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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just thinking out loud, lol not that I'm looking I think the title is misleading now reading it back, I was thinking how mad it would be meeting on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just thinking out loud, lol not that I'm looking I think the title is misleading now reading it back, I was thinking how mad it would be meeting on here "
You're right! Completely crazy to meet someone on your wavelength, with the same liberal views, who adores sex as much as you do! Sheer madness!!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just thinking out loud, lol not that I'm looking I think the title is misleading now reading it back, I was thinking how mad it would be meeting on here "
mad is the word........its a swinging site  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I mean if you meet some out in the pub or somewhere else it would be harder to explain you been into swinging but if you met on here it would save you a lot of trouble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I mean if you meet some out in the pub or somewhere else it would be harder to explain you been into swinging but if you met on here it would save you a lot of trouble "
why would you want to bring your social life onto here.........its not 24/7
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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago
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"No I mean if you meet some out in the pub or somewhere else it would be harder to explain you been into swinging but if you met on here it would save you a lot of trouble why would you want to bring your social life onto here.........its not 24/7"
Don't think they mean bringing their social life on here, but the other way around. |
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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago
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Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful. "
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off "
Just like in the vanilla world then  |
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off "
You can be clear what you want, I'm always open to the possibility of more as realise you can meet someone who changes your perception of things. It's when they gives mixed signals and play games that it gets messy. |
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off
Just like in the vanilla world then "
Damned if you do, Damned if you don't. It's a fine line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my OH through fabs. We neither of us expected it or were looking for it but our repeat meets ended up with him moving in with me. I believe we are closer because we can talk about our deeper desires without fear of rejection and that connection spreads to all areas of our lives. |
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Glad someone has asked this question as I've met people who have then become a couple and it has worked....I would rather meet someone through fab (being a single woman) than in a dating site as I get to broaden my wants/needs/desires etc with all the fun and no questions asked, so to speak, lol, and I also love the social side, so there's hope for me too! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on here over two and a half years ago.
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Exactly! If you fall in love with someone (single!) on fab then you have nothing to hide - and surely that's got to be a good thing? Whether you both choose to stay on fab or walk away hand in hand is up to the two of you - but at least you'll know you're sexually compatible - which is a massive issue with many couples in the 'real' world! - Mismatched sex drives etc! xx |
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off
You can be clear what you want, I'm always open to the possibility of more as realise you can meet someone who changes your perception of things. It's when they gives mixed signals and play games that it gets messy."
Exactly, and that happens an awful lot on vanilla sites anyway, relationships start and finish for a myriad of reasons wherever they occur.
Live, laugh, love!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off
You can be clear what you want, I'm always open to the possibility of more as realise you can meet someone who changes your perception of things. It's when they gives mixed signals and play games that it gets messy.
Exactly, and that happens an awful lot on vanilla sites anyway, relationships start and finish for a myriad of reasons wherever they occur.
Live, laugh, love!
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Sadly some have this stigma about women on here, doesn't matter how much they like them because they met on fab they aren't good enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow so a lot of couples have met on here, I see what you all sayin about the compatibility, I've used dating sites before and found meets more awkward to start off but meets on here are more direct |
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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago
Chester / North Wales |
"Don't think it's unreasonable to think you couldn't find your prefect match on here - someone who shares your personal desires and interests. Think it would be a mistake to assume they would automatically feel the same though, they may just see you as one great meet in many. Socialising aside, emotions can make for really messy swinging if you're not careful.
I can imagine, one person getting more attached than the other and when they meet other people things could go sour, I guess people need to be clear of what they want from the off
You can be clear what you want, I'm always open to the possibility of more as realise you can meet someone who changes your perception of things. It's when they gives mixed signals and play games that it gets messy.
Exactly, and that happens an awful lot on vanilla sites anyway, relationships start and finish for a myriad of reasons wherever they occur.
Live, laugh, love!
Sadly some have this stigma about women on here, doesn't matter how much they like them because they met on fab they aren't good enough."
I would have thought that would be more of an issue the other way around? Generalising here, but men do have fewer needs - if they find a sexual partner they are happy with and then develop feelings for, all's good for them. Women need a bit more than that. |
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