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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so how do you find out for sure why someone has left the site ?? I have been chatting to someone, exchanged kik address and messaging offline, now see that they are no longer on the site. I've just asked why but if they tell me they've just left, how do I know that's the truth and they haven't been taken off for being fake?! Any advice please? Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the only way to find out is to ask them, if you are already feeling bad vibes then it might be wise to avoid, at least there is admin on here if anything goes silly, kik ect is a little more difficult to control  |
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Unfortunately unless you have met this person or couple. If it was me I would assume the worst. I tend to only start friendships with people I have met at socials or have seen on a Web cam in chat here. Sadly there are far too many who seem to get a kick out of stringing people along. |
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Mmm bit of a difficult one.
Of course there are many other reasons they could have left aswell.
Seems odd they never told you before either if they were genuine and wanted to carry on chatting through Kik.
Unless we had met them before and there was a little trust there I think we would stop communication. Just not worth the risk of grief. Plenty more fun to be had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so how do you find out for sure why someone has left the site ?? I have been chatting to someone, exchanged kik address and messaging offline, now see that they are no longer on the site. I've just asked why but if they tell me they've just left, how do I know that's the truth and they haven't been taken off for being fake?! Any advice please? Thanks "
If they don't want to tell you its their business if it creates mistrust for you then walk away its about all you can do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive met a few men that have since left the site ,, but are still in contact in other ways and meet as and when still ,, i think those that dont get the quick responses and meets tend to leave as its too much effort for them ,, or their wives/husbands /partners found out and had to leave ,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we chat to a lady on kik that left cos of man hassle - even tho she altered her filters she had already lost some confidence - so she then decided the few she talked to were enough so stuck with that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He hadn't been in here long at all, he did say he was getting more messages from men than women but I'm just still abit surprised.
My question isn't even really just about him, I think in general it's made me realise that you could potentially be chatting "off site" (kik or wattsapp) with someone who has been taken off as someone else has identified them as fake and you don't actually know .... If you know what I mean .. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Admin never delete profiles, they disable them...so if he has deleted his profile that will be his choice.
He could have been disabled by Admin before deleting though.
So the simple answer is, you will never know for sure. unless he tells you he was disabled. |
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