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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The single guy experience - the reality for some not all.....
As an educated professional single guy you decide to join the site to explore the world of nsa sexual relationships with confident educated sexually liberated and hopefully honest individuals, it's a big jump but you decide if your discreet the fun and excitement are worth any potential risks be them personal (neighbours) or professional (work). You set up your profile as honestly as you can but with an eye on discretion and struggle to decide but finally choose the pictures your happy to share with strangers (initially cock pics are not for you). You realise early on your going to have to do the prospecting so you take the time to read the detail of all the single women within your area. Surprised by some attracted by others you sort a shortlist of those you believe you fit with (her requirements and yours) and take the plunge. In the abscence of good clear pictures you put a lot of 'trust' in the description, especially build. Slim brings Kate Moss into your thoughts, Curvy Jennifer Lopez, Athletic Halle Berry, Large....well you get my drift. You write a polite individual profile specific mail. Your disappointed not to recieve many if any replies, most of your messages are just deleted, some read but not deleted, the first replies arrive, they are usually one liners 'how bigs your cock', 'send a cock pic', 'are you bi, that's what I need' (from single fems!), 'send full body cock and face photo' (from profiles with no pic at all), or some single fems response is 'i will only meet with my husband'. You are amazed by the rudeness of some people but dismiss it as the way in which society has moved. You persist maybe increasing your geographic area or reducing the standards you have off-site because your bitten by the bug. It finally happens, a polite response from someone who has actually read your profile, she is verified genuine and you can see her verifications! has pictures and has offered to send them. Email conversation turns to text, other media and phone eventually leading to an arranged meeting.
You have a mixture of excitement and nervousness, no matter how experienced you are, this swinging world is a new experience and she sounds really nice. The day arrives, you want to make a good impression, the right clothes, well groomed, expensive aftershave, condoms in case all goes well...........
Shall I continue with this??
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"The single guy experience - the reality for some not all.....
As an educated professional single guy you decide to join the site to explore the world of nsa sexual relationships with confident educated sexually liberated and hopefully honest individuals, it's a big jump but you decide if your discreet the fun and excitement are worth any potential risks be them personal (neighbours) or professional (work). You set up your profile as honestly as you can but with an eye on discretion and struggle to decide but finally choose the pictures your happy to share with strangers (initially cock pics are not for you). You realise early on your going to have to do the prospecting so you take the time to read the detail of all the single women within your area. Surprised by some attracted by others you sort a shortlist of those you believe you fit with (her requirements and yours) and take the plunge. In the abscence of good clear pictures you put a lot of 'trust' in the description, especially build. Slim brings Kate Moss into your thoughts, Curvy Jennifer Lopez, Athletic Halle Berry, Large....well you get my drift. You write a polite individual profile specific mail. Your disappointed not to recieve many if any replies, most of your messages are just deleted, some read but not deleted, the first replies arrive, they are usually one liners 'how bigs your cock', 'send a cock pic', 'are you bi, that's what I need' (from single fems!), 'send full body cock and face photo' (from profiles with no pic at all), or some single fems response is 'i will only meet with my husband'. You are amazed by the rudeness of some people but dismiss it as the way in which society has moved. You persist maybe increasing your geographic area or reducing the standards you have off-site because your bitten by the bug. It finally happens, a polite response from someone who has actually read your profile, she is verified genuine and you can see her verifications! has pictures and has offered to send them. Email conversation turns to text, other media and phone eventually leading to an arranged meeting.
You have a mixture of excitement and nervousness, no matter how experienced you are, this swinging world is a new experience and she sounds really nice. The day arrives, you want to make a good impression, the right clothes, well groomed, expensive aftershave, condoms in case all goes well...........
Shall I continue with this??
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think we all know that the woman who turned up to the meet was 15 years older than her pictures ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The single guy experience - the reality for some not all.....
As an educated professional single guy you decide to join the site to explore the world of nsa sexual relationships with confident educated sexually liberated and hopefully honest individuals, it's a big jump but you decide if your discreet the fun and excitement are worth any potential risks be them personal (neighbours) or professional (work). You set up your profile as honestly as you can but with an eye on discretion and struggle to decide but finally choose the pictures your happy to share with strangers (initially cock pics are not for you). You realise early on your going to have to do the prospecting so you take the time to read the detail of all the single women within your area. Surprised by some attracted by others you sort a shortlist of those you believe you fit with (her requirements and yours) and take the plunge. In the abscence of good clear pictures you put a lot of 'trust' in the description, especially build. Slim brings Kate Moss into your thoughts, Curvy Jennifer Lopez, Athletic Halle Berry, Large....well you get my drift. You write a polite individual profile specific mail. Your disappointed not to recieve many if any replies, most of your messages are just deleted, some read but not deleted, the first replies arrive, they are usually one liners 'how bigs your cock', 'send a cock pic', 'are you bi, that's what I need' (from single fems!), 'send full body cock and face photo' (from profiles with no pic at all), or some single fems response is 'i will only meet with my husband'. You are amazed by the rudeness of some people but dismiss it as the way in which society has moved. You persist maybe increasing your geographic area or reducing the standards you have off-site because your bitten by the bug. It finally happens, a polite response from someone who has actually read your profile, she is verified genuine and you can see her verifications! has pictures and has offered to send them. Email conversation turns to text, other media and phone eventually leading to an arranged meeting.
