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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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on browse we have notice their was no section for picking race of couples
like Asian,black,mixed race ect
just think their should be a section for saying what race you are looking for, other than looking under user name theirs no way of finding anyone
hope ive not upset anyone
sie & tracy |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"on browse we have notice their was no section for picking race of couples
like Asian,black,mixed race ect
just think their should be a section for saying what race you are looking for, other than looking under user name theirs no way of finding anyone
hope ive not upset anyone
sie & tracy "
There would need to be an option to pick what race you are in the first place on profiles.
At the moment you don't have that option, so having an option to look for a certain race would be totally pointless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also feel that an option on sexuality should be present too as, being a bimale couple, we search for guys we can both play with but end up with a long list of single male profiles who we don't know are bi or straight until we view them, which is a royal pain in the arse. |
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"I also feel that an option on sexuality should be present too as, being a bimale couple, we search for guys we can both play with but end up with a long list of single male profiles who we don't know are bi or straight until we view them, which is a royal pain in the arse."
There is a gay/bi fab website that has all the bi men you will need.  |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"It is a good idea but I do wonder at it's legality or, at least, that a minority could claim some kind of discriminatory case."
Why? 
What would be illegal or discriminatory about putting what race you are and for people to search for the race they want to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is a good idea but I do wonder at it's legality or, at least, that a minority could claim some kind of discriminatory case.
Why?
What would be illegal or discriminatory about putting what race you are and for people to search for the race they want to meet? "
There is always someone, somewhere, just waiting to jump up and use the race card. It's the way of people. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"It is a good idea but I do wonder at it's legality or, at least, that a minority could claim some kind of discriminatory case.
Why?
What would be illegal or discriminatory about putting what race you are and for people to search for the race they want to meet?
There is always someone, somewhere, just waiting to jump up and use the race card. It's the way of people."
Still as to what they could do about it though -
FAB Member - "Yes M'Lud, they used their own free will, on a swinging site, to tick the boxes to say they wanted to meet overy other race, for recreational sex, apart from mine!"
Judge - "And?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is a good idea but I do wonder at it's legality or, at least, that a minority could claim some kind of discriminatory case.
Why?
What would be illegal or discriminatory about putting what race you are and for people to search for the race they want to meet?
There is always someone, somewhere, just waiting to jump up and use the race card. It's the way of people.
Still as to what they could do about it though -
FAB Member - "Yes M'Lud, they used their own free will, on a swinging site, to tick the boxes to say they wanted to meet overy other race, for recreational sex, apart from mine!"
Judge - "And?"
;-)"
 love it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One option we think would be handy for every one is a travel or accomodate option as we are always looking for those that can accom only but also have to check profiles who can only travel to find them, would this be a good idea for any one else? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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no we just fancied meeting Asian,black,mixed race or any other race we haven't named,and we have found it hard to find said couples,only way we have found said couples is by look going through pics or peeps profiles |
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"on browse we have notice their was no section for picking race of couples
like Asian,black,mixed race ect
just think their should be a section for saying what race you are looking for, other than looking under user name theirs no way of finding anyone
hope ive not upset anyone
sie & tracy
There would need to be an option to pick what race you are in the first place on profiles.
At the moment you don't have that option, so having an option to look for a certain race would be totally pointless!"
Pointless? Hmm, a bit short sighted of you. You can update a profile you know? As for legality, well, other sites let you can search by race etc. It's not a racist thing just that different people are attracted to different types, which is a long, long, well worn topic on the forums.. |
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"no we just fancied meeting Asian,black,mixed race or any other race we haven't named,and we have found it hard to find said couples,only way we have found said couples is by look going through pics or peeps profiles "
Careful, people will jump on "people are people regardless of race" bandwagon again, instead of accepting that not everyone is the same and people may like them because of it rather than in spite of it.. |
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"People are people regardless of colour.
Close your eyes and I can be any colour you like, even turquoise "
Of course people are people, not not everyone is the same.. size, build, height, shape of face, shape of body, hair colour, skin colour - they are all things that make us who we are. It's no different to be attracted to someone because of skin colour than it is any other defining characteristic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are people regardless of colour.
Close your eyes and I can be any colour you like, even turquoise
Of course people are people, not not everyone is the same.. size, build, height, shape of face, shape of body, hair colour, skin colour - they are all things that make us who we are. It's no different to be attracted to someone because of skin colour than it is any other defining characteristic."
You think I'd look good turquoise then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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think all of you are missing the point the point iam trying to make is their is no search for ethnic background,
as a single bloke yrs ago i would only go out with black or mixed race girls, and if you have seen tracy she is olive skin white female so i like dark skin girls, but we want to meet other ethnic groups as well
even on dating sites they have ethnic background choice,gay,straight,drinker smoker ect |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"think all of you are missing the point the point iam trying to make is their is no search for ethnic background,
as a single bloke yrs ago i would only go out with black or mixed race girls, and if you have seen tracy she is olive skin white female so i like dark skin girls, but we want to meet other ethnic groups as well
even on dating sites they have ethnic background choice,gay,straight,drinker smoker ect "
I didn't miss your point but you might have missed my first reply so here it is again -
"There would need to be an option to pick what race you are in the first place on profiles.
At the moment you don't have that option, so having an option to look for a certain race would be totally pointless!"
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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago
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Would be a good idea, and some sites do cater for preferences like these. Don't worry about the race card, just hope that people are mature enough to recognise sexual preference as opposed to racial bias. |
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"Would be a good idea, and some sites do cater for preferences like these. Don't worry about the race card, just hope that people are mature enough to recognise sexual preference as opposed to racial bias."
you would like to think wouldnt you but alas no 
i have been called a racist on several occasions because i turned down a guy who was asian or black. Why cant it just be that they dont attract me? i dont meet every white guy so why would i meet every asian or black guy???? |
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