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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I haven been on this site for 2 months unfortunately had no luck yet. Would like some help with my profile. And how to gram people attention in a message |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I haven been on this site for 2 months unfortunately had no luck yet. Would like some help with my profile. And how to gram people attention in a message "
I am really tempted to say its a wise idea to read all the other advice threads from others that have asked the same question .... probably a good place to start
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven been on this site for 2 months unfortunately had no luck yet. Would like some help with my profile. And how to gram people attention in a message "
Avoid being just another single guy posting the same old threads on the Forum.
Lots of single guys post loads.
It gets quite boring a repetitive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven been on this site for 2 months unfortunately had no luck yet. Would like some help with my profile. And how to gram people attention in a message
Avoid being just another single guy posting the same old threads on the Forum.
Lots of single guys post loads.
It gets quite boring a repetitive."
Almost tempted to make a comment along the lines of 'same shit, different day'
As others have said, many, many others have passed this way before you asking much the same.
Consider also that you are a relative newbie. You have only been here 2 months.
Most single guys (but not all) don't get their first meet until they have been here at least 6 months.
We outnumber the ladies by around 3 million to one (slight exaggeration, it's closer to 100:1), so the ladies (and the couples) really do have a huge amount to choose from - and often receive around 100 messages PER DAY!!
They hardly have time to go searching for those who can't be bothered to put in the effort.
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You're picture isn't very flattering if you are gonna display a face pic make it a clear one that doesn't look like you are gurning. 
Also as you've said in your own profile text there's a lot of other guys offering the same thing so read your profile and ask yourself does it make you stand out so that anyone reading it would want to reply/message you?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here "
So are you actually telling us you never looked around first??
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"I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here "
I only asked!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here "
Go to forum search and type in profile advice or similar. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot "
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here "
you never get a second chance to make a first impression, and sadly that's not a very good first impression  |
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?"
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world. "
Not to tar all with the same brush, but a LOT of young single guys think they can come on this site, put a few lines on a profile and think free fucks will come flowing in.
When it don't happen, we then see the 'No one talks to me' moaning threads.
It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
They all learn in the end. |
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"Read the thread about the poor sod who hasn't had a message in 3 years then work out the average time between meets for my platinum VIP 100 club member, 'nobby nobs'. "
Sign me up for that please. LOL |
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?"
Jeas, give the guy a break hey!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world.
Not to tar all with the same brush, but a LOT of young single guys think they can come on this site, put a few lines on a profile and think free fucks will come flowing in.
When it don't happen, we then see the 'No one talks to me' moaning threads.
It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
They all learn in the end."
To be fair, I see all ages of single guys do this on these forums, not just young guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world.
Not to tar all with the same brush, but a LOT of young single guys think they can come on this site, put a few lines on a profile and think free fucks will come flowing in.
When it don't happen, we then see the 'No one talks to me' moaning threads.
It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
They all learn in the end."
Cos the ratio play against some, if it was equal, more would get more lucky. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
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a think that applies to a lot of men here... not just the Younger ones......
heck... cheaper than paying for it.. right???? |
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"I wasn't asking for people to start moaning, just needed some advice. This is my first time on the forum so didn't know there was so many posts like mine. Sorry for annoying certain people on here you never get a second chance to make a first impression, and sadly that's not a very good first impression "
That ever so sexy, naughty, hot arse is making a very good first impression on me.  he he |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
a think that applies to a lot of men here... not just the Younger ones......
heck... cheaper than paying for it.. right????"
and then you could say the same thing for couples that look for single women..... well its cheaper than paying for it!!! |
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world.
Not to tar all with the same brush, but a LOT of young single guys think they can come on this site, put a few lines on a profile and think free fucks will come flowing in.
When it don't happen, we then see the 'No one talks to me' moaning threads.
It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
They all learn in the end.
To be fair, I see all ages of single guys do this on these forums, not just young guys. "
Agreed!! And a lot that have been around a lot longer than a few weeks! |
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?
