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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get plenty of views,but not many fabs on my pics?
Do I need to update them?Any ideas of decent pics that people will like?
Any,sensible  ideas,welcome... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get plenty of views,but not many fabs on my pics?
Do I need to update them?Any ideas of decent pics that people will like?
Any,sensible ideas,welcome..."
Yes they are.
Your profile isn't much better.
Listen chap, we have no time for single guys, however at least you are one of the better ones who can accommodate and is not cheating on a wife!!
Give yourself a chance.
Get together a good profile, look at the successful guys for inspiration, and some better photos. full body etc, but don't know if you want to show your face as that is a personal choice.
If we were a couple looking, we would MUCH rather have a decent honest single guy than a cheating fucker, however neither your profile or photos are doing anything for you.
Get them up to scratch.
We wish you well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit seems a bit of a strong word to describe them. They're not great though tbh. 
How can I improve them then? "
Get rid of the one with a female in and the cum all over you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think mine mupt be shit too.. . . . . .  "
Too dark and all pretty much the same. I'm not a fan of penetration pics. On one you can only see her and not you as it's too dark |
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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago
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I think it would be given if it wasn't the first pic in your gallery and if you were more clearly visible in it.
In my opinion a good selection of pics would be mostly of you naked and fully clothed full body shots, a face pic if you wanted, a tastefully done cock shot, maybe one of you at meet but nothing too full on or female orientated and at the moment a funny Christmas pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit seems a bit of a strong word to describe them. They're not great though tbh. "
No Rach shit is perfect lol. OP call me old fashioned but on a single guys profile I expect to see pics of ......you guessed it ......the single guy. Your first two are of a lady. The others are pants. Just my opinion tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get plenty of views,but not many fabs on my pics?
Any,sensible ideas,welcome..."
Join in on all those "Fab a photo on this thread" bollocks, quite popular for people desperate to get fabs on their photos  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I am female, if I look at a single guys profile...guess what I don't want to see? Another bloody female!
Keep the action shots in private, but if your target audience is of the female variety? You need to change them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is my pics and pro ok? Just asking you beautiful women for your opinion...i am being me and i cant be anymore....only thing i could do is lose weight now for a better photo but part from that i need your advise x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you need the opinion of others to decide if they're shit or not? They're your photos, it's your profile - if you think they are the best account of you that you can give, then stick with them. |
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"Is my pics and pro ok? Just asking you beautiful women for your opinion...i am being me and i cant be anymore....only thing i could do is lose weight now for a better photo but part from that i need your advise x"
You asked the same question 7 weeks ago and this is what I said...."I'd like to know why you thought a photograph, designed to attract sexual partners, would work better with a full laundry basket in the foreground and a full bin in the bathroom background?....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i suppose ya right....i just want a females point of view but i guess every person is anothers cup of tea...i dont get anyone that says they think im a good looker maybe im an ugly git...i have low self asteem ya see but ya right tho i shouldnt ask anyone else i should go with what makes me happy for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i suppose ya right....i just want a females point of view but i guess every person is anothers cup of tea...i dont get anyone that says they think im a good looker maybe im an ugly git...i have low self asteem ya see but ya right tho i shouldnt ask anyone else i should go with what makes me happy for me "
me too i want a mans view, just took a lot of mine off.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is my pics and pro ok? Just asking you beautiful women for your opinion...i am being me and i cant be anymore....only thing i could do is lose weight now for a better photo but part from that i need your advise x
You asked the same question 7 weeks ago and this is what I said...."I'd like to know why you thought a photograph, designed to attract sexual partners, would work better with a full laundry basket in the foreground and a full bin in the bathroom background?....."
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Between i asked that ages ago and i changed my pro since thats why i was curios to ask again...ya know have i improved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i suppose ya right....i just want a females point of view but i guess every person is anothers cup of tea...i dont get anyone that says they think im a good looker maybe im an ugly git...i have low self asteem ya see but ya right tho i shouldnt ask anyone else i should go with what makes me happy for me "
Was aimed at the OP...but the same applies. You know yourself, trust your own judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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arty pics are great, self timer ones are better too..i take most of ours like that..keep check of things in the background, us ladies notice stuff xxlol
kitty x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks just try to lighten things up ya know. Always think positive thats the way forward! I know what im getting you for xmas muffin.....a hot water bottle! Lol love kilts x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"no, not great...
