First and foremost I do not need negative horrible replies. So please refrain if you can't offer me help.
We have had many socials but only one proper "play date" it was a disaster and wasn't as advertised. We took a break due to falling pregnant again.
We are now back (obviously! Lol)
I was wondering did any of you suffer with some form of jealousy when you were first starting out? I am struggling a bit.
Don't get me wrong I want to play, I want to have fun, but I feel like I am the devil on my own shoulder at the moment, I want to know if I'm the only one who is feeling/ has ever felt like this.
Is it something you overcome?
Thank you in advance for all help x
Twitchy xxx |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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We have tried most scenes over the years, and yes it does cause jealousy, I (the male) Actually quite liked the feeling it added a certain sting, but it was like watching the best porn in the world, seeing her perform on a strangers cock for me to watch, we found it important to do it again as soon as we got home, intimately, recently we have tamed our meets down a bit, not promising any swapping but happy to let people watch us do everything to each other, it suits us better, find what you are comfortable with and play with that at your own speed. |
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I would be interested for other couples comments. I think the natural reaction is that if there is jealousy then perhaps this world is not for you as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have you tried a club instead of a meet?
My wife and I felt more pressure to play when we arranged a meet rather than taking things slowly in a sexy club environment.
Clubs like chams in Birmingham (3hrs from us & more for you) have hotel rooms to stay in. We found them useful as we could retreat to our room to talk in private about our feelings at anytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If there is one thing that would put me off meeting a couple then its jealousy from the male, I would hate to be the reason for a argument or worse a break up  |
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"Have you tried a club instead of a meet?
My wife and I felt more pressure to play when we arranged a meet rather than taking things slowly in a sexy club environment.
Clubs like chams in Birmingham (3hrs from us & more for you) have hotel rooms to stay in. We found them useful as we could retreat to our room to talk in private about our feelings at anytime."
We haven't tried clubs yet. I have always wanted to though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you tried a club instead of a meet?
My wife and I felt more pressure to play when we arranged a meet rather than taking things slowly in a sexy club environment.
Clubs like chams in Birmingham (3hrs from us & more for you) have hotel rooms to stay in. We found them useful as we could retreat to our room to talk in private about our feelings at anytime.
We haven't tried clubs yet. I have always wanted to though x"
They vary in atmosphere enormously. Chams is our favourite, hence why we both have a chameleons logo tattoo.
Couples nights can feel a bit clicky but if you smile and chat you'll soon be welcomed in. You look great. Why wouldn't you be xxx |
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"Have you tried a club instead of a meet?
My wife and I felt more pressure to play when we arranged a meet rather than taking things slowly in a sexy club environment.
Clubs like chams in Birmingham (3hrs from us & more for you) have hotel rooms to stay in. We found them useful as we could retreat to our room to talk in private about our feelings at anytime.
We haven't tried clubs yet. I have always wanted to though x
They vary in atmosphere enormously. Chams is our favourite, hence why we both have a chameleons logo tattoo.
Couples nights can feel a bit clicky but if you smile and chat you'll soon be welcomed in. You look great. Why wouldn't you be xxx"
Arwww thank you Rachel  that's very sweet talking is not my issue haha! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well if talking comes easily, and I'm hoping that also includes listening? Then talk about limits. Even while you're playing it ok to check them.
For instance; if a lady is just starting to touch your fellas cock and wank him a bit, he can look to you just to see if you're ok with it.
If you're not, it's better to disappoint a playmate than upset each other.
Explain to the couple/guy/lady you're about to play with that you're new to this and are unsure how far you're happy to go. |
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