Plenty on here like younger guys. It's a bit rude to assume he doesn't have much luck in real life. Plenty of things get in the way of meeting people out in the real world. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
a think that applies to a lot of men here... not just the Younger ones......
heck... cheaper than paying for it.. right????"
Not the best advertising for single guys, and from a single guy as well!
But hey! This is a public forum for public opinions and we are all entitled to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has to start somewhere chap so be brave and bold. Get yourself noticed as a decent reliable type by getting involved both on here (Chat and Forums) and also look out for the socials and clubs near you.
Once it's shows your decent reliable and on show things may happen.
Be proactive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shame on the op for asking a question that's been asked many times before. No, wait, that applies to pretty much every question asked on the forums, so shame on anyone daring to post anything that's been seen before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame on the op for asking a question that's been asked many times before. No, wait, that applies to pretty much every question asked on the forums, so shame on anyone daring to post anything that's been seen before."
Sounds about right!! |
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"Shame on the op for asking a question that's been asked many times before. No, wait, that applies to pretty much every question asked on the forums, so shame on anyone daring to post anything that's been seen before."
Indeed. A young couple has asked similar elsewhere I wonder if they've got the same grilling?
(I'd guess no!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shame on the op for asking a question that's been asked many times before. No, wait, that applies to pretty much every question asked on the forums, so shame on anyone daring to post anything that's been seen before.
Indeed. A young couple has asked similar elsewhere I wonder if they've got the same grilling?
(I'd guess no!) "
That's right as its ok for couples to do, not single men lol. |
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Why does almost every thread on these forums end up in a battle of sexes. Either give him advice or leave him alone ffs.
My advice to him is
1) Don't post questions asking for advice. It makes you look needy
2) Change your profile pic. Nothing wrong with a face shot but at least make it a good one.
3) Add some more pictures to your profile.
4) Don't mention things in your profile that should be just taken as read. For example don't say "I'm a genuine guy". If you're really genuine you wouldn't have to tell people.
5) Green arrow me and others who offer advice to see what other advice they've given and the sort of posts they make in the forums. Only take the advice from people you feel come across as the type of person you would want to be yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot "
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome "
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin."
I bet there are many swingers who have had sneaky sex meets without their partner on this site knowing behind their backs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin."
What's crawled up your arse today?
Chill out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I did give advice!! Lucky you. My question got ignored. It's like being invisible.  "
I ignore you because you won't slip me what I need. Nasty. Horrible man.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin.
What's crawled up your arse today?
Chill out. "
Comments like you just made.
Truth bothers you? |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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It amazes me.... Or maybe it doesn't 
So many single guys on this forum who expect to have some 'luck' by simply putting up a rubbish picture and a few meaningless lines on a profile. Is it just not pure common sense to make your shop window as interesting as possible?
If I was a single guy I would probably stick to conventional dating sites or go to Clubs. Nothing comes easy in life but what a surprise (not) that so many guys want sex without putting in any effort.
Directly to the OP.....
Not many people will be looking to meet a 24 year old.
Those that do would want to see what makes you so special and worth writing to. What are you doing to make yourself sound interesting, intriguing and special?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuine point - its up to you but I am always quite dubious of any guy claiming to be discreet who then has his face on his profile for all to see, makes me wonder how discreet you actually are.
I say this as personally speaking, this is a very private part of my life and I would like it to remain that way, I appreciate that this mentality does not apply to all |
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"Read the thread about the poor sod who hasn't had a message in 3 years then work out the average time between meets for my platinum VIP 100 club member, 'nobby nobs'.
Sign me up for that please. LOL"
You can be an honourable member....in time....the only qualification is to have 100 veris on show. Do a search for "100 club" |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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It seems that some of them think Swinging couples are an easy fuck.
a think that applies to a lot of men here... not just the Younger ones......
heck... cheaper than paying for it.. right????
Not the best advertising for single guys, and from a single guy as well!
But hey! This is a public forum for public opinions and we are all entitled to that!"
no... what i was saying is that your premise is that is was just younger single guys is not true.... and that it could actually be applied at ALL People!!! Men AND Couples...... |
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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Am new av had meets but only socials for now so give this lad a chance guys .so am open to to advice myself to guys if anyone can give me advice would be great thanks .and I don't have problems in the real world I just wanna give this a go no harm in that is the I suppose until the right girl comes along in the real world then I will come off here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin.
