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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
So you've been chatting to a gir you know for some time, and she's made it ckear she wants to meet. Problem is yes you have a good laugh together, but you don't see her as anything more. Question(s):
1. How did you tell the last girl you didnt fancy her/didn't think it was a good idea/just didn't see her that way?
2. How did she take it?
3. As you enjoy chatting with her, are you still in touch? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is always the best policy. If they don't like it then fair enough. But it's better than leading someone on.
If someone wasn't attracted to me then I'd expect them to at least tell me so I can move on. |
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"1. How did you tell the last girl you didnt fancy her/didn't think it was a good idea/just didn't see her that way?
2. How did she take it?
3. As you enjoy chatting with her, are you still in touch? "
It's difficult isn't it?
I'm sure many on here think all the guys are desperate when not all are.
In answer -
1. I simply told her I didn't think the sexual attraction was there that I was expecting (we had met before sexually 1st time and then again socially a year later).
2. She took it very well - we were both up-front that there's a possibility not meets work out.
3.We're no longer in touch. That's cool.
We're all adults and can take it, can't we?
I get rejected (too often) too and don't dwell. |
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