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By *eorgejen OP Couple
over a year ago
chesterfield |
I have a venue actualy a big pub but its going to cost £200 for the full day
so would need to ask about 40 or 50 from a few guys and also its a photoshoot hopefully will be doing it next week |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"I have a venue actualy a big pub but its going to cost £200 for the full day
so would need to ask about 40 or 50 from a few guys and also its a photoshoot hopefully will be doing it next week"
You are expecting the 4 or 5 guys (£200 divided by £40 or £50 = 4 or 5) to last all day then?
Maybe best to ask the pub how much it would be for 10 minutes - max. 2 mins each guy (including fluffing time) 
Sorry couldn't resist!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think you'll be very lucky to find any guys willing to pay £40-£50 for this no matter how good you look. Generally maybe £10-£15 each just to cover costs but at that ptice it's looking like a money making venture |
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By *eorgejen OP Couple
over a year ago
chesterfield |
"surely renting out such a venue is your choice...not sure why the few guys going should have to foot the bill...."
its just what i have been offered so thought I would ask has any body got any constuctive advice maybe this site isnt as nice as we first thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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40 or 50 and it's for a photoshoot?! Since it's a photoshoot shouldn't you be footing most of the bill?
If I was to organise a shoot, I'd have to pay the model and hire the studio/location.
This site is friendly, it's just that your event seems to be looking to exploit single males slightly. I'm sure you'll get takers but in my opinion I think it's a bit of a piss take. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"surely renting out such a venue is your choice...not sure why the few guys going should have to foot the bill....
its just what i have been offered so thought I would ask has any body got any constuctive advice maybe this site isnt as nice as we first thought "
From experience some have arranged to meet up at a venue, however it makes more sense to book a hotel room (even at a ridiculous £90 fro a double room, that works out to £15 person, the lady included as its your idea  )
If you feel "the site isn't friendly" thats merely opinion, however don't be too hasty to tar the thousands of members of the site by the (valid) opinions of a few - opinions which you have asked for.
Also note that the suggestion that exploitation of single males,.. is also valid. |
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Also, why in a pub? is the barman joining in as well! and then there are the regulars all turning up having forgot there is a private party and peeringin through the windows!
Still it takes all sorts...... |
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i think a hotel room like at a premier inn or days are ideal and a cover charge £10-£15 be about right.
remind guys to bring a few beers or bottle of wine!,oh and a clean towel for their own use because at end of the session there will not be a clean dry towel for the lady!.(you must look after her needs!) |
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Guys can go to gangbang clubs and get far more than that for their money. Im sorry but good luck as for the photo shoot thats your responsibility.
As others have said why not just get a hotel room like everyone else and ask for a donation of £10 |
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"I have a venue actualy a big pub but its going to cost £200 for the full day
so would need to ask about 40 or 50 from a few guys and also its a photoshoot hopefully will be doing it next week"
so let me get this right your holiding a gangbang in a pub and your also doing a photoshoot and expecting the guys ur asking to come along to dontate money towards ....hmmmm so u expect them to pay for the privalage of your time and u also walk away with a nice wee momento so a nice port folio of the day at their expence ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can you advertuse in the organised meets that you would like a donation from people attending a gangbang "
a donation for what?
If your holding the gang bang at home i dont see why others should pay you anything
If its in a hotel then maybe a small donation, but lets be honest rooms are pretty cheap now days, you can easy get a room for under £50 so maybe a small donation is you cant afford the cost yourself but ive heard of people charging guys £20 each to cover hotel costs when having gang bangs and i personally think thats taking the piss
I personally would never ask anyone for help with money for hotels etc, i regular pay for hotel rooms when meeting guys off here, personally i think its a check to ask someone to meet you then ask them for money
but thats just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a venue actualy a big pub but its going to cost £200 for the full day
so would need to ask about 40 or 50 from a few guys and also its a photoshoot hopefully will be doing it next week"
you've hired a pub for the day for a gang bang?!! 