What's crawled up your arse today?
Chill out.
Comments like you just made.
Truth bothers you?"
Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye |
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"Am new av had meets but only socials for now so give this lad a chance guys .so am open to to advice myself to guys if anyone can give me advice would be great thanks .and I don't have problems in the real world I just wanna give this a go no harm in that is the I suppose until the right girl comes along in the real world then I will come off here ."
do you want advise off men?
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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"Am new av had meets but only socials for now so give this lad a chance guys .so am open to to advice myself to guys if anyone can give me advice would be great thanks .and I don't have problems in the real world I just wanna give this a go no harm in that is the I suppose until the right girl comes along in the real world then I will come off here . do you want advise off men?"
or women don't mind really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye "
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you read the FAQs and help/advice for newbies? No one else here can give you any better advice.
You've either got it or you haven't.... Simples.
Posting a begging letter on here never helped anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you read the FAQs and help/advice for newbies? No one else here can give you any better advice.
You've either got it or you haven't.... Simples.
Posting a begging letter on here never helped anyone!"
Very true, but these young fellas, and some not so young fellas, just want their profile seen.
Hard work, effort, honesty and patience!
Use them and you just might have a chance. Other hard working guys on here get results and good luck to them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the thread about the poor sod who hasn't had a message in 3 years then work out the average time between meets for my platinum VIP 100 club member, 'nobby nobs'. "
Lol Steve.....cheers for that mention! Dunno where it comes from (the heart?) but you know you and a few other forum stars are always welcome in the club. It's not just about the numbers....but I am considering a "double platinum club" if you are interested? |
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As one of the couples who are looking for someone in your age range we offer out limited insight
Face pics on a profile, always good! (like we could say otherwise...ahem)
Make your profile bigger, more information needed! Not just padding out but if a Woman is going to be having you sexually she will want to know a bit about you
What have you done sexually? What do you want to do? Whats a no-no?
Also on a personal level we like to know the guy has something in common with us. Any hobbies or interests? (however nerdy they are, it makes you an individual and help you stand out)
Movies? Films? Games?
If it helps there your profile is a good starting point, but you said it yourself...stand out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!"
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but...... |
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but...... "
grow up will you how old are you meant to be an adult in a swinging site !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but...... "
Or Brookside lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people."
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but......
Or Brookside lol "
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"And I did give advice!! Lucky you. My question got ignored. It's like being invisible.
I ignore you because you won't slip me what I need. Nasty. Horrible man.
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but......
Or Brookside lol oh don't start with accents "
Just trying to lighten things up in here sorry |
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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"If you read the was someone wanting advice ok so I wrote back so who was you so it wasn't even me lad so but out !!
Lol....sounds like little Britain....yer but no but yer but......
Or Brookside lol oh don't start with accents
Just trying to lighten things up in here sorry "
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited. "
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun. |
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun."
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
Well said mate
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun.
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun.
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
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This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really. |
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun.
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really."
Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol. |
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This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol."
We are not saying whatsoever that this site is just for couples.
On our travels we have met PLENTY of decent single people. Although they aren't for us, it doesn't take away that they are decent honest people.
However cheats are not single nor honest, and a lot of genuine single guys know that LOADS just turn up here expecting a free fuck for a shit profile.
We, and plenty of others like us, enjoy having genuine people who should be here, not guys wanting a free fuck or people cheating on their partners.
We know it is our opinion, but isn't that what a public forum is all about? Opinions?
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over a year ago
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"Bit like the Romans needing gladiators feed the lions lol
You could have been a gladiator shag  its the new yeAr guys everyone should be happy and getting on "
We are have you seen his six pack |
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By *omolfc8Man
over a year ago
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"Bit like the Romans needing gladiators feed the lions lol
You could have been a gladiator shag its the new yeAr guys everyone should be happy and getting on
We are have you seen his six pack "
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun.
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol."
