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over a year ago
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"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people"
They obviously aren't interested.
Do you reply to junk mail saying you're not interested? Thought not! |
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"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people"
What do you mean by 'new'? If you only want to chat to people who have just joined, then they will be few and far between. If people don't reply to you it means they are not interested. |
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult  "
Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult
Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want. "
No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello and giving out compliments where they are deserved. Nothing creepy at all |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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Your profile says nothing! Talk about what you are looking for, what do you have to offer? You need some pics....NOT cock ones. ...there are a lot of ladies who will delete a message from a guy with only cock pics! |
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult
Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.
No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello
and giving out compliments where they
are deserved. Nothing creepy at all
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Ok....are you reading the profiles and only contacting those you think might be interested or doing a cut n paste job to everyone within, say, 39 miles? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult
Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.
No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello
and giving out compliments where they
are deserved. Nothing creepy at all
Ok....are you reading the profiles and only contacting those you think might be interested or doing a cut n paste job to everyone within, say, 39 miles? "
I firstly tried with people closer to me. Then I've just tried people that maybe interested along with my interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down "
I wasn't putting you down at all!! Putting you down would be calling you ugly, which I didn't.
You need to grow a thicker skin, man |
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult
Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.
No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello
and giving out compliments where they
are deserved. Nothing creepy at all
Ok....are you reading the profiles and
only contacting those you think might
be interested or doing a cut n paste job
to everyone within, say, 39 miles?
I firstly tried with people closer to me.
Then I've just tried people that maybe
interested along with my interest.
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And what is your interest? |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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These kind of posts are getting so boring now.
It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.
I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates  |
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OP: you didn't answer my question about you saying you only want to chat to new people and haven't answered my question about how to help you. If you think your profile is the very best you can do, then leave it. If you think it needs improving, then change it. Get some hints and tips from other forum threads from people asking for profile advice. |
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Some of the replies you will receive on this thread will come across as negative put downs. Others will appear as constructive criticism, try and take the positives from both.
Ya need a thick skin on here sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated  "
Post whatever you like. Its a public forum. If ppl dont like a thread they can just pass it. |
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"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated
Post whatever you like. Its a public forum. If ppl dont like a thread they can just pass it. "
Though it's a pity people say things like 'bums' then go to bed and not post anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These kind of posts are getting so boring now.
It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.
I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates "
oi, I do the blunt but honest posts round here |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"These kind of posts are getting so boring now.
It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.
I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates
oi, I do the blunt but honest posts round here"
Just sayin - lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult "
They do reply and meet if:
Your profile stands out/catches the eye....does yours?
Your messages are polite, funny, interesting etcetera....are yours?
You have face pics or decent body shots...a cock pic is normally seen as a turn off
Think you need to look at some of the hundreds of previous threads on exactly the same topic. Generally from guys who have not taken the advice given and continue to complain about their lack of success. Take the advice and act on it. Then you can join those of us who do have success. |
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"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down
I wasn't putting you down at all!! Putting you down would be calling you ugly, which I didn't.
You need to grow a thicker skin, man"
Yup , man up princess, get to a club, a social, take part in forums other than whingey threads |
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"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people
They obviously aren't interested.
Do you reply to junk mail saying you're not interested? Thought not!"
Personally I send Company A's junk mail back to Company B in their pre paid envelope.
But only when I'm really, really bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated "
You only have one pic of your cock and that's public. Take some different ones and have face pics on private so you can send them. main thing though would be your age for some people. Good luck |
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