What do women/couples want to see on a single guys pics?"
The guy.
Here's an idea that I found worked - get your meets to take the pics. Bum pics, chest pics, body pics. And never underestimate the power of photoshop. You can crop out all sorts of things you don't want people to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit seems a bit of a strong word to describe them. They're not great though tbh.
How can I improve them then?
Get rid of the one with a female in and the cum all over you.
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They definitely are not appealing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I fabbed your cum pic, really liked that one. "
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I guess that's the thing,pics are subjective??
I've removed the one of me and a woman at a meet.
Not sure I'll be buying a self I stick,but I will get a friend to take done new pics for me.
How about a suit pic-women love a man in a suit,don't they?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fabbed your cum pic, really liked that one. .
I guess that's the thing,pics are subjective??
I've removed the one of me and a woman at a meet.
Not sure I'll be buying a self I stick,but I will get a friend to take done new pics for me.
How about a suit pic-women love a man in a suit,don't they?? "
Short skirts and heels get fabs  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I fabbed your cum pic, really liked that one. .
I guess that's the thing,pics are subjective??
I've removed the one of me and a woman at a meet.
Not sure I'll be buying a self I stick,but I will get a friend to take done new pics for me.
How about a suit pic-women love a man in a suit,don't they??
Short skirts and heels get fabs "
Well I have apparently got nice legs,so it's worth considering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't stand out that's the problem.
Have a look at the succesful singles and go from there.
The one from a previous meet is pretty rubbish and whilst shows you have had a meet does nothing for you that a verification wouldn't. |
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"Is my pics and pro ok? Just asking you beautiful women for your opinion...i am being me and i cant be anymore....only thing i could do is lose weight now for a better photo but part from that i need your advise x"
From this thread it appears you have a sense of humour and like a laugh, yet not one of your pics shows you smiling!!!
Smiley pics always work! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think mine mupt be shit too.. . . . . .
Too dark and all pretty much the same. I'm not a fan of penetration pics. On one you can only see her and not you as it's too dark "
there, that any better ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd get rid of pics one and two if I were you. Look like you have a very bitable bum, just could do with a better shot of it! "
I'll get a new and better pic of my bum so you can tell ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like them sorry. To click on a mans profile and see more woman than man actually really frustrates me. The second one took me a few seconds to work out (thought it was a vagina at first) and when I did thought ewww! The others would be OK if backed up with better ones but personally I hate seeing a man in a T-shirt and no pants, reminds me of infants potty training (but I'm sure I'm alone with that opinion). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like them sorry. To click on a mans profile and see more woman than man actually really frustrates me. The second one took me a few seconds to work out (thought it was a vagina at first) and when I did thought ewww! The others would be OK if backed up with better ones but personally I hate seeing a man in a T-shirt and no pants, reminds me of infants potty training (but I'm sure I'm alone with that opinion)."
Oh no you're not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like them sorry. To click on a mans profile and see more woman than man actually really frustrates me. The second one took me a few seconds to work out (thought it was a vagina at first) and when I did thought ewww! The others would be OK if backed up with better ones but personally I hate seeing a man in a T-shirt and no pants, reminds me of infants potty training (but I'm sure I'm alone with that opinion).
Oh no you're not "
Oh good I always thought I was strange lol....even when my partner was getting dressed I'd make him put pants on first or I'd turn away! Lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think mine mupt be shit too.. . . . . .
Too dark and all pretty much the same. I'm not a fan of penetration pics. On one you can only see her and not you as it's too dark there, that any better ? "
Still too much vagina for my liking but you aren't here to make me happy are you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I included the pics of a meet to show I have actually met-even tho I have veri's.
Thanks for the advice.I shall indeed take it on board...  "
I'm personally not interested in seeing pictures that aren't of you. I'm also not interested in pictures of cum. We all know you can do it - no need to show pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And as usual completely ignored all previous posts and pics have been left as they are.....SURPRISE!!  "
Come on guys, you know this is just another 'Look at my profile' thread.
You know the really sad thing, you would think that by now these guys would figure out it doesn't work.
It just makes them look stupid and desperate. |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
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"And as usual completely ignored all previous posts and pics have been left as they are.....SURPRISE!!