My point exactly shag............ |
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This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol.
We are not saying whatsoever that this site is just for couples.
On our travels we have met PLENTY of decent single people. Although they aren't for us, it doesn't take away that they are decent honest people.
However cheats are not single nor honest, and a lot of genuine single guys know that LOADS just turn up here expecting a free fuck for a shit profile.
We, and plenty of others like us, enjoy having genuine people who should be here, not guys wanting a free fuck or people cheating on their partners.
We know it is our opinion, but isn't that what a public forum is all about? Opinions?
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But if its within site rules then they're within site rules....a site you chose to join. I'm afraid that folk are perfectly within their rights to cheat if they choose, that's their moral call, not yours.
What do I do in life with people I don't like?.....ignore them, so that's what I do here too...easy peasy,
Anyhow, boy came on to ask a little help to improve his profile... He was making an effort....didn't realise the subject had been covered as he's new so he asked.....you just made a judjement on him and leapt down his throat....he might be a great guy, maybe not but its not your place to call that on someone.
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This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol.
We are not saying whatsoever that this site is just for couples.
On our travels we have met PLENTY of decent single people. Although they aren't for us, it doesn't take away that they are decent honest people.
However cheats are not single nor honest, and a lot of genuine single guys know that LOADS just turn up here expecting a free fuck for a shit profile.
We, and plenty of others like us, enjoy having genuine people who should be here, not guys wanting a free fuck or people cheating on their partners.
We know it is our opinion, but isn't that what a public forum is all about? Opinions?
But if its within site rules then they're within site rules....a site you chose to join. I'm afraid that folk are perfectly within their rights to cheat if they choose, that's their moral call, not yours.
What do I do in life with people I don't like?.....ignore them, so that's what I do here too...easy peasy,
Anyhow, boy came on to ask a little help to improve his profile... He was making an effort....didn't realise the subject had been covered as he's new so he asked.....you just made a judjement on him and leapt down his throat....he might be a great guy, maybe not but its not your place to call that on someone.
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
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I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them |
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".
This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol.
We are not saying whatsoever that this site is just for couples.
On our travels we have met PLENTY of decent single people. Although they aren't for us, it doesn't take away that they are decent honest people.
However cheats are not single nor honest, and a lot of genuine single guys know that LOADS just turn up here expecting a free fuck for a shit profile.
We, and plenty of others like us, enjoy having genuine people who should be here, not guys wanting a free fuck or people cheating on their partners.
We know it is our opinion, but isn't that what a public forum is all about? Opinions?
But if its within site rules then they're within site rules....a site you chose to join. I'm afraid that folk are perfectly within their rights to cheat if they choose, that's their moral call, not yours.
What do I do in life with people I don't like?.....ignore them, so that's what I do here too...easy peasy,
Anyhow, boy came on to ask a little help to improve his profile... He was making an effort....didn't realise the subject had been covered as he's new so he asked.....you just made a judjement on him and leapt down his throat....he might be a great guy, maybe not but its not your place to call that on someone.
While a lot of what you say I agree with cheating always hurts someone and they most certainly would nt choose that "
No, cheating isn't great but the main of my point is that we can't just be everyone else's moral compass really |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them "
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt. |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
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You know full well what I'm saying.....
It's not your place to pass out the morals.... |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt."
As long as you play no part then your morals are nt compromised |
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Not really......don't value your own comments too highly, yours isn't the only truth and there are few that care.
Right, am off to find someone nice to talk to...bye
To be fair we didn't expect you to value our comments.
To some on here the truth is just too close to home, and believe us, lots care, you want to see our inbox!!
We may have both been commenting however we weren't talking and like you we choose who we talk to.
Tell you what we have found out though, the amount of 'genuine' people on here who are really just cheating is unbelievable! Guess genuine means different things to different people.
Inbox has plenty messages too? What's your point?
And that as may be but you don't have to come on this young lads thread and scare him out of the forum....its hard enough being New. Yes we the see the question all the time but similarly we see people have a go needlessly and that it's self becomes cyclical and boring....why comment on something you know is a repeat? Why even look ...you know by the title so the only reason to click on is to be negative....why?