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im a single guy and must agree 40 -50 pounds is way over the top i can go to a swingers club in sheffield for 25pounds much more fun and half the price if the lady brings the price down to 15-20pounds im sure she will get plenty more takers or put the number of guys up to ten and make it 20pounds each make much more sence. |
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I am a little shocked at how much you are charging because that is how it sounds. I can kind of understand a small donation but even that is strange to me to say split the hotel cost between 6 of you (including you and your partner) but you are choosing to rent a whole pub for the day.
but hay what do I know, I have never done it.
good look with it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"surely renting out such a venue is your choice...not sure why the few guys going should have to foot the bill....
its just what i have been offered so thought I would ask has any body got any constuctive advice maybe this site isnt as nice as we first thought "
Personally i think its bang out of order asking guys to pay £40 - £50 to pay for the venue for your gangbang/photo shoot,ive had quite a few gangbangs and no way would it take all day with 4 or 5 guys.
You obviously didnt like what people have replied,but no one likes to see any one getting ripped off and sorry but looks like thats whats going to happen. |
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By *ingerjoWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
hiya
ive hosted quite a few gang bangs in hotels and at mine but never asked any 1 for money, i wouldnt ask any 1 to give me any sort of money towards anything because it then seems there payigng you for the sex there giving you and as im a swinger i give it away for Free
thanks jo |
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"id like to remind the forum members of a post a couple of weeks back where somebody was charging for child care and that was outlawed by the fab members have we all got short memories ...mal "
How could we ever forget that?.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate to say this but herein lies the reason why you get guys with the "we have paid so we want a shag" mentality.
It's because of over the top entry fees for things like this.
Seems too much to me and how you expect guys to be going all day I have no clue. Even clubs are often open 4-5 hours tops on Fri/Sat night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate to say this but herein lies the reason why you get guys with the "we have paid so we want a shag" mentality.
It's because of over the top entry fees for things like this.
Seems too much to me and how you expect guys to be going all day I have no clue. Even clubs are often open 4-5 hours tops on Fri/Sat night."
The £50 is covering the cost of the Viagra |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I hate to say this but herein lies the reason why you get guys with the "we have paid so we want a shag" mentality.
It's because of over the top entry fees for things like this.
Seems too much to me and how you expect guys to be going all day I have no clue. Even clubs are often open 4-5 hours tops on Fri/Sat night.
The £50 is covering the cost of the Viagra "
Feck me,.. that's gonna be a truck load! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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constructive advice ..... you can hold the gangbang at our place - for free, that way you don't have to charge the guys anything.
And in case your wondering - neither of us would want to take part in the gangbang so there is no ulterior motive here.
Alternatively you can ask for the single guys to offer a suitable free venue ie one of thier houses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I attend a venue of any sort where I have to pay I expect the premises and event to be covered by Insurance and to have my consumer rights protected, if I was not happy with the service provided I would expect recourse and take suitable action to recover the fees paid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"surely renting out such a venue is your choice...not sure why the few guys going should have to foot the bill....
its just what i have been offered so thought I would ask has any body got any constuctive advice maybe this site isnt as nice as we first thought "
Its a good dite can just be a bit to honest & brutal in its delivery lol
£200 for a pub is one thing as you may be taking daytime trade away - a larger hotel room or possibly a seminar room (naughty too) could work lol
Waht about an office for a day - does your photographer not have any contacts?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"constructive advice ..... you can hold the gangbang at our place - for free, that way you don't have to charge the guys anything.
And in case your wondering - neither of us would want to take part in the gangbang so there is no ulterior motive here.
Alternatively you can ask for the single guys to offer a suitable free venue ie one of thier houses"
Now there's an offer !!
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"constructive advice ..... you can hold the gangbang at our place - for free, that way you don't have to charge the guys anything.
And in case your wondering - neither of us would want to take part in the gangbang so there is no ulterior motive here.
Alternatively you can ask for the single guys to offer a suitable free venue ie one of thier houses"
after having glanced at the OP's profile I think the location is a big part of it as the seem to like to do their photoshoots in different locations like a pub...or as sited supermarket...firestation etc...but jed brought up a good point point in is second point about insurances etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how about Nottingham then, I know a nice photo studios that only charges £50 for the day, they have dozens of scene sets including a laundrette for example, a dungeon and they supply all the professional lighting equipment needed they are insured and VAT registered |
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