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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single guy I don't like randomly messaging women and couples as I feel they prob get inundated all the time. I prefer to fab a pic and hope they contact me.is this wrong. Couples and women's opinion plz would be greatful as not having much success on here and wondered if I'm not being forward enough or if my profile is just cap lol |
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Depends on whose pics you fabbed I suppose? And how they view fabs.
I don't look to see whose fabbed my pics. And I don't just fab pics of people i want to meet. Sometimes I just like a pic, might think the lady looks great or it might be an interesting shot but I wouldn't want to meet them.
As I've never had a message saying 'I see you fabbed my pic do you fancy a chat/meet' then I reckon a fair few people think the same |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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For us, we do get a lot of messages. We don't have many rules and we read every message. Not everyone gets blocked after the first message. Generally if you've read our profile and adjust your approach to match you'll get a reply. Those who were are turning down, if they have read our profile we will usually reply with a thanks but no thanks. Don't read our profile and its just deleted. Repeated attempts or abusive messages are what get you blocked
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I.rarely look.to see who has fabbed me and wouldn't send a message saying thanks for the fab as I take it they like the pic but as they haven't sent a message they are not interested in talking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your input. Think I need to be a bit more forward. I'm always polite and have respect .I have had some really nasty messages in the past from people who are not interested after I have sent them a polite friendly message so this has also put me off messaging. Think I need to man up and get messaging lol.
Thanks again everyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way. "
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way.
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy"
There is a vast difference between being pushy and showing confidence.
I like a confident guy who can send a decent message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way.
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy
There is a vast difference between being pushy and showing confidence.
I like a confident guy who can send a decent message. "
I think as long as you remain respectful, you'll be fine. From what I've gathered, the women here are bombarded with messages most of the time.
It's better to send a message, but make your heading stand out and your message intriguing.
If you can capture someones imagination then you'll be successful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers peeps ya input is appreciated "
Our profile say`s not looking for single guy`s but still get messages from them but happy to chat its only polite afterall .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheers peeps ya input is appreciated
Our profile say`s not looking for single guy`s but still get messages from them but happy to chat its only polite afterall . "
I will def make sure I read full profile before I message anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore fabs and winks unless you are super hot..........no even then I ignore them. If people are interested they'd message. I know I do if someone catches my eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I don't notice Fabs usually, unless I put new pics up. But I love a humorous message (depending on their sense of humour!).
(Please don't send knock knock jokes as being blocked often offends...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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crazyxtc and athena - with profiles like that you both don't really need fabs to meet someone worthy. You have the advantage here. Would you prefer a visually good looking man over a nice personality, or the other way round? In other words, are photos extremely important at the first stage? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"crazyxtc and athena - with profiles like that you both don't really need fabs to meet someone worthy. You have the advantage here. Would you prefer a visually good looking man over a nice personality, or the other way round? In other words, are photos extremely important at the first stage?"
Photos are the most important part of the profile. On here I rate looks before personality then penis size and height. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photos are the most important part of the profile. On here I rate looks before personality then penis size and height. "
Are you following "the bigger the better" principle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photos are the most important part of the profile. On here I rate looks before personality then penis size and height.
Are you following "the bigger the better" principle? "
I'm not the best person to ask with regards to penis size. I'm a size queen and into cock worship. A penis would have to be minimum 7" in length with decent girth and a good set of balls. Nothing to do with penetration it's purely aesthetic reasons, I like to look at a penis, smell it and roll it over my face. I'm totally the wrong person to ask about penis size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a size queen and into cock worship. "
Oh, never heard of that! Interesting. Why does size matter in this instance? So you think a 5" cock is not worth worshipping? Just curious, and no, it's not my size  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a size queen and into cock worship.
Oh, never heard of that! Interesting. Why does size matter in this instance? So you think a 5" cock is not worth worshipping? Just curious, and no, it's not my size "
Someone else would worship a 5" cock but I like intimidating looking cocks, I enjoy the pain and stretching feeling upon first entry. I also like the penis to have very prominent veins running through it and not too much of a curve. I also like my cocks to have a turtle neck so no circumcised willy's for me! |
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"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way.
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy
There is a vast difference between being pushy and showing confidence.