Try and make the place more welcoming or funnier or something....not jumping on a lad for not knowing the forums inside out the first time he's used them.
I hope I never get so mean spirited.
Plenty of help in the advice section for everyone.
About our inbox? Too many messages to answer from couples and genuine single guys who agree with us both about effort AND about cheating.
Mean spirited? Just fed up of people thinking this is a site to join for a free fuck.
Have fun.
You could have pointed that out nicely to him.....no?
And aww aren't you wonderfully popular.....showing off with your genuine people....I only have fakes
Why does it annoy you that people use the site for different reasons than you? That's a bit selfish.
Why does the site allow for these people then if it's so incorrect?
And when you say people only join for a free fuck......does that mean your not getting it free? Your being fleeced....
And I will have fun, its what the site is for, but thankyou
This site is called Fabswingers, not Fabfreefuckjustturn up, or Fabcheaters.
Simple really.Why do they let singles join then? If its just for couples, lol.
My point exactly shag............"
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
You know full well what I'm saying.....
It's not your place to pass out the morals...."
We are not passing out morals or making them
We are pretty sure that everyone knows what the moral stance is, it has never changed.
Everyone knows the moral bit don't they?
Or do some people think it is fine to adjust them to suit?
What if the roles were reversed?
We know someone that happened to. She left after he had played the field for years. He was devastated and could not believe what she had done.
We could never quite figure that one out.... |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt."
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
"
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that? |
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Singles are not cheating.....it's only the cannot accommodate married (usually guys) pretending to be single....but easy to suss!
Plenty enough genuine,y single guys n girls on here.... |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
You know full well what I'm saying.....
It's not your place to pass out the morals....
We are not passing out morals or making them
We are pretty sure that everyone knows what the moral stance is, it has never changed.
Everyone knows the moral bit don't they?
Or do some people think it is fine to adjust them to suit?
What if the roles were reversed?
We know someone that happened to. She left after he had played the field for years. He was devastated and could not believe what she had done.
We could never quite figure that one out...."
I agree....I've been cheated on, its not great I'll be honest, and yeah we all have our _iew on them etc.....that's a given, but I just didn't like to see the boy given grief for no real reason was all.
Anyhow...we've digressed and started bickering and its not why I signed up for fab and its all getting a bit silly and out of hand.
We have different oppinions and we won't agree so I'm not really up for bickering on because when the lad comes back he'll just think us a bunch of argumentative twats and its far too soon for him to know that. |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that?"
If you didnt say he was cheating why even pipe up about it & hijack the poor lads thread!
And in the same vain its like you appeared to be accusing Christos of cheating also!!
I dont meet people who cheat but i will offer them advice as to why they are doing it rather than bash them on a thread taking it off subject! |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that?"
Yes you keep saying...people in the background getting hurt....we know it happens...don't have anything to do with it... Piece if piss.
And I asked if you were accusing him of cheating I didn't say you did. I asked because I'm trying to work out what made you jump down his throat?
Straight question......what has he done than you needed to have a pop at him? |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
You know full well what I'm saying.....
It's not your place to pass out the morals....
We are not passing out morals or making them
We are pretty sure that everyone knows what the moral stance is, it has never changed.
Everyone knows the moral bit don't they?
Or do some people think it is fine to adjust them to suit?
What if the roles were reversed?
We know someone that happened to. She left after he had played the field for years. He was devastated and could not believe what she had done.
We could never quite figure that one out....
I agree....I've been cheated on, its not great I'll be honest, and yeah we all have our _iew on them etc.....that's a given, but I just didn't like to see the boy given grief for no real reason was all.
Anyhow...we've digressed and started bickering and its not why I signed up for fab and its all getting a bit silly and out of hand.
We have different oppinions and we won't agree so I'm not really up for bickering on because when the lad comes back he'll just think us a bunch of argumentative twats and its far too soon for him to know that. "
Agree totally.
Like we said earlier, have fun. |
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"Singles are not cheating.....it's only the cannot accommodate married (usually guys) pretending to be single....but easy to suss!
