Hi guys, I'm looking for a meet soon with a lady. Just v nervous about everything as I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!
Any advice about the club nights too? I'd love to go, can you watch to see if you like it? Help?! B xx |
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Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal 
Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window
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"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal
Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window
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What do I need to change? |
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"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal
Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window
What do I need to change? "
Nothing as far as I can see but I'm curious, odd boobs?  |
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"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal
Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window
What do I need to change?
Nothing as far as I can see but I'm curious, odd boobs? "
Haha! They're not very odd - I think they're called tubular or something? I think I'm just comparing them to pornstar boobs too - not a good idea haha! Xx |
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"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal
Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window
What do I need to change? "
Personally I think you need a couples profile if your boyfriend is being included at any point.
Apart from that I would say that it sounds quite negative with regard to your opinion of yourself and you need to say a little more about what you're looking for with another woman.
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clubs are fun ,, and you only do what you want to do if thats to watch then fine ,, there is never any pressure to play and a great place to socialise with others ,, |
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Socials are great to meet people, with zero expected of people. There's always clubs too, though they may be a little daunting. Have a look for socials on the forums, or at clubs - I know xtasia do them from time to time
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"Hi guys, I'm looking for a meet soon with a lady. Just v nervous about everything as I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!
Any advice about the club nights too? I'd love to go, can you watch to see if you like it? Help?! B xx"
You can go to clubs and just watch if you want to there is no rule that says you have to play. Just have a drink at the bar and socialise with people on your first visit and then i'm sure it will get easier from there. Good luck. |
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