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Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after |
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I'm here to be the extra male so to me its better to meet "strangers" and focus on their needs and expectations/fantasies.
In my experience every couple have different interests so an easy to say MMF threesome becomes far more challenging.
I'd say choose your "stranger" with care. All three players should enjoy in equal amounts. Maybe DP is on your wish list?
At least on Fab you can check verifications which you can't do with vanilla friends. If the whole thing doesn't end up ticking your boxes its also easier to explain that to a fellow fabber.
Good luck
xxalan
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"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after "
We would say for the first time it helps if the man is a swingers you have met socially eg in a club situation. |
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"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after "
For me yes definitely. I love mmf especially with two bi men but I have always known at least one guy quite well before hand. So he knows what I like etc and normally has a word with the other guy. Makes it flow smoother. I hope you enjoy it when it happens. It's quite addictive  |
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My first 3 some was this amazing sexy woman came upto me in a bar in manchester and was chatting to me and just came out with it her husband loves to watch her with on other guy and she loves it even more and asked me to join them
I nearly chocked on my drink
But wow what a night
It was like porn on another level we we're at it all night explosive sex all over there hotel room and he filmed the whole thing on his video camera on a stand
I feel like the porn king
So any genuine couples out there you know what to do message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had lots of threesomes some with people i know and some with complete strangers.I would suggest best is with people you do not know,There can be no emotional attachemnt after etc..I had a threesome with a freind and his wife then they split up 2 years later and she nearly cost me my marrige. |
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we are going to do this this year with a guy mrsflirty has been chatting with,
Like the advise says we are hoping to meet him at kestrals and take it from there |
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In our experience, it's easiest with half of another couple, at least for first encounters. I'd say this mainly as we enjoy the intimate part of the sex, but with another perosn who is happily in a relationship, there is no emotional need beyond the sexual friendship.
We've had a few mmf and mff threesome experiences with our single vanilla friends over the last few years, dates (we are in a poly relationship) and between those and the experiences of our single friends, we've seen how things can sometimes be a little awkward afterwards, with the realisation for the single person that whilst they were part of the fun, they aren't able to be as emotionally central as the other two.
It really depends what everyone is looking for, but emotions can often get caught up between couples and singles and this can be a good or bad thing, depending how it's handled |
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"In our experience, it's easiest with half of another couple, at least for first encounters. I'd say this mainly as we enjoy the intimate part of the sex, but with another perosn who is happily in a relationship, there is no emotional need beyond the sexual friendship.
We've had a few mmf and mff threesome experiences with our single vanilla friends over the last few years, dates (we are in a poly relationship) and between those and the experiences of our single friends, we've seen how things can sometimes be a little awkward afterwards, with the realisation for the single person that whilst they were part of the fun, they aren't able to be as emotionally central as the other two.
It really depends what everyone is looking for, but emotions can often get caught up between couples and singles and this can be a good or bad thing, depending how it's handled"
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I'd suggest someone you don't know....but do talk a bit before hand...set ground rules/boundaries etc.
At the end of the day if it goes wrong you can cut and run and haven't damaged a friendship. |
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"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after
For me yes definitely. I love mmf especially with two bi men but I have always known at least one guy quite well before hand. So he knows what I like etc and normally has a word with the other guy. Makes it flow smoother. I hope you enjoy it when it happens. It's quite addictive "
im a bi man i would love to join you both your stunners xx |
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