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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm absolutely full of cold at the moment. And despite being horny I doubt anyone would want to me meet add I'm a bit of a snot fest and probably contagious!  "
a snotty bj would be nice...cheers on ma way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow 6 cock pics and a whole line in your profile? You know how to spoil the ladies don't you?!! I'm amazed that anyone talks to you anything more than bugger off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm absolutely full of cold at the moment. And despite being horny I doubt anyone would want to me meet add I'm a bit of a snot fest and probably contagious! "
I have had the same problem and been putting things off for the last few weeks. Looking forward to resuming my social life very soon though. People have real lives as well as Fab lives and sometimes real life has to take precedence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! "
Sounds like my home page!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow 6 cock pics and a whole line in your profile? You know how to spoil the ladies don't you?!! I'm amazed that anyone talks to you anything more than bugger off"
Nothing like a long profile to read through oh and some thighs pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile reads as being desperate!! "Shag" me now aint gonna get you to far..Sounds as if you want to walk in the front door, whip it in...whip it out, wipe it and bugger off!!!!!!!dont think you are going to get very far unless you work on your profile!!!! read all the other single guy posts...and you can see what thousands of replies come up with.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are you doubting the site?? Where you expecting a queue of desperately horny women to be on their way to meet you?? That attitude and assumption is probably the reason you are not meeting women  |
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO.
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Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me.
Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear
And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
Have you tried putting googly eyes over your penis. Worked for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As mentioned on other thread, women seem to be spoiled for choice.
Being realistic was not expecting loads of meets/invites but changed profile photos, limited interests and still only 1 meet which was fun but alas nothing else. Added few home meets nothing.
Last night near midnight got a BJ invitation which seemed more interested in my cock and any pics than me. Yes declined.
To the future
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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I have to say op, I'm rather surprised you even get a conversation. If you messaged me I would delete without even reading, I'd look at the profile and think that you really just can't be bothered.
Effort = reward.
I'm afraid that seven word profiles really don't attract most women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO.
Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me.
Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear
And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content "
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I am having a good time on here. Lots of chats and messages. I have had quite a few meets and all jave gone well.
Why ?
I am in it for the long haul. A friendly word here, a fab there, the odd wink, and a couple of social meets at clubs.
I choose who I message but am always polite to those that message me.
No magic needed...just effort, interest and good humour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am having a good time on here. Lots of chats and messages. I have had quite a few meets and all jave gone well.
Why ?
I am in it for the long haul. A friendly word here, a fab there, the odd wink, and a couple of social meets at clubs.
I choose who I message but am always polite to those that message me.
No magic needed...just effort, interest and good humour. "
Bang on!! God I'm agreeing with you on a forum lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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really depends on where you live.... you can be the most sincere person on the planet but if the locals want something else you may as well piss into the wind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As for advice as the OP asked for, write a proper profile, why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer etc. Maybe try a better selection of pics, torso, bum, suited, in underwear leaving something to the imagination or similar and change the bareback profile pic, I can't speak for every woman on here but I'd imagine many would delete a message from you without even reading it based on it. Finally, don't rely solely on this site for meets, get to organised socials and clubs, it shows you're real and willing to make an effort to get known. Easy really!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
Maybe they had a look at your bedroom floor and decided to pass?
bareback pictures on a single male profile are often off putting too...
We know lots of single females around here who meet... |
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"I am having a good time on here. Lots of chats and messages. I have had quite a few meets and all jave gone well.
Why ?
I am in it for the long haul. A friendly word here, a fab there, the odd wink, and a couple of social meets at clubs.
I choose who I message but am always polite to those that message me.
No magic needed...just effort, interest and good humour.
Bang on!! God I'm agreeing with you on a forum lol "
Nwxt thing you will be asking me out  |
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO.
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Jus also like to add, that I do not meet.. no not ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
your profile pic screams tramp cloths and crap everywere and ur profile says nothing we wouldnt touch u and i know for a fact my partner wouldnt on her profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As for advice as the OP asked for, write a proper profile, why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer etc. Maybe try a better selection of pics, torso, bum, suited, in underwear leaving something to the imagination or similar and change the bareback profile pic, I can't speak for every woman on here but I'd imagine many would delete a message from you without even reading it based on it. Finally, don't rely solely on this site for meets, get to organised socials and clubs, it shows you're real and willing to make an effort to get known. Easy really!!"
It was the profile pictures that we though were off putting but the O.P. is getting ladies to talk to him so it must be something else putting them off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find these threads fascinating. It's plainly obvious from the OP's profile that people are unlikely to want to meet him.
OP - would you walk up to a stranger in the street, or a bar with your penis out like that and not even introduce yourself? You have to make an effort to garner some interest from people in the flesh, so why not on here?
It's glaringly obvious - no offence. Personality is more important than simply owning a penis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find these threads fascinating. It's plainly obvious from the OP's profile that people are unlikely to want to meet him.
OP - would you walk up to a stranger in the street, or a bar with your penis out like that and not even introduce yourself? You have to make an effort to garner some interest from people in the flesh, so why not on here?
It's glaringly obvious - no offence. Personality is more important than simply owning a penis."
Spot on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
Women don't meet? Yes we do, I'm finding men wuss out of meeting lately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find these threads fascinating. It's plainly obvious from the OP's profile that people are unlikely to want to meet him.
OP - would you walk up to a stranger in the street, or a bar with your penis out like that and not even introduce yourself? You have to make an effort to garner some interest from people in the flesh, so why not on here?
