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females, too sceptical or bang on?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We regularly get an instant friend request from "single bi-females" without having had any kind of contact prior. It states on our profile if anyone does this we will instantly block. So are they likely to be fake and deserved of the block button, or are we just being too sceptical because we're so tired of the amount of fakes? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I'd be suspicious.
Simple solution - don't accept but don't delete.
If they make contact you can then decide.
If they don't? Leaving it unaccepted and not deleted stops one being sent again.
Winner/winner! 
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"We regularly get an instant friend request from "single bi-females" without having had any kind of contact prior. It states on our profile if anyone does this we will instantly block. So are they likely to be fake and deserved of the block button, or are we just being too sceptical because we're so tired of the amount of fakes?"
whether they are genuine females or not - they disrespect your wishes. Are these really the type of people you want to meet?
I'd rather miss a meet than meet with someone who cannot respect my boundaries.
As a single bi fem - I never send unsolicited friend requests, and even ask after a long chat as I hate when other people send me requests without asking. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Single bi-fem = married sex starved male craving pics to wank over
damn rumbled. sorry.
You have a nice bum for a man  "
epilating and shaving it is quite literally a pain in the arse. I'm really a hairy arsed great ape of a fella. Just good at disguises |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't dream of sending a friend request to anyone I've not conversed with. Be it man/woman or couple. I do however receive them off people who state the same as you op.
I just ignore but wouldn't block x
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We've lost count on how many single females send friends requests to us no messages either explain no requests without gettin to know each other a little then no reply an blocked lol single guys an fakes lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" whether they are genuine females or not - they disrespect your wishes. Are these really the type of people you want to meet?
I'd rather miss a meet than meet with someone who cannot respect my boundaries.
As a single bi fem - I never send unsolicited friend requests, and even ask after a long chat as I hate when other people send me requests without asking."
Thanks, glad we're not in the minority of thinking there. If people can't take notice and respect us at such an early stage, then how could they possibly do so at a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say they are probably fake tho id take a quick look at their profile as well. Most unsolicited friend requeats I get are from males and couples which are just ignored and blocked. They are only pic collectors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant remember last time I got a friend add, usually I have to hunt for them lol 
Oh my god I may regret this lol ....."
lol and thanks, or like it to much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant remember last time I got a friend add, usually I have to hunt for them lol
Oh my god I may regret this lol .....lol and thanks, or like it to much "
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant remember last time I got a friend add, usually I have to hunt for them lol
Oh my god I may regret this lol .....lol and thanks, or like it to much
lol"
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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I go further than ignoring random requests, I block them all! It states quite clearly that I do not accept them on my profile and that I will block the senders. If they choose to ignore that fact then so be it, blocked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you got your profile set up for only verified people can make co tact with you? ID never send a friend request without chatting abit tho x"
We considered doing that, however, remembered that we were very lucky in getting verifications so quickly, and thought that new people joining with no verifications might not be so lucky, so woukd give them a chance |
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"We regularly get an instant friend request from "single bi-females" without having had any kind of contact prior. It states on our profile if anyone does this we will instantly block. So are they likely to be fake and deserved of the block button, or are we just being too sceptical because we're so tired of the amount of fakes?"
For consistency ask yourself if this was a single male disregarding your express wishes, would you block striaght away? I suspect so but only you know
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my experience, ladies generally read profiles and are sensitive to requests from them.
If you have asked for something and that has been ignored, it's generally a guy.
Simples "
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