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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a good-looking guy, your profile is well-written, so I don't see any problems. I guess it's all down your messages. May I ask how long you've been on the site? 'Cause I joined in June 2013, but didn't get my first meet till August 2014, so it can take patience and time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks mate .been on for 5 months but deleted as didn't do well then to .so I joined up again about 3-4 weeks ago rewrote my profile and the same thing is happening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks mate .been on for 5 months but deleted as didn't do well then to .so I joined up again about 3-4 weeks ago rewrote my profile and the same thing is happening "
Don't worry, I had pretty much the same problem. Came off the site after a couple of months due to complete inactivity, then just persisted with it and tried and tried again. It's difficult when the men outnumber the women at such an extensive ratio, sometimes you feel like a needle in a haystack trying to stand out from the crowd. My only advice would be to try and post in the forums quite a lot, get your personality across, then more people will know you and word will soon get around. Also, keep your profile fresh, maybe upload new pictures on a frequent basis. You never know when it might catch someone's eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a good-looking guy, your profile is well-written, so I don't see any problems. I guess it's all down your messages. May I ask how long you've been on the site? 'Cause I joined in June 2013, but didn't get my first meet till August 2014, so it can take patience and time."
14 months? Bloody hell you have the patience of a saint! No wonder so many give up......Jeez. I could never be that patient.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks mate .been on for 5 months but deleted as didn't do well then to .so I joined up again about 3-4 weeks ago rewrote my profile and the same thing is happening
Don't worry, I had pretty much the same problem. Came off the site after a couple of months due to complete inactivity, then just persisted with it and tried and tried again. It's difficult when the men outnumber the women at such an extensive ratio, sometimes you feel like a needle in a haystack trying to stand out from the crowd. My only advice would be to try and post in the forums quite a lot, get your personality across, then more people will know you and word will soon get around. Also, keep your profile fresh, maybe upload new pictures on a frequent basis. You never know when it might catch someone's eye."
 thanks for the advice mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks mate .been on for 5 months but deleted as didn't do well then to .so I joined up again about 3-4 weeks ago rewrote my profile and the same thing is happening
Don't worry, I had pretty much the same problem. Came off the site after a couple of months due to complete inactivity, then just persisted with it and tried and tried again. It's difficult when the men outnumber the women at such an extensive ratio, sometimes you feel like a needle in a haystack trying to stand out from the crowd. My only advice would be to try and post in the forums quite a lot, get your personality across, then more people will know you and word will soon get around. Also, keep your profile fresh, maybe upload new pictures on a frequent basis. You never know when it might catch someone's eye. thanks for the advice mate"
Not a problem, pal. I know what it's like, so I can relate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a good-looking guy, your profile is well-written, so I don't see any problems. I guess it's all down your messages. May I ask how long you've been on the site? 'Cause I joined in June 2013, but didn't get my first meet till August 2014, so it can take patience and time.
14 months? Bloody hell you have the patience of a saint! No wonder so many give up......Jeez. I could never be that patient...."
I think for about eight of those months I just didn't use the site at all, so it wasn't that bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found going to parties / clubs without the expectation of playing was a massive boost to getting verified / meets etc as you'll be shown to be real and now at timewaster
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell people why you can't accommodate hun. Peolpe will assume you are married. Also, you've got a great face pic in your gallery. I would swap that with your profile pic. Im viewing it on my phone and it looks like you are hiding under a blanket. Then there's the usual advice if getting yourself to clubs and getting on cam. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell people why you can't accommodate hun. Peolpe will assume you are married. Also, you've got a great face pic in your gallery. I would swap that with your profile pic. Im viewing it on my phone and it looks like you are hiding under a blanket. Then there's the usual advice if getting yourself to clubs and getting on cam. Good luck x"
thank you  which one ? Can you fab it x |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
I second the advice to tell people why you can't accomodate. There are so many guys on here that are cheating (or attempting to) behind their partner's back that a single guy who can't accom is automatically assumed to be one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello, I think your attractive. I think the problem is your a signal guy. If you were a couple it still will take a bit too. Just be patient.
Lisa"
thanks Lisa x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wonderd as no one seems to want to chat. I get no views no winks etc .and before anyone asks no I didn't expect to be knee deep in pussy lol"
There you go I sent you a message xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its by luck as well and where you live, there is no horney women down south, all interest comes from north England  "
I have noticed that actually lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile... ok
Pics... ok
One of thousands? Check
Married? Check*
* thats what people tend to think when cant accom excuses are given, sorry."
I have put on my profile that I'm 100% single |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
leeds |
"Its by luck as well and where you live, there is no horney women down south, all interest comes from north England "
Yeh, we canny Yorkshire lassies use sex to keep warm, saves on the heating bills! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its by luck as well and where you live, there is no horney women down south, all interest comes from north England
I have noticed that actually lol"
Yes. I think I need to relocate lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its by luck as well and where you live, there is no horney women down south, all interest comes from north England
Yeh, we canny Yorkshire lassies use sex to keep warm, saves on the heating bills!"
loool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its by luck as well and where you live, there is no horney women down south, all interest comes from north England
Yeh, we canny Yorkshire lassies use sex to keep warm, saves on the heating bills!"
lol yes that's a good way to keep warm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does tend to be the men that message or fab pictures. There must be enough gay/bi men to go round. Suppose it's what women or couples think, not another single man ffs. I've already got my hands tied behind my back by been openly married but I got my first meet after 3 weeks I reckon it all comes down to location as even the most desperate/needy will not travel an hour or two for a possible no show. Good luck in your quest for  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, we chatted on your old profile, I gave you my number to arrange a meet but never heard from you. Hope you have better luck this time around. "
you did yes just before I cancelled my profile and I smashed my phone and lost all my numbers.but thanks for that post probably won't do me any favours lol but hope your OK x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, we chatted on your old profile, I gave you my number to arrange a meet but never heard from you. Hope you have better luck this time around. you did yes just before I cancelled my profile and I smashed my phone and lost all my numbers.but thanks for that post probably won't do me any favours lol but hope your OK x"
In all honesty, your response to the post is probably what won't do you any favours.
It may, of course, be true, but such a comedy of errors on a site with an unfortunate number of bullshitters as members, will more than likely propel you into their ranks. |
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