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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "
Good luck with this one mate no matter what you put will get you a slap round the chops. Delete block and then you start questioning your self what am I doing wrong am I not polite. |
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"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "
There isn't a one size fits all message. Just read the profile and be polite really.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't think there's such a thing as the 'perfect' message.
All you can do is read the profile of the recipient, acknowledge in some way that you've read it and suggest you fit their criteria and show your personality. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "
3 words....
no such thing......
its not something you can template.... different people will want different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Demonstrate that you have actually read their profile first and write something you feel is appropriate for them.
The blanket cut/paste approach won't make the recipient feel special in fact it's a fast way to get yourself blocked haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward  "
Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward
Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward
Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message.
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Hi again Vicky.....see you for that coffee soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward
Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message."
^^^^ This and what Beth says. Clubs and socials are good. But in a previous life on here have met plenty of ladies and couples from direct messages. Read the profile, include something relevant in your message to show you have read it and try to say why they should consider you for a meet. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "
Sounds like you lack the imagination to concoct your own and want someone to do it for you so you can cut and paste it.  |
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