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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's a general hi comment on their profile and things in common looking to chat and get to know ppl first and see where it goes
Also have a face pic a can send too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need some more pics on your profile (not of your cock) write a little about you, your likes, dislikes, what you have to offer etc etc, your profile is your shop window, yours looks like you havnt lifted the shutters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a general hi comment on their profile and things in common looking to chat and get to know ppl first and see where it goes
Also have a face pic a can send too "
In that case, express the things in common you think will appeal to the type of people on your profile, proofread your profile text and definately, no text speak. Add some torso and bum pics. I find what more erotic is seeing an erection under briefs. Most people tend to look at the profile first before reading messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your profile I'd guess
Cock pic avatar
No other pics (assume you send with message?)
Looking to meet ages 18 to 99
Little text on profile
No personality or indication of who you are |
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"Not had chance to sort pics out but have updated profile txt
Hopefully better !
Much better  "
Better! How bad was it before?
To the OP green arrow me and you'll see that I've given tips on this before.
But the best tip I can give you now is never say anything negative and never, never ever post another thread like this one. It makes you look desperate. |
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"Not really desperate mate just clocked on I was doing something wrong
Brand new to this so needed advice "
I wasn't saying you were just that it can come across looking like you are. You'll probably get away with it as you are new but you won't a second time.
Just my advice for what it's worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyhoo, it aint easy mate, single males probably account for 70% of the site, and some send the same women loads of messages to get their attention.
Some women here are faced with about 300-400 messages a day, flattering at first, boring after a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think of yourself as a shop window.
Now think of yourself as a shopper looking in that window.
Would you go in that shop compared to the others around it?
(I might use this analogy more often) |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
leicestershire |
"cock pic and name would put us off without reading any further."
id agree, the cock pic isnt the best, i know its hard to take photos yourself, but it will make a difference, it is really about selling yourself if your a single guy so you have to do whatever you can |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
leicestershire |
"Think of yourself as a shop window.
Now think of yourself as a shopper looking in that window.
Would you go in that shop compared to the others around it?
(I might use this analogy more often) "
and we might steel it  , very well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think of yourself as a shop window.
Now think of yourself as a shopper looking in that window.
Would you go in that shop compared to the others around it?
(I might use this analogy more often)
and we might steel it , very well put"
Royalty payments will be taken in kind   |
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"Don't seen to get many replys am I doing anything wrong or do a lot of single guys get the same?"
. With no picture of your body and being unable to accommodate did you expect any replies ?. You will need to add pictures and make it clear that you will pay for a hotel room.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pic will be sorted soon and yes guna get body pics etc on
In terms of accommodating iv covered that in my profile and would presume the man would pay for the hotel anyway |
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Cock profile picture..no thanks it's a delete.
Profile write up too much 'me me me'
Couple more pics been suggested of chest, which as a rugby man I'm guessing it's impressive and ass pic purrrrlease.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cock profile picture..no thanks it's a delete.
Profile write up too much 'me me me'
Couple more pics been suggested of chest, which as a rugby man I'm guessing it's impressive and ass pic purrrrlease.
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Ooooh yeah get the athletic torso pics up op !!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
And we seem to be going from no profile to generic profile at max speed here.....
There is listening to people and there is listening to everyone.... Danger being you end up making the same mistake as a lot of people
Why are you trying to appeal to everyone? Let's put it this way
If the next 5 women said love cock pics.... And the 5 after that said hate cock pics
Who are you listening to????
Part of swinging is appealing to specific people... A mail shot to everyone isn't going to get everyone saying wow! |
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At this point in time there are about 20,000 people on fab. Don't immediately act on the advice of 4 or 5. Read all the other threads and make your own decisions. You obviously thought a cock pic would attract a sexual partner. What made you change your mind? The views of 3 people? Read all the other threads on profile advice. Don't try to please everyone. Be yourself then you will stand out. |
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