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ladies how can i get wife to meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies i would love some fun but wifes unsure i have suggested mmf as i am quite happy to have a man join in and im no bi. Im not a cheating b@!*$#d either in fact we've been together since we we're 15 and i believe thats the problem shes worried about ruining what we have, never would i want to lose her but i cant get having a bit of naughty fun out of my head, what can i do to gently persuade her
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
If you pressure her into doing something she's not ready for you risk your relationship. Take it slow, if she's unsure then you must go at her pace. It may be worth you considering going to a club to watch others or to be watched, but not play or swap with others until you both feel comfortable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thats exactly how I've been playing it she loves going on cam and the thought of meeting another male to join us in a hotel its just taking that step, guess it will happen when I'm least expecting it to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One things for sure you can never go back. If you love your wife as you say your listen to her when she says it might spoil what we have. Surely that means more to you then a fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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try going to a club and being watched, and watching others, its a step in the direction you are wanting without being too much too soon, and keep talking to make sure you are both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you pressure her into doing something she's not ready for you risk your relationship. Take it slow, if she's unsure then you must go at her pace. It may be worth you considering going to a club to watch others or to be watched, but not play or swap with others until you both feel comfortable"
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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If either of you are unsure it just isn't worth the risk. If both of you are curious and adventurous but unsure whether to take the next step try a club - watch, talk to other couples or single men and see how it goes. There is no pressure to do anything and it is also a relatively safe and friendly environment. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"If you pressure her into doing something she's not ready for you risk your relationship. Take it slow, if she's unsure then you must go at her pace. It may be worth you considering going to a club to watch others or to be watched, but not play or swap with others until you both feel comfortable
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you pressure her into doing something she's not ready for you risk your relationship. Take it slow, if she's unsure then you must go at her pace. It may be worth you considering going to a club to watch others or to be watched, but not play or swap with others until you both feel comfortable
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We done exactly this and its the best thing we ever done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some great advice, think i might suggest going to a club just to watch as suggested think that will be good for me as well, then if one of us is unsure best stick to cam fun as she enjoys that more than me, thanks all |
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We started out by going to Erotica and havinga drink in the pub where the swingers met after. It was fun to people watch and we always ended up chatting to them.
The local social meets that people arrange would be a good place to start.
We then moved on to going to clubs and playing in a private room. Eventually we took the next step and asked someone to join us.
It took a long time but we went at Frisky's pace. She started off saying she would never play with anyone else but as time went on her boundaries moved.
It was definitely worth taking our time...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats exactly how I've been playing it she loves going on cam and the thought of meeting another male to join us in a hotel its just taking that step, guess it will happen when I'm least expecting it to"
take her to a club or party or organised social and speak to people face to face,dont play whilst your there first time , just get her to take in and enjoy the scene and the atmosphere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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be very careful swopping is not for everyone.if your wife is not 100% do not push her into it as women are a lot different to guys in the way they think most women have to have some type of connection before making love with someone else also remember once you do swop there is no going back and undoing what you have done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait for her to say she wants to. I've been asked recently while texting fantasies with a guy about mff and the other f filming me and him then her joining in. it's a big ask |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Will look for a club localish to norwich in new year just go and view as people suggest, what e er happens i will always respect her views and decisions, i guess fantasizing aint a bad thing |
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