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does anyone meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK so I've been on here a few months and had 1 meet, with a lovely lady and that's it.
I've adapted my profile numerous times,
Changed my pictures, approached people differently and yet still get no replies.....
Is it just me?
Or am I just one of hundreds... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK so I've been on here a few months and had 1 meet, with a lovely lady and that's it.
I've adapted my profile numerous times,
Changed my pictures, approached people differently and yet still get no replies.....
Is it just me?
Or am I just one of hundreds..."
You are right, you are one of not hundreds but thousands of singles looking for just the same as you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One meet is better than many after a few months.
Is one cock pic and no avatar really making all the effort that you can?"
I have got others which I reserve for people I have talked to and got to know.
It's not that I've not put effort in I guess maybe I should rethink my strategy again.
Oh yes thousands and don't get me wrong the meet I certainly wasn't expecting.
Better than most I must add. |
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Make your profile stand out it's like any form of advertising. The brands that stand out will be possibly the ones that are the most popular type of brand. Make you profile visually alluring add pics of you in a nice pair of boxers and unusual pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tried it before and still nothing and it's not like I'm the most ugly person. "
An avatar pic will get you noticed more than shadow man, no one wants to see a cock pic in their public gallery so make it private and send if requested for in a message, get some body shots in instead. |
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This follows yesterday's does no one talk on here thread. People chat and meet but some are more fortunate than others. There is some luck involved but its largely acase of effort and tactics.
Postt a few of your introductory messages to others. We can give you feedback. Cut anything out that would identify the recipients. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I went to look and no pictures at all. women won't message if they can't see who you are or what you look like "
They are for friends not public.
Looks like I need a photographer! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went to look and no pictures at all. women won't message if they can't see who you are or what you look like
They are for friends not public.
Looks like I need a photographer! "
Fair enough response. a lot of mine are selfies. You could do that. Some of me are taken by another person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where can I get an avatar pic?
You can add one and make it as your main pic...fab don't have a photo selection of pre shoot cocks and fannys that you can pick..you need to add your own  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums "
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort! "
Yes indeed, or else the poor lambs will populate the forums with these very self defeating threads  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort!
Yes indeed, or else the poor lambs will populate the forums with these very self defeating threads "
It's shocking that men have to put any effort in. Shouldn't we be able to just sit back and wait for the women to offer us sex without any effort on our profile? Discrimination!!
I'm off to take pics with my sky remote. I hear that guarantees a meet without any effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort!
Yes indeed, or else the poor lambs will populate the forums with these very self defeating threads It's shocking that men have to put any effort in. Shouldn't we be able to just sit back and wait for the women to offer us sex without any effort on our profile? Discrimination!!
I'm off to take pics with my sky remote. I hear that guarantees a meet without any effort. "
Was just thinking that you ain't gonna do well on here for two reasons: no moping threads; and no pics with sky remotes, deodarant cans, or the classy classic-lager cans |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort!
Yes indeed, or else the poor lambs will populate the forums with these very self defeating threads It's shocking that men have to put any effort in. Shouldn't we be able to just sit back and wait for the women to offer us sex without any effort on our profile? Discrimination!!
I'm off to take pics with my sky remote. I hear that guarantees a meet without any effort.
Was just thinking that you ain't gonna do well on here for two reasons: no moping threads; and no pics with sky remotes, deodarant cans, or the classy classic-lager cans"
They are in my private pics. Wanna see?
Maybe I should Have them as my profile pic? Or just delete my profile pic and go back to a shadow? And delete the text in my profile and fill it later? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's shocking how couples and women don't jump straight onto men,especially when they have boring profiles, few or no pictures and start moaning threads in the forums
It's disgraceful. There should be a warning when single men sign up that they need to put in a bit of effort!
Yes indeed, or else the poor lambs will populate the forums with these very self defeating threads It's shocking that men have to put any effort in. Shouldn't we be able to just sit back and wait for the women to offer us sex without any effort on our profile? Discrimination!!
I'm off to take pics with my sky remote. I hear that guarantees a meet without any effort.
Was just thinking that you ain't gonna do well on here for two reasons: no moping threads; and no pics with sky remotes, deodarant cans, or the classy classic-lager cans
They are in my private pics. Wanna see?
Maybe I should Have them as my profile pic? Or just delete my profile pic and go back to a shadow? And delete the text in my profile and fill it later? "
Of course wanna see.
A better approach would be to delete all profile and have a one line atack, I'm thinking 'gonna dump this site as it's full of timewasters and people up their own arses'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's all this terminology I'm not familiar with...
Meet?
Effort with messages?
No moaning?
Pictures?
This is going to take a real effort to square in my mind
Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actual answer is yes, I have, I do and I will.
Luck (and being in the right place at the right time in some instances) plays a part.
Also, being myself and actually being interested in the people I talk to.
Embracing the forums and going to clubs only added to my experience.
And I try, as much as is feasible, not to complain. If I'm not happy, I don't post. And if something isn't right or not working, I either look at myself first... Or blame others for the fun |
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