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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there  - thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "
You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x"
That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x
That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it"
Sarah x |
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By *34rwbMan
over a year ago
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Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "
Then don't do it. It isn't compulsory.
Well actually I used to see one lady where it was compulsory....but it isn't with most people. Why do you feel you need to do something you aren't 100% happy with ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount."
Yep. A little douching and thorough drying beforehand, pretty much guarantees a lovely sensual experience for all involved
Sarah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x"
They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.
just for the purpose of clarity obviously.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys - great advice - heeded
I know it's not compulsory, lol - nothing is, but I like to please the person I'm with, and if it's something they'd like to do, then I'm always up for giving them pleasure if I can. You never know, I might want them to do something for me, lol
Maybe we should ALL get together to practice, lol xx |
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x"
Fuck me Sarah!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy  |
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and
flicking the surrounding area with your
tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x
That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it
I got more than a semi lol
Sarah x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...... but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy "
Yes, to be honest if ever I get a really bad bout of diarrhoea the first thing I think of is "now who can I get to rim me?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy "
All good advice. In other words, it's a calculated risk, as are most things in life. Only to be done with someone you know well. Someone that you know has just washed and isn't (to the fullest of your knowledge) suffering any gastro-related unmentionables 
Sarah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As per the above, the sensation is not just inside but around it.
Personally I love nothing more than a teasing build up before going anywhere near the area, its almost like those charity coin things you used to see. Where the 2p would go round and round getting closer and faster to the hole (except the 2p would drop in!)
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x"
OMG if I wasnt horny before, I am after reading that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes
Feel a bit ill after reading that!"
just what i thought as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom
Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's! "
Yeah, girls use My Little Pony bubble bath, men use Lynx Africa Shower gel and women use French Lime Blossom Bath Oil |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom
Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's! "
Never smely a mans and girls i mean women,
I take it your in the im offended you called me a girl camp |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom
Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's!
Never smely a mans and girls i mean women,
I take it your in the im offended you called me a girl camp "
You didn't call me a girl, so how can I be offended? I assumed you meant girls and not women, you know, very, very young women?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes
Feel a bit ill after reading that!"
I agree. The punctuation is quite upsetting.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes
Feel a bit ill after reading that!
I agree. The punctuation is quite upsetting. "
I had to have a lie down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x
They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.
just for the purpose of clarity obviously. "
I'm the same, I'm sure I'd get it better if I was shown
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x
They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.
just for the purpose of clarity obviously.
I'm the same, I'm sure I'd get it better if I was shown
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Naughty people! My fave kind of people
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"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too
Sarah x"
I sure this advice is coming from the experience...thanks for passing on your skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount."
Well not to me! Cleanliness is the last thing I want! Too much cleanliness takes much of the fun out of oral sex. What is the point of licking or sucking intimate parts of the body which smell and taste like shower gel? It's the natural taste of these areas which make them sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount. Yep. A little douching and thorough drying beforehand, pretty much guarantees a lovely sensual experience for all involved
Sarah x"
Off to get a shower and a douche....
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
Sevenoaks |
OMG... "Circumnavigating the rim" that is the mother of all sayings!!
I need to Circumnavigate the Rim.. I would dress up like Christopher Fucking Columbus if it got me some Circumnavigation of the Pacific Rim!!!
God I'm more horny than a vikings helmet!! |
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Rimming is one of those things that feel dirty but so so fucking sexy
obviously its gotta be a clean ass, but when you spread her cheeks open and run your tongue down her crack.... and then you're licking her asshole, circling it.... and then push your tongue in...FUCK You'll be hornier than a viking raiding party! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The clue is in the name, rimming as opposed to tongue fucking, gently tease the rim without penetrating. personally I love to do it for a girl, no girl would let you anywhere near it if she wasn't spotlessly clean. I find it very erotic and intimate. I usually do it after giving a good few orgasms from giving oral to give her pussy a chance to recover, more orgasms can be achieved from rimming when combined with good use of the fingers, alternating between the pussy and ass. Get stuck in man it's not gonna kill you and they'll love you for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rimming a girl is amazing, dont go right in, its called rimming, so you put your tongue on the rim and lick, get it wet, and keep licking away, while playing with her pussy, as she gets more turned on, and you get more hornier, and confident, maybe u can go right in |
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