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Don't get much luck on here, help?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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amazin!!!! have you NOT bothered to look at any other single guy posts!!! You profile is rubbish...one cock pic!!! and you are married and playing away.. and have a one line profile...what do you expect...that females are going to be bombarding you with requests...You really are either going to have to give up..or better still PUT some EFFORT into your profile..100's more single guys on here that ladies.And if we did come across your profile,we would have passed without even reading what little there is on here... |
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13 words in your opening post.
9 in your profile.
Fair play for being honest about being married as people can make an informed choice though.
But you need to give people a reason to message/reply to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?"
I do not wish to be negative but I am surprised that you had a meeting. You need to expand your profile and pictures. If you have no idea where to start, search the 100 other threads requesting advice. Your profile contravenes all suggestions. Good luck. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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Oh dear, here we go again! Have you actually looked at the Forum pages and taken the time to really look at similar threads?
The reason you are having any luck is down to you and you alone!
There are thousands of guys on here, all seeking the same. Thus, in effect, in order to stand out, you have to pitch yourself against the others, that is, SELL YOURSELF and make yourself look appealing!
With your current Profile, that fails in every way! It is abysmal! Barely one and a half lines of text is woefully inadequate. You have to expand it more, telling people who you are, what you like (and dislike though in moderation).
Ditch the cock pic to private viewing only; if you can, get a facial pic up on your Profile, even a body shot too.
The only plus point you possess is to admit you are married, but that will go against you though with many people. The fact you cannot accommodate will be a disadvantage too and put people off.
You have been on here for only 5 months; you are a mere beginner! It can take months of hard slog to get on in this site. If you thought it would be an "Instant Fix" site, dream on!
Get into the Forums; get to socials or clubs in your area - it is all about getting noticed!
It takes Patience, Perseverance and a hell of a lot more Patience to get results! Put in the effort, you will get results!
But at present, your Profile will be glanced at, and people will move on because it is unattractive, to someone else who has worked at constructing a good profile.
Good Luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear, here we go again! Have you actually looked at the Forum pages and taken the time to really look at similar threads?
The reason you are having any luck is down to you and you alone!
There are thousands of guys on here, all seeking the same. Thus, in effect, in order to stand out, you have to pitch yourself against the others, that is, SELL YOURSELF and make yourself look appealing!
With your current Profile, that fails in every way! It is abysmal! Barely one and a half lines of text is woefully inadequate. You have to expand it more, telling people who you are, what you like (and dislike though in moderation).
Ditch the cock pic to private viewing only; if you can, get a facial pic up on your Profile, even a body shot too.
The only plus point you possess is to admit you are married, but that will go against you though with many people. The fact you cannot accommodate will be a disadvantage too and put people off.
You have been on here for only 5 months; you are a mere beginner! It can take months of hard slog to get on in this site. If you thought it would be an "Instant Fix" site, dream on!
Get into the Forums; get to socials or clubs in your area - it is all about getting noticed!
It takes Patience, Perseverance and a hell of a lot more Patience to get results! Put in the effort, you will get results!
But at present, your Profile will be glanced at, and people will move on because it is unattractive, to someone else who has worked at constructing a good profile.
Good Luck!"
If you don't take above advice then you are a Cock  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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"Oh dear, here we go again! Have you actually looked at the Forum pages and taken the time to really look at similar threads?
The reason you are having any luck is down to you and you alone!
There are thousands of guys on here, all seeking the same. Thus, in effect, in order to stand out, you have to pitch yourself against the others, that is, SELL YOURSELF and make yourself look appealing!
With your current Profile, that fails in every way! It is abysmal! Barely one and a half lines of text is woefully inadequate. You have to expand it more, telling people who you are, what you like (and dislike though in moderation).
Ditch the cock pic to private viewing only; if you can, get a facial pic up on your Profile, even a body shot too.
The only plus point you possess is to admit you are married, but that will go against you though with many people. The fact you cannot accommodate will be a disadvantage too and put people off.
You have been on here for only 5 months; you are a mere beginner! It can take months of hard slog to get on in this site. If you thought it would be an "Instant Fix" site, dream on!
Get into the Forums; get to socials or clubs in your area - it is all about getting noticed!
It takes Patience, Perseverance and a hell of a lot more Patience to get results! Put in the effort, you will get results!
But at present, your Profile will be glanced at, and people will move on because it is unattractive, to someone else who has worked at constructing a good profile.
Good Luck!
If you don't take above advice then you are a Cock "
Or will he react like many others of this genre and say they will change things, only to do nowt, then disappear into the blue yonder and are never heard of again?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just accept that you could have the best profile/pictures on fab....but some guys are still not gonna appeal to ppl. Myself included. Just here to pass the time now. Gave up looking for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got this radical idea for you OP.......it's a sure fire winner..............
Work it out for yourself instead of being spoofed help!
You make your own luck, nobody here can change your approach except you.
Now off you pop and see if you can do better. |
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you smoke
you cheat
your profile is crap
your photos are crap
you aren't self aware enough to know the above
you didn't read the 1000's of other identical threads to this one, all of which you'd learn from
you make no effort
you think you deserve sex
you...
whats the point going on? seriously? why bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The op asked for help...
The sad thing is he thinks he is......not a chance
(Grrrrr)"
If you dont approve you could allways skip the thread like admin advise. Rather then playing god |
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Thanks for some useful constructive pointers from some of you. To be honest to some of you, if you don't like then don't comment as I wasn't asking to be judged or for you to call me a fake, and the veri' is 100% genuine.
I have enough feedback so don't need anymore, and thanks to the constructive ones again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some good advise let's hope you take the chance to advertise ya self more. You live and learn. You wouldn't put car for sale £2000 you'd put make model extras mot etc etc you get my point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well credit to the op
He came back !
Some wouldn't let's see if he stays !
He came back, yes, but took absolutely no notice of advice he was given  "
Why bother asking the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?"
Why not try filling out your profile more tell people about you your desires and make it attractive to them to the point they are more interested. |
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?
Why not try filling out your profile more tell people about you your desires and make it attractive to them to the point they are more interested. "
This. These types of questions pop up almost every day, so you might like to consider reading some of the answers people give to those.
The biggest fail you could do is not act on any advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance
I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'. "
Right I will remove that thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance
I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'.
Right I will remove that thanks.
Haha! That's funny! "
What's funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact your married will put a lot of people off"
Well that's a technicality I can't over come and to be honest honesty is best but thank you for the reply |
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"Well credit to the op
He came back !
Some wouldn't let's see if he stays !
He came back, yes, but took absolutely no notice of advice he was given
Why bother asking the question "
Lol, give me a chance please! I do do other stuff apart from hang out on this site all day :p |
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