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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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Ok so out of interest and leaving aside whether people like this or not does anyone have any tips and pointers for making blowjobs WITH a condom particularly pleasurable?
we are new on here and as I've not really given to many man that were wearing am wondering (if that's the way we decide to go) if there's extra tricks to making the best of them for the fella.
Thanks
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It's not all about the penis. Use yours hands in sensitive places: my husband enjoys a finger up his bum for example.
Talk to your partner about what they enjoy  "
We don't use condoms; there was a thread the other day about whether men enjoyed blowjobs with a condom or not and since we are new and will be looking for men to wear them I thought it worth asking for pointers around condom wear.
Thanks, I hadn't considered a little arse exploration for this particular situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt."
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked |
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked"
Some do, yes. |
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked"
I don't really enjoy cunnilingus. If my partner wanted to use a dental dam thst would be fine with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked
I don't really enjoy cunnilingus. If my partner wanted to use a dental dam thst would be fine with me."
If you insisted that a condom was used would you also insist on a dental dam? |
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked
I don't really enjoy cunnilingus. If my partner wanted to use a dental dam thst would be fine with me.
If you insisted that a condom was used would you also insist on a dental dam?"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked
I don't really enjoy cunnilingus. If my partner wanted to use a dental dam thst would be fine with me.
If you insisted that a condom was used would you also insist on a dental dam?"
It isn't the person recieving the oral who is at most risk. It's up to the giver to decide.
If the person giving oral to a woman wants to use a dental dam then they should. |
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"Those who use a condom for cock do they use the same for cunt licking?
Some do, yes. Some just don't lick cunt.
No those who use one when sucking cock then have one when they have their cunt licked
I don't really enjoy cunnilingus. If my partner wanted to use a dental dam thst would be fine with me.
If you insisted that a condom was used would you also insist on a dental dam?
It isn't the person recieving the oral who is at most risk. It's up to the giver to decide.
If the person giving oral to a woman wants to use a dental dam then they should."
find if you wipe the condom when its on to remove the oil it dont taste so bad if you hold the condom tightish at the bottom so you dont suck it off lol found it not so bad when giving oral to completion do the same with flavored to remove the oil you still get the taste of the flavor  |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thank you for the advice,much appreciated. Will definitely be going for flavoured ones so I can just enjoy the job in hand(well,mouth) without worrying about the odd taste of the condom! |
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"Thank you for the advice,much appreciated. Will definitely be going for flavoured ones so I can just enjoy the job in hand(well,mouth) without worrying about the odd taste of the condom!"
The flavour wears off quite soon. Also beware of the teat bit, it can give you a choking sensation |
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"Thank you for the advice,much appreciated. Will definitely be going for flavoured ones so I can just enjoy the job in hand(well,mouth) without worrying about the odd taste of the condom!
The flavour wears off quite soon. Also beware of the teat bit, it can give you a choking sensation "
we bought some teatless ones for this very reason, they re unlubricated so need a flavored lube to stop them sticking to the throat, are great for sex toys and the lack of teat stops the gagging |
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"Thank you for the advice,much appreciated. Will definitely be going for flavoured ones so I can just enjoy the job in hand(well,mouth) without worrying about the odd taste of the condom!
The flavour wears off quite soon. Also beware of the teat bit, it can give you a choking sensation
we bought some teatless ones for this very reason, they re unlubricated so need a flavored lube to stop them sticking to the throat, are great for sex toys and the lack of teat stops the gagging"
Great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why give head at all if your gonna insist on condoms to do it. Seriously you cant feel a thing. Its totally pointless. As somebody said its only fair to warn people of that on your profile I think a fairly large percentage would say just dont bother because its bad enough although necessary for sex, for oral its a total pleasure killer. |
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"Why give head at all if your gonna insist on condoms to do it. Seriously you cant feel a thing. Its totally pointless. As somebody said its only fair to warn people of that on your profile I think a fairly large percentage would say just dont bother because its bad enough although necessary for sex, for oral its a total pleasure killer. "
If both parties are happy what's your problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My problem?? They asked for advice. I gave my advice that being not to bother doing it. If both parties are happy going through the motions just for the hell of it which is pretty much what it amounts to good for them. Whats your problem with me answering them??? |
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"My problem?? They asked for advice. I gave my advice that being not to bother doing it. If both parties are happy going through the motions just for the hell of it which is pretty much what it amounts to good for them. Whats your problem with me answering them???"