You have a mixture of excitement and nervousness, no matter how experienced you are, this swinging world is a new experience and she sounds really nice. The day arrives, you want to make a good impression, the right clothes, well groomed, expensive aftershave, condoms in case all goes well...........
Shall I continue with this??
think we all know that the woman who turned up to the meet was 15 years older than her pictures ???"
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Yes I think its only fair to continue if its kept in the same lighthearted fashion as the other one 
Will also be waiting for someone brave enough to do a couples version |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She doesnt turn up and ignores your texts, phone calls and messages on here
She smells of BO
There is no mutual attraction
She brings friend as she is too scared to meet you by herself
She brings friend as she thinks you wont mind doing a 3 sum
She doesnt bother to dress up
You find out when you get back to her place, that she has a husband and is having fun during the day whilst he is at work
You go back to hers and it belongs on "How clean is your house"
You go back to hers to find her daughter there waiting 
You go to a pub and she gets steaming d*unk and tells everyone in a loud voice why you are there
She constantly checks her mirror
She constantly checks her watch
When you decide you want to meet again, she gets out her diary 
She is younger/older than her profile says
Personally, whilst we are miles apart, i wouldnt turn you down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou GreyKitten, and thankyou all for the encouragement. It may be the calm before the storm!
Not surprised other guys haven't passed comment yet, their probably waiting to see how it unfolds.
Well, part 2 will be on when I get home.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She doesnt turn up and ignores your texts, phone calls and messages on here
She smells of BO
There is no mutual attraction
She brings friend as she is too scared to meet you by herself
She brings friend as she thinks you wont mind doing a 3 sum
She doesnt bother to dress up
You find out when you get back to her place, that she has a husband and is having fun during the day whilst he is at work
You go back to hers and it belongs on "How clean is your house"
You go back to hers to find her daughter there waiting
You go to a pub and she gets steaming d*unk and tells everyone in a loud voice why you are there
She constantly checks her mirror
She constantly checks her watch
When you decide you want to meet again, she gets out her diary
She is younger/older than her profile says
Personally, whilst we are miles apart, i wouldnt turn you down"
hehehe - is that a wish list!!!!
Maybe us single guys have to high an expectation! Pmsl
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She doesnt turn up and ignores your texts, phone calls and messages on here
She smells of BO
There is no mutual attraction
She brings friend as she is too scared to meet you by herself
She brings friend as she thinks you wont mind doing a 3 sum
She doesnt bother to dress up
You find out when you get back to her place, that she has a husband and is having fun during the day whilst he is at work
You go back to hers and it belongs on "How clean is your house"
You go back to hers to find her daughter there waiting
You go to a pub and she gets steaming d*unk and tells everyone in a loud voice why you are there
She constantly checks her mirror
She constantly checks her watch
When you decide you want to meet again, she gets out her diary
She is younger/older than her profile says
Personally, whilst we are miles apart, i wouldnt turn you down
hehehe - is that a wish list!!!!
Maybe us single guys have to high an expectation! Pmsl
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Oh right, fancy a mother and daughter then do you 
Oh yes i did forget:-
You book a hotel just in case, she doesnt turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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im guessing part 2 hasnt been done yet lol
anyway i found this really interesting
love to hear how it ends
would love to hear more from other guys as well |
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"im guessing part 2 hasnt been done yet lol
anyway i found this really interesting
love to hear how it ends
would love to hear more from other guys as well "
i never thought i would ever hear those words spoken by a couple
if you would like to hear more from other single guys try answering messages instead of deleting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im guessing part 2 hasnt been done yet lol
anyway i found this really interesting
love to hear how it ends
would love to hear more from other guys as well
i never thought i would ever hear those words spoken by a couple
if you would like to hear more from other single guys try answering messages instead of deleting them "
Travelled from Ventimiglia to a hotel in Milan... She sent her daughter...
Dio benedica l'Italiane...! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"im guessing part 2 hasnt been done yet lol
anyway i found this really interesting
love to hear how it ends
would love to hear more from other guys as well "
im happy you found it interesting, it was inspired by Sausage Jockey's original post. I wrote Part 2 a week or so ago, it's on it's own thread. |
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