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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me again.
How come I do not appeal to so many.
I know you lot can be brutal so
What am i doing wrong
Does my face not fit?  "
you know 6 meets in 2 months is good going for a single guy |
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"Me again.
How come I do not appeal to so many.
I know you lot can be brutal so
What am i doing wrong
Does my face not fit? "
How many threads, variations on the same theme are you going to start?
You're coming across desperate and I'm sure that's not your intent.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not desperate.
So many sent messages are left unread.
Is it ok to try again.
Maybe in convo with others?
So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.
That's wat I want to.
But just get ignored
Is the profile picture really the decider?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've had 6 meets in 2 months. Maybe the only problem is your expectations. "
I think he's using these posts as an ad to drum up some business by getting people to read his profile
6 meets? It must be working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Embrace the fact that you the majority of people are not likely to fancy you.
Now that's not a suggestion that you're ugly or any other insult, it's just how it is. Stop looking at your sent mailbox and worry about what you can control, ie.......your replies you do get. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not attention seeking at all.
I have used tge forums for advice and take it all on board.
Moat of you forum Folk have been in the scene for a while.
You know wat appeals
And the answers to
What women want.
The majority of forum users live miles away so no I'm not using this as a place to advertise, i'm here for useful and some unuseful criticism.
Don't be haters just for asking advice.
After all isn't this wat forums are for?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.
That's wat I want to.
But just get ignored
Is the profile picture really the decider? "
Finding a friend with benefits isnt easy x
But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.
That's wat I want to.
But just get ignored
Is the profile picture really the decider?
Finding a friend with benefits isnt easy x
But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same. "
I've not really got the wow factor. People (women)like me the more they spend time with me.
Whats called a grower.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not attention seeking at all.
I have used tge forums for advice and take it all on board.
Moat of you forum Folk have been in the scene for a while.
You know wat appeals
And the answers to
What women want.
The majority of forum users live miles away so no I'm not using this as a place to advertise, i'm here for useful and some unuseful criticism.
Don't be haters just for asking advice.
After all isn't this wat forums are for?
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same type of threads you post all the time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.
This"
Who said I can't
Just real word is vanilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.
This
Who said I can't
Just real word is vanilla "
Not at all
Noone is truly vanilla  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.
This
Who said I can't
Just real word is vanilla
Not at all
Noone is truly vanilla "
In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.
In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy
I want a friend for good sex no dramas
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes everyone lives to far away, it boils down to distance. I find it strange that on internet dating you will hardly never find one that is 2min from you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Six verifications in two months.That's not far from averaging 1 week a meet. Christ knows how many you could get if you weren't so negative. Some single guys on here go months without a look in. Keep doing what your doing Casanova. Got any tips for us mere mortals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.
In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.
In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy
I want a friend for good sex no dramas
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You still need to give a little and as for no dramas.......I think you enjoy a little drama here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.
In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.
In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy
I want a friend for good sex no dramas
You still need to give a little and as for no dramas.......I think you enjoy a little drama here "
I don't see the forums as dramas. Some friendly some sarcastic. I dont take it to heart x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me again.
How come I do not appeal to so many.
I know you lot can be brutal so
What am i doing wrong
Does my face not fit?
Your pictures appeal to gay/bi men not women. Sorry xx"
So wat pictures do you prefer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not desperate.
So many sent messages are left unread.
Is it ok to try again.
Maybe in convo with others?
So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.
That's wat I want to.
But just get ignored
Is the profile picture really the decider? "
You have had six meets. Have you asked them if they would like to be FB's? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an observation, and I'm not a "hater"...
You do realise it is Christmas?
People are with family, friends, kids are off school etc etc.
You have had a bloody good two months compared to others. Stop sounding so needy with the what is up with me thread, start planning for the New Year.
Just a thought and probably not an original one... |
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"Me again.
How come I do not appeal to so many.
I know you lot can be brutal so
What am i doing wrong
Does my face not fit? "
. At your last meet was on the 19 th , and you have had various meets in the last six weeks ,what is the key purpose of this thread . How many meets are you expecting?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"please stop writing 'wat'!"
Oh thank you for saying it. I was dying to say something but didn't want to be a typing nazi.
But any guy who repeatedly types wat would put me off meeting, or chatting any further. Sorry.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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for someone who has had 6 meets in two months i do have to ask...
what the bejesus were your expectations if that amount of meets in such a small space of time and you are still grumbling?
i bet 99% of men on the site would be cock-a-hoop to be in your position..... |
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"No not desperate.
So many sent messages are left unread.
Is it ok to try again.
Maybe in convo with others?
So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.
That's wat I want to.
But just get ignored
Is the profile picture really the decider? "
if it was the decider you wouldn't of had any meets. Think this has come across wrong but I'm tired lol |
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