I have no problem with anyone answering another poster as long as they respect their choices as far as personal safety goes. |
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Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry. |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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Of course how you feel is how you feel...but I dont see our preferences as anything other than that,preferences-and don't we all have them! Same as any other like or dislike.. dogging,soft swap ect ect ect.
May well add to our profile,or may not- it's easy enough to disclose during any message exchange.
And I did say at the start of this thread that it was for advice about how to make it better not whether its a good thing or not, since another thread had covered whether it was good or not!
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry."
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried."
Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x "
Thanks,certainly going to try to
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x
Thanks,certainly going to try to
Tig"
And if I am over in London soon who knows maybe we could meet up. Let me know if ye fancy it. Happy to send pics or go on face cam. J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x
Thanks,certainly going to try to
Tig And if I am over in London soon who knows maybe we could meet up. Let me know if ye fancy it. Happy to send pics or go on face cam. J x "
Bloody hell you must really like her shoes  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x
Thanks,certainly going to try to
Tig And if I am over in London soon who knows maybe we could meet up. Let me know if ye fancy it. Happy to send pics or go on face cam. J x
Bloody hell you must really like her shoes "
Haha oh I do. I'm a 'sucker' for a pair of heels! Lol |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried. Very well said guys. Good luck with it and I have no doubt ye will have fun experimenting. J x
Thanks,certainly going to try to
Tig And if I am over in London soon who knows maybe we could meet up. Let me know if ye fancy it. Happy to send pics or go on face cam. J x
Bloody hell you must really like her shoes "
This really made me chuckle
I have plenty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried."
Thats fine and good luck to you. But bare in mind every peice of advice is born from somebodies opinion and as the other thread made obvious most guys agree with me. But that doesnt mean you shouldnt try I was just offering one peice of advice as you requested |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not disrespecting their choice. I simply said if you dont want to do it without a condom dont do it at all! There isnt a pleasurable way of doing it with a condom there is no sensation with a condom so as I said they would be going through the motions for the sake of it. Best advice for somebody worried about sucking cock without condoms is dont do it, save it for your partner were you dont need to worry.
In your opinion, there's no good way.I am afraid I don't take it as fact and am content to try,since I very much enjoy giving but also wish to practise this aspect as safely as I can.
also,for the record, I am not worried.
Thats fine and good luck to you. But bare in mind every peice of advice is born from somebodies opinion and as the other thread made obvious most guys agree with me. But that doesnt mean you shouldnt try I was just offering one peice of advice as you requested "
Taken onboard and duly noted
If I try it and it's rubbish for all concerned then back to the drawing board..but prob considered stubborn mare and will find out the hard way for myself if that is so! Lol.
For the record I asked for tips on how to make them better, not whether to do them or not,so not quite the advice I requested lol |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Would you wear a dental dam to protect a guy licking your pussy ?"
Have actually just been discussing these and I wouldn't have any issue if an involved party wished to use one, and yes I would consider this too
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op  "
Not a matter of being a fan or not,each to their own, but it's not a preference of mine no. Though, once again, I'll point out this thread wasn't about the rights and wrongs of condoms nor in particular my personal view about it- but tips as to improve should it be done! |
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op
Not a matter of being a fan or not,each to their own, but it's not a preference of mine no. Though, once again, I'll point out this thread wasn't about the rights and wrongs of condoms nor in particular my personal view about it- but tips as to improve should it be done!"
Can I say that it is rare for anyone to show such grace under fire.
