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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll say this as gently as possible, you've got to work it out for yourself. No amount of profile advice will do you any good unless you're prepared to work at it.
Look at successful male profiles and see what they're doing right.
Search previous forum threads.
All good places to start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll say this as gently as possible, you've got to work it out for yourself. No amount of profile advice will do you any good unless you're prepared to work at it.
Look at successful male profiles and see what they're doing right.
Search previous forum threads.
All good places to start."
you seem to have a zebra on ur penis  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll say this as gently as possible, you've got to work it out for yourself. No amount of profile advice will do you any good unless you're prepared to work at it.
Look at successful male profiles and see what they're doing right.
Search previous forum threads.
All good places to start."
Ok thanks. Just wasn't sure if there was something someone could put there finger on and say that does not help u to get noticed etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll say this as gently as possible, you've got to work it out for yourself. No amount of profile advice will do you any good unless you're prepared to work at it.
Look at successful male profiles and see what they're doing right.
Search previous forum threads.
All good places to start.
you seem to have a zebra on ur penis "
Lol that was that sock on a cock thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll say this as gently as possible, you've got to work it out for yourself. No amount of profile advice will do you any good unless you're prepared to work at it.
Look at successful male profiles and see what they're doing right.
Search previous forum threads.
All good places to start.
you seem to have a zebra on ur penis
Lol that was that sock on a cock thing "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!"
Which bit? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!"
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic "
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol "
And there's your first mistake, removing or adding bits that people like/dislike turns your profile into a collection of someone else's opinions instead of a reflection of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol "
it was only a joke mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate "
I know lol  |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
Which bit? X"
The bit about rich Mila kunis etc....went over my head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol "
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only your last sentence is useful to a degree, but even that isn't enough to help someone decide to meet you.
Include your USPs, who you're looking for and what you hope to get out of the site.
Plus your status is off putting for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
Which bit? X
The bit about rich Mila kunis etc....went over my head "
she looks like katie price on a good day lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt "
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together "
The tie is fine, I'm not sure why he's trying to antagonise you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together "
ur first picture looks like ur ready for a fight or go murder someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together
The tie is fine, I'm not sure why he's trying to antagonise you. "
its a joke banter its called |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together
ur first picture looks like ur ready for a fight or go murder someone "
He probably isn't as straight as he says he is hence the constant posts lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together
ur first picture looks like ur ready for a fight or go murder someone
He probably isn't as straight as he says he is hence the constant posts lol"
what the tie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together
The tie is fine, I'm not sure why he's trying to antagonise you.
its a joke banter its called "
He's asking for help, and you're taking the piss out of his pictures instead of offering constructive criticism. It's also not funny at all, just seems rude. |
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol"
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more? |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
it was only a joke mate
I know lol
that tie doesnt go with ur shirt
Blame Burtons then coz it was a tie and shirt combo together
ur first picture looks like ur ready for a fight or go murder someone "
Haha thats funny coming from the bloke who asks for profile advice all the time and gets told to SMILE!!!!! Cheer the fuck up the pair of ya, nobody wants to meet a miserable bugger!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?"
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text "
But you've gone to polar extremes. A few sentences is fine, you've got one that isn't insightful at all.
Surely you must have more to say about yourself than just one sentence. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text "
Not at all....it doesn't have to be war and peace, but its always nice to read a well worded, well thought out profile. You really do need to make an effort! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text
But you've gone to polar extremes. A few sentences is fine, you've got one that isn't insightful at all.
Surely you must have more to say about yourself than just one sentence. "
So put more about me as a person or what I like and want sexually? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text
But you've gone to polar extremes. A few sentences is fine, you've got one that isn't insightful at all.
Surely you must have more to say about yourself than just one sentence.
So put more about me as a person or what I like and want sexually?"
Both. You can talk about your interests without being graphic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?
But surely if I write loads it just ends up been about what I want to do sexually aka a rude profile and will put people off. Plus won't people get bored by long profile text
But you've gone to polar extremes. A few sentences is fine, you've got one that isn't insightful at all.
Surely you must have more to say about yourself than just one sentence.
So put more about me as a person or what I like and want sexually?
