Hi everyone, I am just wondering if we are the only ones to experience this?
We struggle to let ourselves go and have fun other than when we are at a club or on a meet.Yes we make love when we can at home but don't let ourselves go.
Does anyone else experience the same thing? 
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I think that some people find intimacy difficult so will be able to let themselves go when there are more than just the two of them. It could also be the atmosphere allows you to lose inhibitions.
In my experience I wouldn't say its normal exactly but I expect lots of people are able to behave in ways that they wouldn't normally when they're in a club. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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Years ago when I used to bring up the subject of having pre-planned sex as opposed to whatever happened spontaneously my OH would sometimes say this caused added "pressure". Last year we were lucky enough to get away from it all and experience a "second honeymoon". When you go to clubs etc there is planning involved and hopefully a conducive environment.
Only you know about your home circumstances, worries, children, worries about making noise etc. Could I suggest date nights or whatever else you did when you were first together, or possibly using porn iron whatever turns you both on?
Him |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"*or * whatever turns you on!
I preferred porn iron  .
I want to meet someone for whom ironing is porn, then they could do mine "
I'll be ironing my shirts later but will not be travelling hundreds of miles to do yours.  |
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"*or * whatever turns you on!
I preferred porn iron .
I want to meet someone for whom ironing is porn, then they could do mine
I'll be ironing my shirts later but will not be travelling hundreds of miles to do yours. "
I would have made tea and everything!  |
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over a year ago
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I sort of get where you're coming from.
Sometimes I think people can be a bit more reserved with their respective partners through respect for each other. Not to say that you shouldn't treat play friends with the same respect. |
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No, not really, we normally hold back in meets as our predilections are somewhat more robust than most.
Generally I'd say the sex is better when we're alone, though it is in part fuelled by what we do in meets |
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"No, not really, we normally hold back in meets as our predilections are somewhat more robust than most.
Generally I'd say the sex is better when we're alone, though it is in part fuelled by what we do in meets"
We are similar to the above couple. However Frisky has squirted once at a club but never at home... |
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over a year ago
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I could never 'let go' with my ex because he was not able to respond to me. I found visiting clubs and having sex with more liberated people allowed me the opportunity to be more 'myself' if that makes sense |
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