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op "
I was being sarcastic
If you dont wanna suck cock without a condom i doubt you would wanna lick arse
Thing with the forums is a light hearted comment can come across the wrong way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op
Not a matter of being a fan or not,each to their own, but it's not a preference of mine no. Though, once again, I'll point out this thread wasn't about the rights and wrongs of condoms nor in particular my personal view about it- but tips as to improve should it be done!
Can I say that it is rare for anyone to show such grace under fire.
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No fire here...read above comment  |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op
Not a matter of being a fan or not,each to their own, but it's not a preference of mine no. Though, once again, I'll point out this thread wasn't about the rights and wrongs of condoms nor in particular my personal view about it- but tips as to improve should it be done!
Can I say that it is rare for anyone to show such grace under fire.
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Thank you.  it's a bit of a minefield on here occasionaly we are discovering lol but we are doing our best to navigate it without ruffling too many feathers
I've refrained from commenting on some of the ones I have particularly strong opinions on! Oh no, I just realised I am a lurker!! |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I dont suppose your a fan of rimming then op
I was being sarcastic
If you dont wanna suck cock without a condom i doubt you would wanna lick arse
Thing with the forums is a light hearted comment can come across the wrong way."
Ahhhh both the best and the worst of forums, how meaning is conveyed in text! Lol. Sorry if I got a bit defensive; but hopefully you can see why from some of the comments above! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hey poster had decided how they want to play not to start a debate about slapping one on for a blowy. I have given with and the guy hasn't had a problem cumming, but I prefer without. Use a flavoured condom they really don't taste that bad these days. Also means if you switch to fucking there isn't that awkward pause ripping the damn Coddy packet open |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Blow the condom up and make different animals whilst giving a blowjob....that would be totally unique....well I've certainly never had it happen to me "
Id have to master making balloon animals first but it'd certainly be a new string to the bow! Lol
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Interesting read but one bit of advice I would give is if going from oral to full penetration then change the condom.
Dead easy to catch it a little with your teeth and it the splits a bit later.
Also can be fun having condom put on with mouth as part of fore play but again practice just using you lips to do it and not catching it with your teeth because of the above happy playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Given plenty of bj's with a condom on and they have cum from it!
Make sure you keep it tight to the base, good suction and a bit of deep throat helps and the guy will enjoy it.. I always use thin condoms so lot more sensation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't give a bj without a condom I'm afraid and it's not effected the mans pleasure. Only man I give it to unprotected is my husband. Equally if a man wanted to give me oral sex with protection that would be fine it's respecting your partner |
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Blow the condom up and make different animals whilst giving a blowjob....that would be totally unique....well I've certainly never had it happen to me "
I cant wait to see Tigs practice that!
Bugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Taste vile no matter what IMO .
I would rather forfeit a blowjob and use a handjob personally .
Each to their own on what levels they are comfy with .
How many women use a barrier for oral sex on them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Taste vile no matter what IMO .
I would rather forfeit a blowjob and use a handjob personally .
Each to their own on what levels they are comfy with .
How many women use a barrier for oral sex on them ? "
ECHO
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By *ipsTeaser OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We don't use condoms for oral and never have, but the woman putting one on using only her mouth could add to the fun."
I can do this and now feel a bit more confident thatll add to the fun! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally i find that without the saliva it starts to rub very quickly and isnt pleasurable at all with condoms even the thin ones id rather not have oral now a nice oily handjob can be every bit as good as oral without the need for a rubber
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry but everyone saying a handjob is better than a bj with a condom has never had a woman do it properly!! I'd much rather use a condom and get a bj than not as it's not just the physical side of it that I like. It's also the sight of seeing her take my cock and give it a good going over.
Op if your happy to use condoms then don't worry what others think as it's all about your experiences and your enjoyment
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Only ever had 1 bj with a condom on and she could have sucked for hours and I still wouldn't have cum ended up fucking her and filling it in her pussy that was the only way I was going to cum with it on |
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