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WRITING YOUR PROFILE - ONE STOP SHOP
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"Pretend you are approaching someone at a bar in your area and treat them thus. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you don't have to make a good impression. Learn to use capitals only when required, along with punctuation and so on. For some of us, first impressions *do* count." Awesome advice, I mean who walks up to people in a bar and says "hi i am dave, i want to fuck as many of the women in here as possible!!" More than a one liner is definitely needed. Though try not to put them to sleep like mine does! | |||
"Pretend you are approaching someone at a bar in your area and treat them thus. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you don't have to make a good impression. Learn to use capitals only when required, along with punctuation and so on. For some of us, first impressions *do* count. Awesome advice, I mean who walks up to people in a bar and says "hi i am dave, i want to fuck as many of the women in here as possible!!" More than a one liner is definitely needed. Though try not to put them to sleep like mine does!" See his profile for a damn good example of how to write one. | |||
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"Is this advice for all profiles on here or just for cpls for single guys sell your self it works "A good profile is a good profile regardless of the sex / status of the humans behind it. | |||
"Pretend you are approaching someone at a bar in your area and treat them thus. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you don't have to make a good impression. Learn to use capitals only when required, along with punctuation and so on. For some of us, first impressions *do* count. Awesome advice, I mean who walks up to people in a bar and says "hi i am dave, i want to fuck as many of the women in here as possible!!" More than a one liner is definitely needed. Though try not to put them to sleep like mine does! See his profile for a damn good example of how to write one." Wondered why i had a sudden increase of profile views! Thanks for the compliment! | |||
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"here is one for an advice thread.... which is going to sound both wierd and nasty... but bear with me don't!!! with the greatest of respect I think what you unintentionally do with threads like these is a couple of things...... you tell every timewaster how to get round peoples confidence..... hey... minimum effort, maximum results!!! you make it harder for those who do actually "get it" to stand out from those who don't ...... you make it harder to those people who are looking to work out who actually does "get it" and those who don't..... I really hate to say this... but what is wrong with people finding there own way..... people learn from them, it makes them stronger.... make people read, make them do there due diligence, get a better understanding for what they are getting into... and if that means they have to wait longer for meets, then so what.... means they are more rounded people who do "get it" won't be the ones complaining anyway welcome to everyone swinger acting the same, writing the same and saying the same because it is deemed right.... all that threads like these create is clone after clone after clone...... " Well that's me told then | |||
" Well that's me told then "like I said... I am not doubting it is probably a well intentioned thread..... but why give the game away so to speak... we all had to learn somehow/way... and I bet a lot of us did that from learning from our own mistakes..... all people get out of me is "time, patience, common sense"...... it doesn't have to be rocket science..,, | |||
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" Well that's me told then
like I said... I am not doubting it is probably a well intentioned thread..... but why give the game away so to speak... we all had to learn somehow/way... and I bet a lot of us did that from learning from our own mistakes.....
all people get out of me is "time, patience, common sense"...... it doesn't have to be rocket science..,,"Personally, I love a good FAQ | |||
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"What's the harm in helping others? If they become a clone they will soon be found out when they meet someone!" No harm in helping others... unless it helps them pretend to be someone that they aren't. All I'm saying is there is no magic formula, people will like you for you... | |||
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 ....... wife like Marti Pellow lookalikes ....and he is quite cute  | |||
"What's the harm in helping others? If they become a clone they will soon be found out when they meet someone! No harm in helping others... unless it helps them pretend to be someone that they aren't. All I'm saying is there is no magic formula, people will like you for you..." which is why I am not a fan of any of these guide.... whether it was the phase for single guys what was the fad a few months ago, or now telling people what they should/shouldn't put in profiles.... what happened to individuality? you can tell people what to put in but I don't think that actually teaches people and thats the key different.... something you have to let people find out that when you see a "wet paint" sign , sometimes it is wet paint!... that if someone says it is a hot plate.. it actually is...... spoonfeed people all you like.... but in the end it doesn't help in the development... sometimes people just have to find out for themselves.... | |||
"Pretend you are approaching someone at a bar in your area and treat them thus. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you don't have to make a good impression. Learn to use capitals only when required, along with punctuation and so on. For some of us, first impressions *do* count. Awesome advice, I mean who walks up to people in a bar and says "hi i am dave, i want to fuck as many of the women in here as possible!!" More than a one liner is definitely needed. Though try not to put them to sleep like mine does! See his profile for a damn good example of how to write one. " Have to agree excellent profile | |||
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"Introduce who you are and what you are about first, people have to desire, you you know. What are your best qualities, what are you good at, what do you enjoy? Good luck with it x Please feel free to put in your bit ...." I really cannot see how the above can be interpreted as spoonfeeding. But hey what do I know, I've only been teaching for twenty years. | |||
"Most of the advice isn't about telling them what to put, it is about advising them what many like to see in a profile, basically information and expanded information, it's not about imposing your will on people and it's not about trying to keep the competition down." its not about keeping the competition down at all... because those who understand and "get it" will still get meets regardless....... from example.... we always say that you get out of swinging the effort you put in.... which is the same as most things in life and is basically common sense..... so if people decide that all the effort they want to put into a profile is for example "2 lines and a couple of cock shots" thats tells me they didn't think about it at all..... sorry..... it tells me they haven't read up, it tells me they did no due diligence, no thought went into what they were doing... harsh.... probably fair....... absolutely like i said... I was never going to look like "the good guy" like some people were going to in this thread....... I will say to same to anyone who asks "time, patience and common sense"... I don't think you go far wrong with those if you "get it" and understand it.... | |||
"Oh and if juzie wasnt miles away - we would shag him ....... wife like Marti Pellow lookalikes ....and he is quite cute " thanks, and i do travel hehe | |||
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" Have to agree excellent profile "You are welcome to find out if i match up to it as well hehe | |||
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"And........... Dont put "wont meet smokers" If you are willing to do so.... so aggravating "i agree with that one too | |||
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"we decided to make it simple and not write much ..... "Yeah right! Have to say, quite an extensive profile! Would be more than happy to meet with WakeyCouple So tell me, could do a marti pellow tribute if you want  | |||
"Introduce who you are and what you are about first, people have to desire, you you know. What are your best qualities, what are you good at, what do you enjoy? Good luck with it x Please feel free to put in your bit ...." I agree my profile started out as a single paragraph but has evolved through my experiences on here. As long you are honest in what you are looking for then you cannot go wrong. Love H xx | |||
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"Pretend you are approaching someone at a bar in your area and treat them thus. Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you don't have to make a good impression. Learn to use capitals only when required, along with punctuation and so on. For some of us, first impressions *do* count." And...if your a professional couple look up in a dictionary how many eff's in professional! We always try to cram a lot into our profile..maybe too much, but we strive to make it a fair reflection of ourselves as we dont want to lead anyone on etc..unfortunately, now we have had to start it off with a little bit of a 'negative' as we are totally pissed off with people sending invites who want to meet..they obviously havn't read the p  e through.
The most off putting things in other peopls profiles are..bad grammar, bad spelling, lack of punctuation and short messages like 'Here for fun'
Oh and pictures of people in rooms that look like they have just been burgled.
A profile is like a business card..its more than likely the first point of contact..scruffy cheap poorly designed cards (like those awful things you can get printed in a service station)are a terrible advert for someones business...and profiles are the same. | |||
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