It's glaringly obvious - no offence. Personality is more important than simply owning a penis."
This - absolutely!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx"
It doesnt look like he took you up on your offer |
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx"
Is this a service you offer to others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
they do just not u  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx"
I need help too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
Maybe they had a look at your bedroom floor and decided to pass?
bareback pictures on a single male profile are often off putting too...
We know lots of single females around here who meet..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I beg do differ, I think many ladies meet off this site.
If your noticing a pattern then maybe your the common factor? Take a peek at your own profile through the eyes of somebody you'd like to meet and give yourself a critique and go from there hope it helps...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real"
But not necessarily that they'll meet...see the plethora of threads about no shows when there has been phone contact... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real
I won't speak on the phone and I'm very real."
Same, I hate talking on the phone... I'm real and I meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
Make friends and get to know the person so they don't just feel like one of a number .
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"[Removed by poster at 09/11/14 14:26:25]"
. You need to list you hobbies and interests and I am not sure if four cock pictures are of any help. Lots of ladies meet but you need to put a substantial effort into marketing yourself .
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"Your profile reads as being desperate!! "Shag" me now aint gonna get you to far..Sounds as if you want to walk in the front door, whip it in...whip it out, wipe it and bugger off!!!!!!!dont think you are going to get very far unless you work on your profile!!!! read all the other single guy posts...and you can see what thousands of replies come up with...."
I absolutely love this reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real
I won't speak on the phone and I'm very real."
its rare I give out my number as I have to be careful and have had no shows before, even when speaking the night before |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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"It might be the area too there dont seem to be loads around this way"
There are plenty in the Boston area......haven't you heard of chunky muffins parties or that chat mod who hosts parties at his home in Boston? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might be the area too there dont seem to be loads around this way
There are plenty in the Boston area......haven't you heard of chunky muffins parties or that chat mod who hosts parties at his home in Boston? "
Yes ive been to the parties. Chat mod not heard of that |
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! "
But Debs your profile says "Sorry, but I'm NOT interested in SINGLE MEN or NEW COUPLES."
This is pretty clear.
And, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't think I have any of the three criteria you mention above:
one line;
sad cock pic;
grumpy.
Jus' sayin' like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x"
I'd say you are not getting them interested enough then? Or if you're booking their interest then it must be an issue between you and that person? |
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Its a big market with fierce competition so you need to sell yourself...i don't mean lie but make yourself an interesting and fun date/meet for any women.
Be yourself but if you are a naturally boring person be that guy who goes on holiday and can be whoever he wants to be...within reason lol.
Get your pics right because if you go into a cake shop you want the nice one & not the one thats been there for days...first impressions!
If you start chatting don't start talking about sex straight away as thats the biggest put off, the lady wants to know you like her and her looks/personality not just meeting to use her pussy/tits to relief yourself.
Offer to take them out on a social meet first as the more comfortable a women is with you the further you'll get, if you do get a knock back roll with it and don't get abusive.
The ladies on here are very friendly and responsive if approached right, making a quick few line profile won't get you meets so take some time and effort and see the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours!
But Debs your profile says "Sorry, but I'm NOT interested in SINGLE MEN or NEW COUPLES."
This is pretty clear.
And, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't think I have any of the three criteria you mention above:
one line;
sad cock pic;
grumpy.
Jus' sayin' like."
She has to be attracted to you, she ain't gonna shag you if she doesn't fancy you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow 6 cock pics and a whole line in your profile? You know how to spoil the ladies don't you?!! I'm amazed that anyone talks to you anything more than bugger off"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
Have you tried putting googly eyes over your penis. Worked for me "
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x
The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO.
Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me.
Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear
And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content "
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Too many guys on here think this is a meet N fuck site, an that a quick one line message of "nice tits" will get them laid, it wouldn't work in a bar an it won't work for me on here either. Out of 30 odd guys that we've looked at an spoke too only ONE managed to match up with what we wanted. Simple numbers game
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many guys on here think this is a meet N fuck site, an that a quick one line message of "nice tits" will get them laid, it wouldn't work in a bar an it won't work for me on here either. Out of 30 odd guys that we've looked at an spoke too only ONE managed to match up with what we wanted. Simple numbers game
Elle x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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it really depends on the area you live. I find myself having to travel miles to get a meet. women/couples (who actually meet)in my area are particularly hard to find.... and there are few if any socials... strange when you consider how close I am to England's "second city". If I were you I would look further afield... but not in this direction...lololol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel your pain OP.
I have been messaging a few over the past two days and almost every message still hasn't been read.
At least if they'd been deleted I'd know where I stand, lol
Particularly when I've put a lot of effort into composing my messages.
Ho hum. Keep plodding on, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel your pain OP.
I have been messaging a few over the past two days and almost every message still hasn't been read.
At least if they'd been deleted I'd know where I stand, lol
Particularly when I've put a lot of effort into composing my messages.
Ho hum. Keep plodding on, lol"
Delete your sent messages and don't worry about what the recipient has done to it, you'll either get a reply or you won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel your pain OP.
I have been messaging a few over the past two days and almost every message still hasn't been read.
At least if they'd been deleted I'd know where I stand, lol
Particularly when I've put a lot of effort into composing my messages.
Ho hum. Keep plodding on, lol
Delete your sent messages and don't worry about what the recipient has done to it, you'll either get a reply or you won't."
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