I like a confident guy who can send a decent message. "
Likewise guys like strong confident sexy women who know what they want and how to get it....A lady with initiative |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way.
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy
There is a vast difference between being pushy and showing confidence.
I like a confident guy who can send a decent message.
Likewise guys like strong confident sexy women who know what they want and how to get it....A lady with initiative "
You'd be surprised at the amount that feel intimidated, especially in this neck of the woods  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes fabbing a pic is the only option if you're one year out of the age category.
Has it ever worked?
Good for you if it did!"
Just once and we are still friends now. |
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"I don't notice who Fab's my pictures, so I wouldn't message them. You're probably missing out on a lot of opportunities by restricting yourself in this way.
Yeah think your right just don't want to seam pushy
There is a vast difference between being pushy and showing confidence.
I like a confident guy who can send a decent message.
Likewise guys like strong confident sexy women who know what they want and how to get it....A lady with initiative
You'd be surprised at the amount that feel intimidated, especially in this neck of the woods "
I am surprised however for every one that is intimidated there will be lots who aren't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single guy I don't like randomly messaging women and couples as I feel they prob get inundated all the time. I prefer to fab a pic and hope they contact me.is this wrong. Couples and women's opinion plz would be greatful as not having much success on here and wondered if I'm not being forward enough or if my profile is just cap lol"
I don't even look at who has fabbed my profile... I'm not sure where I'd find that out... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single guy I don't like randomly messaging women and couples as I feel they prob get inundated all the time. I prefer to fab a pic and hope they contact me.is this wrong. Couples and women's opinion plz would be greatful as not having much success on here and wondered if I'm not being forward enough or if my profile is just cap lol
I don't even look at who has fabbed my profile... I'm not sure where I'd find that out..."
R u using a phone app or online. Should be a tab on either showing who has viewed u x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you!"
Cheers for the input. Wasn't my bathroom but point taken.will remove that pic. Will work on my profile over xmas.any input on what to include would be gratefully received.ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a size queen and into cock worship.
Oh, never heard of that! Interesting. Why does size matter in this instance? So you think a 5" cock is not worth worshipping? Just curious, and no, it's not my size
Someone else would worship a 5" cock but I like intimidating looking cocks, I enjoy the pain and stretching feeling upon first entry. I also like the penis to have very prominent veins running through it and not too much of a curve. I also like my cocks to have a turtle neck so no circumcised willy's for me!"
Is mine ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I.rarely look.to see who has fabbed me and wouldn't send a message saying thanks for the fab as I take it they like the pic but as they haven't sent a message they are not interested in talking "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you!
Cheers for the input. Wasn't my bathroom but point taken.will remove that pic. Will work on my profile over xmas.any input on what to include would be gratefully received.ya"
Doesn't really matter whose bathroom it is and are you saying that just to disown the bottle of Brut in the corner! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you!
Cheers for the input. Wasn't my bathroom but point taken.will remove that pic. Will work on my profile over xmas.any input on what to include would be gratefully received.ya
Doesn't really matter whose bathroom it is and are you saying that just to disown the bottle of Brut in the corner! "
lol I'm a lynx man . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you!
Cheers for the input. Wasn't my bathroom but point taken.will remove that pic. Will work on my profile over xmas.any input on what to include would be gratefully received.ya
Doesn't really matter whose bathroom it is and are you saying that just to disown the bottle of Brut in the corner!
lol I'm a lynx man . "
But must admit it was a gift from my daughters lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you ask....yes your profile is quite poor. Says nothing (too brief) ..... And cock shots in your (not particularly sparkling bathroom?) Ask yourself....if you receive a message (or a fab) and then look to the profile to see who it is....would you be impressed? Honestly? Thought not!
There are lots of men for every woman/couple on the site. You need to stand out in some way.....do you!
Cheers for the input. Wasn't my bathroom but point taken.will remove that pic. Will work on my profile over xmas.any input on what to include would be gratefully received.ya
Doesn't really matter whose bathroom it is and are you saying that just to disown the bottle of Brut in the corner!
lol I'm a lynx man .
But must admit it was a gift from my daughters lol "
That pic is my bathroom.the other bathroom pic wasn't mine |
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