Plenty enough genuine,y single guys n girls on here...."
I m not single lol just naughty  |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that?
If you didnt say he was cheating why even pipe up about it & hijack the poor lads thread!
And in the same vain its like you appeared to be accusing Christos of cheating also!!
I dont meet people who cheat but i will offer them advice as to why they are doing it rather than bash them on a thread taking it off subject! "
Thankyou....I was that lad at one once....I didn't know the forum had been searched so I asked....its just someone new wondering in and trying to figure the site out is all...... |
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"Read the thread about the poor sod who hasn't had a message in 3 years then work out the average time between meets for my platinum VIP 100 club member, 'nobby nobs'.
Lol Steve.....cheers for that mention! Dunno where it comes from (the heart?) but you know you and a few other forum stars are always welcome in the club.
It's not just about the numbers....but I
am considering a "double platinum
club" if you are interested?"
Haha I'm the bleedin' club owner! 'The 100 club' is for people with at least 100 veris, platinum is for people with 200+ |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that?
If you didnt say he was cheating why even pipe up about it & hijack the poor lads thread!
And in the same vain its like you appeared to be accusing Christos of cheating also!!
I dont meet people who cheat but i will offer them advice as to why they are doing it rather than bash them on a thread taking it off subject!
Thankyou....I was that lad at one once....I didn't know the forum had been searched so I asked....its just someone new wondering in and trying to figure the site out is all......"
It was and the poor bugger has prob been scared off but grumpy arsed gits who go off on tangents for no reason and upset lovely guys on here (you included) |
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"So are you saying that folk who cheat think that is is morally ok, or just choose to ignore the moral bit?
I think the point is it's their choice and your choice not to meet them
We agree with you about the choice.
Shame someone sits in the background waiting to get hurt.
Yes, we all know its baddies who cheat....its been well discussed
...but What's that got to do with the original point of why jump down the boys throat anyhow? Are you accusing this boy of being a cheat? Or just assuming? And then hitting him with your grade a supermorals with the upgraded battery pack?
It's all perspective...... Some would say swinging is immorral......what would you say to them?.
We agree, some do say swinging is immoral but only some, and genuine swingers are honest with their partners.
However who can actually say cheating is honest or morally decent at all?
We all have choices, shame some of us choose the dishonest route and hurt others.
As for accusing the boy of cheating, maybe you could point out to us where we did that?
If you didnt say he was cheating why even pipe up about it & hijack the poor lads thread!
And in the same vain its like you appeared to be accusing Christos of cheating also!!
I dont meet people who cheat but i will offer them advice as to why they are doing it rather than bash them on a thread taking it off subject!
Thankyou....I was that lad at one once....I didn't know the forum had been searched so I asked....its just someone new wondering in and trying to figure the site out is all......
It was and the poor bugger has prob been scared off but grumpy arsed gits who go off on tangents for no reason and upset lovely guys on here (you included) "
Yeah well....gonna leave it at that now....not banging my head on a brick wall any more....seems futile xx thankyou btw |
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You could have been a gladiator shag its the new yeAr guys everyone should be happy and getting on
We are have you seen his six pack Yes, this year I am gonna get them even sharper and more cut
I think you're right, Shag, you're starting to look a bit lardy. Recon its time for
new glasses there lol."
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over a year ago
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"So does this happen on everyone post, the subject changes and people jumping to conclusions. "
Yes it does, especially on bareback and married threads lol.
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
To be fair, you are a bit young to be playing in this world, we see these moody outburst now and again from young guys.
Not having much luck with girls in your normal life?"
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Bit like trying to get your first job really, no one wants to employ you unless you have experience and you can't gain experience because...
Try to find a positive USP about yourself, something that sets you out from the rest of the single guys on here.
Don't be fooled as arranging a swinging meet can demand as much effort, if not more, than wooing someone you've had your eye on for ages |
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"Yea makes you want to leave the site "
Be more self confident! It's just words on a bloody screen. If that worries you, how would you have enough confidence to go round to a couples house, get your kit off and start shagging some guys wife? |
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"So does this happen on everyone post, the subject changes and people jumping to conclusions. "
It does from time to time yeah.....but mostly it's good banter really....for every person ready to have a go there are fifty nice ones....try some of the other threads, people make up games and whatever....its a good way to chat and meet up with new folk to....
