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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've bin on the site some time now and I'm struggling to get many mgs back from the people I send mgs out to I can't even get a social any help with this would be great thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've bin on the site some time now and I'm struggling to get many mgs back from the people I send mgs out to I can't even get a social any help with this would be great thanks "
not easy no magic fix |
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"I've bin on the site some time now and I'm struggling to get many mgs back from the people I send mgs out to I can't even get a social any help with this would be great thanks "
You've put more effort into this post than you have your profile. Go figure!  |
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You've put more effort into this post than you have your profile. Go figure! "
All you have written in your profile text is what is already available elsewhere on your profile. Plus the one photo you have doesn't offer anything, add some more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think spelling and grammar really contribute towards a first impression. If it's poor then some people may jump to the conclusion that the person is a bit rough. Also, personally I hate "text speak". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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basic profile, you need to put some likes and dislikes and what you are looking for on here
and get to some socials around your area its a great way to meet people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a profile that reflects you, send messages to people who's paramiters you fall within and try and get a little of yourself across in said messages. So be yourself basically.
Failing that, start a thread on the forums and do what everybody tells you to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are you trying to convey with your profile? It's your advert essentially and at the moment it's a bit bland?
Bet your not bland in real life so show it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've bin on the site some time now and I'm struggling to get many mgs back from the people I send mgs out to I can't even get a social any help with this would be great thanks "
I don't know what is in your message but if they look at your profile and see one line its not going to inspire them if you want an honest answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys thanks for the input I've changed it around can you let me know what you think "
Mate. Please try and use some full stops to make it easier to read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys thanks for the input I've changed it around can you let me know what you think
Mate. Please try and use some full stops to make it easier to read."
Good advice, as most people do prefer 'proper' English. Also, have you tried clubs or socials? Basically, what physical efforts have you made, as well? Not asking as a challenge, more to see where else you can be better in terms of advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile is so the same as thousands of others...and the complaint of no action is the same. Read the other hundreds of similar threads. You will see the same advice on them all.....but will you actually act on it...or as others do ignore and hope?
The world of fab is out there but you need to actually go out and grab it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here op. I given up to email profiles most are cock teasers lol, but instead using the forum, its more fun  "
You don't think it might be you? Even your profile name kinda gives an impression. Add that to the fairly coarse language of a lot of your posts and it may just be that you're not many couples 'cup of tea' or you may be right and this sites just full of teasers and time wasters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here op. I given up to email profiles most are cock teasers lol, but instead using the forum, its more fun
You don't think it might be you? Even your profile name kinda gives an impression. Add that to the fairly coarse language of a lot of your posts and it may just be that you're not many couples 'cup of tea' or you may be right and this sites just full of teasers and time wasters "
I think ShagTonight was saying it as a bit of a joke, he wasn't actually complaining |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here op. I given up to email profiles most are cock teasers lol, but instead using the forum, its more fun
You don't think it might be you? Even your profile name kinda gives an impression. Add that to the fairly coarse language of a lot of your posts and it may just be that you're not many couples 'cup of tea' or you may be right and this sites just full of teasers and time wasters
I think ShagTonight was saying it as a bit of a joke, he wasn't actually complaining "
Yes and your right. I did joke about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here op. I given up to email profiles most are cock teasers lol, but instead using the forum, its more fun
You don't think it might be you? Even your profile name kinda gives an impression. Add that to the fairly coarse language of a lot of your posts and it may just be that you're not many couples 'cup of tea' or you may be right and this sites just full of teasers and time wasters
I think ShagTonight was saying it as a bit of a joke, he wasn't actually complaining "
We all know shag tonight. He's got a six pack I believe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here op. I given up to email profiles most are cock teasers lol, but instead using the forum, its more fun
You don't think it might be you? Even your profile name kinda gives an impression. Add that to the fairly coarse language of a lot of your posts and it may just be that you're not many couples 'cup of tea' or you may be right and this sites just full of teasers and time wasters
I think ShagTonight was saying it as a bit of a joke, he wasn't actually complaining
We all know shag tonight. He's got a six pack I believe lol"
YEs I do and thanks lol, got a new pic up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single man..I couldnt really accomodate for proper meets(in the house , as I shared with my father), but I've been on the scene a good while so already knew a few people..but really, my advice to almost any single guy..you wont get many meets if you cannot accomodate, you wont get many meets if you have specific limited time, you wont get many meets by 'I'm traveling through' anothers area and in your hotel room
there are plenty of things happening,socials,clubs etc etc..so it depends on how committed you are...and how able, to get more out of the scene than a few quick shags. |
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Ok so it's an improvement over what it was but still pretty basic. The whole point of your profile text is to sell yourself but you actually state you aren't going to do that, and then ask people to contact you to find out more! Why should people make the effort to contact you if you haven't made the effort to on your profile. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Had another re write how's it look now guys "
Still very difficult to read due to poor spelling, bad grammar and punctuation all over the place!
Take your time, proof read it yourself and see if it makes sense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no luck involved, fab' has a very simple equation that works for all.........
Effort in=rewards out.
It's that simple."
This. ^^^
Profile is basic, littered with grammatical errors and doesn't really sell you. Mentioning privacy and your job several times isn't all that necessary, besides it is pretty obvious what your occupation is. Regiment badges and your location is a bit of a give away mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the profile again to yourself. See how it sounds in your head.
Then IF YOU are happy with it leave it be. Its your profile and should reflect you, your likes, dislikes and ideally what you are looking for.
Hth
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