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Your strategy for the come down after great play.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure I'm not the only one. Sometimes after great sex/play you go on a real high during and straight after. Then it can dip into a bit of a low . Especially, I've found if you've done some light BDSM in the play too being submissive . It must be different for couples, as you have the other half to cuddle etc and talk to. I'm not saying that playmates don't cuddle post play, but they can't stay forever if you're not a couple .
I just wondered how others deal with this. I tend to smile, remembering what a great time I had, cuddle up on the sofa with a movie, milky coffee, naughty chocolate bar and just be kind to myself. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I tend to smile, remembering what a great time I had, cuddle up on the sofa with a movie, milky coffee, naughty chocolate bar and just be kind to myself. "
Add in favourite comfy jammas after a nice hot bath, and a cosy blanket all snuggled. I also re-read messages and texts from the run up to the meet as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sofa, cosy clothes and chocolate following a good long shower. And I do a video blog or write it down. Only for me and/or my BF though."
I don't have a bf to do a blog for!!  xx |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sofa, cosy clothes and chocolate following a good long shower. And I do a video blog or write it down. Only for me and/or my BF though.
I don't have a bf to do a blog for!! xx"
I used to do one regardless before I met him. It helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tend to smile, remembering what a great time I had, cuddle up on the sofa with a movie, milky coffee, naughty chocolate bar and just be kind to myself.
Add in favourite comfy jammas after a nice hot bath, and a cosy blanket all snuggled. I also re-read messages and texts from the run up to the meet as well."
The cosy blanket is now added  good idea re reading messages and texts too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sofa, cosy clothes and chocolate following a good long shower. And I do a video blog or write it down. Only for me and/or my BF though."
That's a great idea to write it all down. I'm going to try that ! Best keep it under lock and key though. |
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"Sofa, cosy clothes and chocolate following a good long shower. And I do a video blog or write it down. Only for me and/or my BF though.
That's a great idea to write it all down. I'm going to try that ! Best keep it under lock and key though. "
I wish I'd started a fab diary! Never mind, folks, you'll appear in my book one day! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sofa, cosy clothes and chocolate following a good long shower. And I do a video blog or write it down. Only for me and/or my BF though.
That's a great idea to write it all down. I'm going to try that ! Best keep it under lock and key though.
I wish I'd started a fab diary! Never mind, folks, you'll appear in my book one day! "
Would it have pop ups ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get it when you've had that perfect meet and then you have to go back to reality. I do sometimes hit the earth with a bang. Have a cuddle with the nippers and the dawg on the sofa that night with some rubbish telly and snuggly blanky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make time for prolonged cuddles after my meets. Its great to feel your partners heartbeat slowing as she calms down. Also hate the ' used ' feeling if i have to dash off. Maybe cudfle up together with some ben and jerrys and watch a movie |
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"We all get it when you've had that perfect meet and then you have to go back to reality. I do sometimes hit the earth with a bang. Have a cuddle with the nippers and the dawg on the sofa that night with some rubbish telly and snuggly blanky. "
This but my cat and no dog.
A great way to slide bsck to reality without that bump.
If no kids home then have a drink with friends
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"I'm sure I'm not the only one. Sometimes after great sex/play you go on a real high during and straight after. Then it can dip into a bit of a low . Especially, I've found if you've done some light BDSM in the play too being submissive . It must be different for couples, as you have the other half to cuddle etc and talk to. I'm not saying that playmates don't cuddle post play, but they can't stay forever if you're not a couple .
I just wondered how others deal with this. I tend to smile, remembering what a great time I had, cuddle up on the sofa with a movie, milky coffee, naughty chocolate bar and just be kind to myself. "
Someone I know needs to be let down gently. Lots of cuddles afterwards seems to help... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Peanut butter on toast, long hot shower and then snuggle on the sofa 
I did marmite, long hot shower too. "
I wish
My comedown is to wipe up, log off fab and put the laptop away 
Actually its nice romantic cuddles if the opportunity arises, spooning in all cuddly and stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of the first times I went to a meet we had such a good time I ended up with a n awful come down, I became that cold I was not "in the room", luckily he whipped his come down blanket out from beneath the bed, wrapped me up and laid next to me holding me and talking to me til I was with it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of the first times I went to a meet we had such a good time I ended up with a n awful come down, I became that cold I was not "in the room", luckily he whipped his come down blanket out from beneath the bed, wrapped me up and laid next to me holding me and talking to me til I was with it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of the first times I went to a meet we had such a good time I ended up with a n awful come down, I became that cold I was not "in the room", luckily he whipped his come down blanket out from beneath the bed, wrapped me up and laid next to me holding me and talking to me til I was with it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of the first times I went to a meet we had such a good time I ended up with a n awful come down, I became that cold I was not "in the room", luckily he whipped his come down blanket out from beneath the bed, wrapped me up and laid next to me holding me and talking to me til I was with it again. |
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