Come on guys, you know this is just another 'Look at my profile' thread.
You know the really sad thing, you would think that by now these guys would figure out it doesn't work.
It just makes them look stupid and desperate."
agree surely you can tell a good pic from a bad one (duh !) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I started this thread 2 days ago?Give me a chance!
I have a life out of fab,and until I have a meet again,i'm unlikely to be able to change them.Unless I go down the selfie route again-which has been criticised!
All posts have been read,and all feedback has been welcome,and taken in,thank you!
To say it has only been a look at me thread or that I've ignored advice is a bit quick,no?!   |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I started this thread 2 days ago?Give me a chance!
I have a life out of fab,and until I have a meet again,i'm unlikely to be able to change them.Unless I go down the selfie route again-which has been criticised!
All posts have been read,and all feedback has been welcome,and taken in,thank you!
To say it has only been a look at me thread or that I've ignored advice is a bit quick,no?! "
Why does it take having a meet again before you can delete the pics that everyone on this thread advised you were awful and best not seen?? We all have a life out of fab, but a 2 second job to improve your profile???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I started this thread 2 days ago?Give me a chance!
I have a life out of fab,and until I have a meet again,i'm unlikely to be able to change them.Unless I go down the selfie route again-which has been criticised!
All posts have been read,and all feedback has been welcome,and taken in,thank you!
To say it has only been a look at me thread or that I've ignored advice is a bit quick,no?!
Why does it take having a meet again before you can delete the pics that everyone on this thread advised you were awful and best not seen?? We all have a life out of fab, but a 2 second job to improve your profile??? "
So I should delete every pic on my profile??
Surely that would be counter-productive?To have no pics would be pointless,no?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every single photo on my profile has been taken by me with my iPhone. You don't need a meet to take photos for you!
All of mine are selfies as well, and I've never had complaints "
The next time I come home I'll take some for you ?? |
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"I get plenty of views,but not many fabs on my pics?
Do I need to update them?Any ideas of decent pics that people will like?
Any,sensible ideas,welcome..."
I've seen worse. Then again, I've seen better. The number of 'fabs' might give an indication what people like to see. In your gallery and in other people's galleries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think his pics defo stand out from the rest. Very different I like them. How else would you stand out from the rest everyone has torso pics cock pics sex pics normal pics. It's good to be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get plenty of views,but not many fabs on my pics?
Do I need to update them?Any ideas of decent pics that people will like?
Any,sensible ideas,welcome..."
i'm asking myself that question |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I started this thread 2 days ago?Give me a chance!
I have a life out of fab,and until I have a meet again,i'm unlikely to be able to change them.Unless I go down the selfie route again-which has been criticised!
All posts have been read,and all feedback has been welcome,and taken in,thank you!
To say it has only been a look at me thread or that I've ignored advice is a bit quick,no?!
Why does it take having a meet again before you can delete the pics that everyone on this thread advised you were awful and best not seen?? We all have a life out of fab, but a 2 second job to improve your profile???
So I should delete every pic on my profile??
Surely that would be counter-productive?To have no pics would be pointless,no?
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No....the pic with the woman and the horrible cum pic will attract nobody!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I started this thread 2 days ago?Give me a chance!
I have a life out of fab,and until I have a meet again,i'm unlikely to be able to change them.Unless I go down the selfie route again-which has been criticised!
All posts have been read,and all feedback has been welcome,and taken in,thank you!
To say it has only been a look at me thread or that I've ignored advice is a bit quick,no?!
Why does it take having a meet again before you can delete the pics that everyone on this thread advised you were awful and best not seen?? We all have a life out of fab, but a 2 second job to improve your profile???
So I should delete every pic on my profile??
Surely that would be counter-productive?To have no pics would be pointless,no?
No....the pic with the woman and the horrible cum pic will attract nobody! "
Both removed... ??
Any ideas for good pics then?
Should I have a cock pic,face pic,one in a suit,action shots?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't have to have particular clothes on but some women like a suit pic. It's highly unlikely you'll meet up with someone while you're wearing a suit but it gives a good impression. Night out pics look ok to me if you dress smart to go out |
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And yet again....advice given but not taken....oh well, he must know best eh?? 