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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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New to fab and these type of sites but well let's just say it's been fascinating the only trouble I'm having is people don't seem to trust newcomers
To be fair I can fully understand why as there does seem to be a lot of time wasters but I was just wondering what the general consensus was among everyone, do you meet newbies or what ??'
And if there is anyone who wants to show me the 'fab' world feel free to get in touch I'm sure we can come to some arrangement |
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OP. You've been here 2 weeks. That is not a long time in the grand scheme if things. Of course people meet newbies or no one would ever of got a meet..
However there are some things you can go to improve your chances. Have a decent profile/pics, read others profiles to ensure you are what they are looking for before you message and get out there, look for socials in your area or go to a club. Men vastly outnumber women on here so meets won't just land in your lap. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Mate get yourself to a social get to know people and then take it from there. Woukd you invite a stranger in to your home...she could be an axe holding murderer "
Shhhh, don't give my unique selling point away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to fab and these type of sites but well let's just say it's been fascinating the only trouble I'm having is people don't seem to trust newcomers
To be fair I can fully understand why as there does seem to be a lot of time wasters but I was just wondering what the general consensus was among everyone, do you meet newbies or what ??'
And if there is anyone who wants to show me the 'fab' world feel free to get in touch I'm sure we can come to some arrangement "
Being new probably isn't your problem. The quality of your profile, the apparent total lack of effort and the pop at other site users are all likely to be more of a factor |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really poor profile text and no public images! Do you think this is blind date?
If you can't be arsed to put in the work, there is very little you can expect to be honest!  "
It's not that I can't be arsed to put in the work it's that I don't know what to put in my profile to grab people's attention and like I say I'm new to the sit.
I do have pictures available on request |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Really poor profile text and no public images! Do you think this is blind date?
If you can't be arsed to put in the work, there is very little you can expect to be honest!
It's not that I can't be arsed to put in the work it's that I don't know what to put in my profile to grab people's attention and like I say I'm new to the sit.
I do have pictures available on request "
Look at my profile....what does it tell you about me? Quite a lot to be honest so it is not difficult.
Also as a female, I don't think I should have to ask to see a picture, so make them public! And they don't have to be face pic |
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Mate you've only been on for 5 minutes ffs there was a thread where the bloke hadn't had a reply in 3 years  stop bleeting on have a think and come out fighting you've made no effort do you walk into a pub and use the chat up line fancy a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a good social on a sunday at amour in Manchester.. Come on i'll hold your hand "
OP - you have totally ignored some sensible advice and a very kind offer of help from a very attractive female. Some people just can't be helped |
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"Theres a good social on a sunday at amour in Manchester.. Come on i'll hold your hand
OP - you have totally ignored some sensible advice and a very kind offer of help from a very attractive female. Some people just can't be helped "
He did hide his cock pic though  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I've given advise after receiving a PM and even then he tried to turn it sexual on me, the more sensible men, would just take it and then ask if it looked better, not ask me if I was a kinky bitch and what else did I like |
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"I've given advise after receiving a PM and even then he tried to turn it sexual on me, the more sensible men, would just take it and then ask if it looked better, not ask me if I was a kinky bitch and what else did I like "
At least you didn't get ignored.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I've given advise after receiving a PM and even then he tried to turn it sexual on me, the more sensible men, would just take it and then ask if it looked better, not ask me if I was a kinky bitch and what else did I like
At least you didn't get ignored. "
And also proves his messages might not always be as polite as claimed
Shock horror!  |
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"Mate get yourself to a social get to know people and then take it from there. Woukd you invite a stranger in to your home...she could be an axe holding murderer "
I'm a bit more subtle. ....I'm a bunny boiler. ...lol lol |
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"I've given advise after receiving a PM and even then he tried to turn it sexual on me, the more sensible men, would just take it and then ask if it looked better, not ask me if I was a kinky bitch and what else did I like
At least you didn't get ignored.
And also proves his messages might
not always be as polite as claimed
Shock horror! "
If that's his approach to swinging and attitude towards ladies then he's gonna be flying the EF flag |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I've given advise after receiving a PM and even then he tried to turn it sexual on me, the more sensible men, would just take it and then ask if it looked better, not ask me if I was a kinky bitch and what else did I like
At least you didn't get ignored.
And also proves his messages might
not always be as polite as claimed
Shock horror!
If that's his approach to swinging and attitude towards ladies then he's gonna be flying the EF flag "
And forever asking the question, what am I doing wrong? I've given all the advice needed, though I must admit I don't see any forthcoming changes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New to fab and these type of sites but well let's just say it's been fascinating the only trouble I'm having is people don't seem to trust newcomers
To be fair I can fully understand why as there does seem to be a lot of time wasters but I was just wondering what the general consensus was among everyone, do you meet newbies or what ??'
And if there is anyone who wants to show me the 'fab' world feel free to get in touch I'm sure we can come to some arrangement "
More public pics needed and change your straight status as you want to meet TV/Ts unless it's just for social purposes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy"
Only tetchy when people PM inappropriate messages! |
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy
You ignored me. "
I have a feeling you will have exhausted everyone's patience & no further advice will follow.
Yours sincerely tetchy of Liverpool x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy"
So you sent an inappropriate message?
Clever move!
NOT.
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy
You ignored me.
I have a feeling you will have exhausted everyone's patience & no further advice
will follow.
Yours sincerely tetchy of Liverpool x"
Yeah well...I don't need advice though happily and if I've exhausted everyones patience, I can only apolgise and bow out gracefully.  |
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy
You ignored me.
I have a feeling you will have exhausted everyone's patience & no further advice
will follow.
Yours sincerely tetchy of Liverpool x
Yeah well...I don't need advice though happily and if I've exhausted everyones patience, I can only apolgise and bow out gracefully. "
Sorry not you chicken. I was referring to the OP. Please no bowing out necessary xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy"
You asked a question and we all tried to help. Sending pm's that offend to one poster won't get them on side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't ignored anyone ive replied privately, listen can we have a less of the smart ass saucy comments they are not needed, everyone seems so tetchy
You asked a question and we all tried to help. Sending pm's that offend to one poster won't get them on side "
It won't get ANYONE onside when you are exposed!
We will make a guess that this isn't going the way the OP imagined.
Funny thing is, if he bothered to check through the forum and the countless single guys who put this type of thread up, he would have seen they always backfire!
Still, we guess you got some exposure for your profile OP! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow you don't half take this seriously. What happened to being here for fun, lighten up
If sending an inappropriate message offends you all that bad then I apologise but Jesus christ please get over yourselves |
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"There is a fab social coming up in February at Townhouse, if you're serious about wanting to meet people, then the social would be a good start."
Have already had a chat about this but not on the list yet....spaces are going FAST! |
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