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"We'll as everyone has stated it takes about a year to meet so I have a whole year to gain more confidence "
If you were closer id fuck you every single way possible and then some ;p |
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"We'll as everyone has stated it takes about a year to meet so I have a whole year to gain more confidence "
No it doesn't. Just chill, join in on chat and forum, and make sure your profile gives potential sexual partners lots of info so they can make an informed decision. Don't get downhearted. It's not an instant sex site. Look at socials and clubs too. Start reading profiles and reading threads. See how the whole lifestyle works on fabswingers. Remember: *sings*..."always look on the bright side of life...." |
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"Can't you move closer "
Unforunately not.. But if ever in area or same for you if up here i'll pop that fab cherry and lead you well and truly astray! Actually come up end of feb theres a social night at TownHouse, you can meet and if feel comfortable enough play, us northerners are very friendly & we like to share |
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Nicely done honeyflower...good to see positives coming to the front. We none of us have sex we don't want so why should we jump to negative stereotypes? Its never a perfect world but we can all make it better. Hope the OP takes you up on a visit to your club...sounds very welcoming |
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"Can't you move closer "
It won't take a year mate, just take it easy and don't stress and just enjoy the site....come chat in here, hava a giggle....
You've already had a lovely offer from the beautiful miss honeyflower see
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"Genuine point - its up to you but I am always quite dubious of any guy claiming to be discreet who then has his face on his profile for all to see, makes me wonder how discreet you actually are."
Because this site is very different for men and women. For men it's about putting your best self forwards. For women it's about choosing from the 100s of best selves presented to you.
And hence Women can choose to be much more descreet in their profiles. |
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"We'll as everyone has stated it takes about a year to meet so I have a whole year to gain more confidence
If you were closer id fuck you every single way possible and then some ;p "
Now that's an offer I'd definitely take advantage of if offered.
OP get your skates on. |
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I personally am not looking for a single bloke, but best advice is to make your profile fun and cheerful.
This site is meant to be a laugh but you will find a lot of women and couple can be harsh and rude simply because they have been overwhelmed with messages.
Stick in there and something will happen.
Good luck
PS: apologies that you didnt get much advice and just comments, the site is awful to use. |
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"And I did give advice!! Lucky you. My question got ignored. It's like being invisible.
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......."PS: apologies that you didnt get much advice and just comments, the site is awful to use....."
I wonder why this person stays, if this is such an awful site to use?
I gave advice, and my advice is to follow the advice given otherwise a long winter awaits, full of frantic and lonely wanks, where the cum dribbles slowly out as if crying in desperation. |
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"Yea I have looked around now, sorry to offend you guys I know your only trying to help, just haven't been in the greatest mood, sorry for taking out on you lot
It's just because it gets asked a lot it occasionally wears thin...don't worry about it mate. Hang about on here and you'll see it loads...or you will have if you've done a search. I came and asked myself many moons ago so I know the villagers can get a bit snappy...they don't mean owt by it....the forums are nice. Welcome
The two things villagers like us see a lot of on here;
Single guys looking for free fuck.
Cheating partners. Swinging has never been about dishonesty and cheating.
We see lots of both and you are right in what you say, it wears a bit thin, well a lot thin."
Im sorry would you prefer single guy swingers to be paying.....? |
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"I haven been on this site for 2 months unfortunately had no luck yet. Would like some help with my profile. And how to gram people attention in a message "
Stick with it and be patient. There is no easy answer, just pick out the good advice and be yourself!
For those off on a tangent, follow my green arrow to the cheating scumbag thread. You will feel more confortable giving me a kicking there. Not the behavior of responsible swingers to hijack an advice thread. |
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"Don't bother. ....unless you are happy to fire a thousand messages a day and get 2 responses "
1000 messages a day sounds like a cut n paste random approach. It doesn't work. Patience, I think, is a good word for men on Fab. |
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