Both. You can talk about your interests without being graphic. "
Ok thank you x |
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
its the zebra penis that does it for me classic
I've got rid of that now seen as u hate it so much lol
And there's your first mistake, removing or adding bits that people like/dislike turns your profile into a collection of someone else's opinions instead of a reflection of you. "
These threads really don't help as the op ends up trying to be all things to all men, when you can't! If an adult on an adult site lacks the ability to "sell" themselves and let others know what they want, well...who has time to wet nurse?!! |
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Can't comprehend why any contribution is more relevant than previous posts on the same topic.....there are loads if you search....at this rate Fabs owners will need additional server space and we will allpay for that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't comprehend why any contribution is more relevant than previous posts on the same topic.....there are loads if you search....at this rate Fabs owners will need additional server space and we will allpay for that! "
Coz each profile is different to the individual? You also don't have to comment to build the thread onto a bigger thread then it needs to be? I apologise for the inconvenience it has caused you and the fab owners |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I didn't understand the first bit
You need to check your grammar, punctuation and spellings.....and the use of text speak is a big turn off for many!
Which bit? X
The bit about rich Mila kunis etc....went over my head "
Made me chuckle x dhows he has a sense of humour x
I wouldn't wait..... Be proactive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say add more text.... (Although ours is very verbose tbh)
Can't really glean anything from your profile...what you want, want you will give etc
Anyway, best advice is don't take advice and do yer own thing... Otherwise your profile will be a cookie-cutter type
Oh don't forget to add the Uni disclaimer and a hidden word for people to use when PMing...great filters
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't comprehend why any contribution is more relevant than previous posts on the same topic.....there are loads if you search....at this rate Fabs owners will need additional server space and we will allpay for that!
Coz each profile is different to the individual? You also don't have to comment to build the thread onto a bigger thread then it needs to be? I apologise for the inconvenience it has caused you and the fab owners"
Oh god...I've just cost them too..... Replying to the reply of the reply (or summat)
They will be off to Tesco for another Terrabyte drive!
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You are never going to get everyone to like your profile, thats just how it is. Be honest, be polite and be respectful, and more importantly, be yourself. Then re-read it, if your happy with it, then post it. Good luck. |
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"Can't comprehend why any contribution is more relevant than previous posts on the same topic.....there are loads if you search....at this rate Fabs owners will need additional server space and we will allpay for that!
Coz each profile is different to the individual? You also don't have to comment to build the thread onto a bigger thread then it needs to be? I apologise for the inconvenience it has caused you and the fab owners"
No need to apologize but the guys who post such have the same varying answers as prev posts.....think someone earlier hit the nail on the head that its really up to the individual but for the record you can have a great profile and pics but this alone does not and will not integrate a single male into the swinging fraternity.....if single tou got to mingle!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit contradictory, you say you won't just meet anyone then go on to say you don't have a type. It's very vague and a little run of the mill. If you want to get noticed you have to stand out grim the crowd, or get involved with the crowd through organised socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all hope you have had a brilliant xmas.
I appreciate these type of forum posts are posted alot but any tips to help me find a meet?
Be gentle I have feelings lol
Your forum post is longer than your profile...do I REALLY need to say more?"
I read the profile before tge thread and I've already forgotten the profile.
OP there is nothing overtly wrong with your profile it's just incredibly bland and does nothing to stand out from hundreds if not thousands of similarly bland profiles |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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And there's your first mistake, removing or adding bits that people like/dislike turns your profile into a collection of someone else's opinions instead of a reflection of you. "
this this this..................
there is no template for the perfect profile... and what people try to get a feel for YOU!!!!
so to more you change it and you listen to everyone else.... the less it is actually YOU.... and the more of a bland generic mish mash it becomes....
let me give you an example to kinda prove a point.....
lets say 10 women.... 5 of them absolutely love cock pictures...... 5 of them absolutely hate cock pictures....
who are you going to listen to????
point being you fall into exactly the same mistake that most people fall into when they ask for advice...... you are not going to be able to please everyone!!!!
why try to please everyone??? it is not about trying to appeal to the mass population... it is about trying to attract specific people who what specific things........ |
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