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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Perhaps it's your approach then? Personality? Attraction isn't just physical... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol
Perhaps it's your approach then? Personality? Attraction isn't just physical..."
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
I doubt very much a lot of their male partners have their face pic on show, plus it is about mental stimulation as well, it is not all about a tick box! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never seen two identical men apart from twins... a guy can be my type for all sorts of reasons, even down to what mood they catch me in when they message me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality is key for many people. They may be reading your profile and seeing things that feel your not for them.
It's their choice."
Having read your profile there are a few things that would put us off. As for your status, well enough said. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe there is something on your profile putting them off? Unpleasant status maybe?
Think you might have something there! "
Surprise surprise, it has just been changed!
Whiney profiles, status message's, why can't I get a meet? Are always a black mark for any female! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I chatted to a female and swopped a few body pics ect then sent a face pic ! Rather than a no thank you reply I got blocked. I'd rather have a " no thanks" than a reaction like that. It makes you feel like a minger or summat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're not interested but trying to be nice. Or they could mean mentally their type rather than age/appearance. Either way there's no point fretting about the people who don't want to meet you, focus on the ones who might. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I chatted to a female and swopped a few body pics ect then sent a face pic ! Rather than a no thank you reply I got blocked. I'd rather have a " no thanks" than a reaction like that. It makes you feel like a minger or summat "
Some people find it easier to block than explain why, due to some men not taking rejection well, and here cometh the abusive messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is some amazingly good looking men in this site that I think physically are perfect, but when you speak to them or see threads in the forum it definitely puts you off what you thought was a beautiful specimen. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I chatted to a female and swopped a few body pics ect then sent a face pic ! Rather than a no thank you reply I got blocked. I'd rather have a " no thanks" than a reaction like that. It makes you feel like a minger or summat "
Thats life on here tho, you've just got to say 'oh well' and move on. Moaning and naming people will never do you any favours! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"There is some amazingly good looking men in this site that I think physically are perfect, but when you speak to them or see threads in the forum it definitely puts you off what you thought was a beautiful specimen. "
I know where your coming from!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know I do moan a little bit some times but I'm allways straight with people and like the same back. Like the point at the end of your message Anna. It's defiantly true |
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"I know I do moan a little bit some times but I'm allways straight with people and like the same back. Like the point at the end of your message Anna. It's defiantly true "
Moaning might make you feel better but it doesn't make you look better. Just concentrate on the ladies who want to meet you rather than this that don't. You've had meets so doing fine, chill and join in happily. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Well there is this thing called choice.....just take it as a no and move on. |
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Everyone has the right to pick and choose who they meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to a female and swopped a few body pics ect then sent a face pic ! Rather than a no thank you reply I got blocked. I'd rather have a " no thanks" than a reaction like that. It makes you feel like a minger or summat "
The block is her saying "no thanks" you don't need it in writing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they check the forums to see who's been moany?
I've had so many knock backs now I feel like a ping pong ball but there we go...
If you go into a nightclub, you don't leave moaning because 99% of the ladies you spoke to turned you down, you leave happy because one liked you right? Look for that one and don't berate the rest for thier choice....positive mental attitude fella  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
I doubt very much that every other man on these women's lists looks exactly the same as you Physical attraction is different for each person! |
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Chemistry. Simples!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Why do people have to justify who they meet. Moaning isn't going to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Yes ! How dare they not fancy you when they fancy other men. Women eh ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coz there are hundreds of us on here, and its hard to come accross as a genuine nice bloke. Most would feel different if met in person. But thats the battle you have. You have to stand out from the rest, pics and good profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman can fancy or meet who she wishes she is not being rude by saying your not her type she is being honest and better that than just failing to turn up |
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol
I doubt very much that every other man on these women's lists looks exactly the same as you Physical attraction is different for each person!"
Exactly, I said sorry you're not my type to one person who came back and said 'Why - I think I look just like Xxxx that you met!?
Hasty use of block button followed!! Different people are different people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never seen two identical men apart from twins... a guy can be my type for all sorts of reasons, even down to what mood they catch me in when they message me!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Whether they say 'not my type', or 'we're not a good match', or 'f*** off and leave me alone', or you get no response at all, it all amounts to the same thing. You won't be meeting them, and no amount of questioning is going to change the outcome. The sooner you get used to this truth, the happier you'll be on here. Good luck |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol "
Everyone's body is different.
Everyone's face is different.
Everyone's personality/attitude/character is different.
People have their own tastes and preferences.
How can a 'you're not my type' boggle the mind?
Do you fancy every woman on the site?
Do you have your own preferences and tastes?
Would you never say no to anyone?
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be a polite way of saying no thank you. Her or their loss, keep the faith and move on"
Well they're not meeting someone they don't want to meet, so how exactly it's their loss escapes me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women say some times your not my type ? When you look at the verifications that they have and their meets look the same as you ! Body type build age and looks ect boggles my mind some times lol
Perhaps it's your approach then? Personality? Attraction isn't just physical..."
spot on |
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