to someone send a face PIC and your not their type .saves alot of time having a face PIC .they know what you look like from the start and people can make that choice instead of beating around the bush "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
Never heard a single woman say this."
Nor have I, in fact the opposite most women, myself included, ignore men without face pics  |
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all"
you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all
Your point originally was that its off putting seeing face pics on profiles . Our point was you have other people's faces on yours which ARENT blurred (pleased you have permission but again irrelevant).
It's perfectly normal on here not to have face pics and send them later on . We aren't saying that's not normal. "
I never said they were blurred, i said they were obscured...and they are.
Your second point makes no sense to me; i never questioned what was normal or not. You just previously suggested that i may be a kind of guy who only had cock/bj pics...i was merely stating how this isnt the case and that i trade face pics in private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all
you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont."
My opionion, enforced by previous chats and comments from various women, which i still believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree"
I'm a woman and I don't think a guy having a face picture on here is weird or off putting. I prefer seeing a face picture in public pictures cos at least I can decide if I like them beforehand rather than them sending me a private face picture and me then deciding I don't find them attractive.
Op I've only looked through your pictures quickly but my advice would be get rid of the pictures of you wearing double denim! |
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"lose the face pics
I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat
Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.
Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree
Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.
Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private
You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock
First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.
Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all
you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont.
My opionion, enforced by previous chats and comments from various women, which i still believe."
lol even when women and couples are telling you the exact opposite, you dont give up, the proofs in the pudding so to speak lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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can someone bloody well start this "face pic or not" debate in a thread... I am itching to have my 2 penneth....
p.s spoiler alert: I don't think the irish bananaman is going to be happy with it!!! |
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