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Are couple's really that?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Amongst the standard one line, illiterate, no photo emails I received this morning was a message from a couple.

I don't wish to meet couples but the same couple messaged me a few weeks back when their profile stated they do not meet alone. When I pointed this out I was told this was out of date.

This time around, the profile had changed and curiosity got the better of me, for reasons other than arrousal. We exchanged pleasantries, I was told the female was away for the weekend and I was asked what my weekend consisted of. This then followed a message which stated 'Do you fancy a trip to xxxx, lol'.

I swiftly advised I would not be the one who he cheated on his wife with. Cue a few messages telling me to 'calm down', 'it was a joke as lol was inserted' followed by 'I have spoken with the wife about me meeting alone before'.

This quickly lead to 'given the number of idiots I can see how you can jump to false accusations', 'this site is supposed to be fun' and 'I'm bored of this now'.

I politely pointed out that if there was nothing to hide the messages would remain in the sent items. Cue me being blocked and the messages deleted.

Am I too cynical or am I correct in thinking I knew his motives?

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

I would say you guessed right about him - the alternative would have been to say you would meet, after you had spoken with his wife on the phone….. I am guessing that would have received the same response.

The words, 'Yesterday & Born' not necessarily in that order spring to mind as what he must have thought of you.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

Hate that, gives the rest of us genuine couples a bad name.....blah blah blah....tared with the same brush etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hate that, gives the rest of us genuine couples a bad name.....blah blah blah....tared with the same brush etc etc etc

Now no couples will get a meet ever again because of the one bad couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hate that, gives the rest of us genuine couples a bad name.....blah blah blah....tared with the same brush etc etc etc

Now no couples will get a meet ever again because of the one bad couple. "

Oh boo! I just got my lucky thong out too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we had a similar thing a long while back - the guy said wife in bed - chatting away to us - but he deleted the messages - kept starting new threads of them - obviously so mrs wouldnt see them - we kept them - the next day we sent a messge attached to the old ones so whoever read them would get the gist of the chat - yes we were blocked and then unlos - theres a surprise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curiosity can set in but I think we would have got board with it after the second message.

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By *roncoverssereneCouple over a year ago

NearYouVille

There seems to be a sinister plot to the whole thing, and agreed....' Yesterday & born'.

Deniable, plausible...sending the mail at a time so as to it noticable may spell disastrous and not rectify the issues. Intrigue is curiosity gone crazy, while lying to save face through a platform for honest straight talking folk, repprehesable..some people do take the royal biscuit.

Now can we have our desert?

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

We get those type of scenarios too and pretty much deal with it in the exact same way. Keeping your wits about you and sticking to what you want out of the site can't be a bad thing, definitely not over cautious in our book.

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple over a year ago

Maldon

If we had a £1 for every couple that messaged that turned to "wife's away but can still play" it'd pay our yearly subscription. The ones that really do our heads in is the "wife" saying that the males available an that "she" won't be playing for several months. Yet no mention of this on their profile, not meeting for the odd week or so fine, but months?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ZZZZZZZZ

A back to back Murder She Wrote has more appeal..

Boring, get a life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's surprising how many men from a couple have permission to play alone it really does take my breath away

Saying that I have met a couple that the female met alone though I was talking to him on the phone during the meet (yes that kind of thing)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"ZZZZZZZZ

A back to back Murder She Wrote has more appeal..

Boring, get a life."

I am unsure why people feel the need to comment when they have nothing to actually say other than they find the thread boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*couples.

Sincerely, the British Apostrophe Society

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not uncommon op, and we often end up blocked after pointing out that unfaithfulness on a couples profile is very off putting, its usually a d*unken weekend thing when the fella fails to read the profile aswell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*couples.

Sincerely, the British Apostrophe Society"

No, you've lost me

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Hate that, gives the rest of us genuine couples a bad name.....blah blah blah....tared with the same brush etc etc etc

Now no couples will get a meet ever again because of the one bad couple.

Oh boo! I just got my lucky thong out too."

A thong? At our age? You'll have a hip out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Amongst the standard one line, illiterate, no photo emails I received this morning was a message from a couple.

I don't wish to meet couples but the same couple messaged me a few weeks back when their profile stated they do not meet alone. When I pointed this out I was told this was out of date.

This quickly lead to 'given the number of idiots I can see how you can jump to false accusations', 'this site is supposed to be fun' and 'I'm bored of this now'.

I politely pointed out that if there was nothing to hide the messages would remain in the sent items. Cue me being blocked and the messages deleted.

Am I too cynical or am I correct in thinking I knew his motives?"
..Spot on we get them pricks.xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We face this non-sense all the time. We often get mails from "couples", whose profile clearly says don't meet Asians (as we all know this would be generally the preference of the female of the couple) and when we query about this aspect, we will get a email back saying that if we send some naughty pictures of us, then he will convince his wife (lol)...

i just don't get it .. if he wants to see some naked Indian women, he can just type the same in google and he would get hundreds, why bother sending emails after emails. What is the kick here ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

now in reply to this thread. I maybe an exception. Im female. When Im Domming I play alone, but My Partner knows exactly who I am with and who I am Domming. He would know what hotel I am in. And yes we have two profiles on here , and yes on both profiles you would get directed to the other. Ours is about open communication. We swing together , but I Domme alone. Does not work with everyone , but it works for us

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

There will be plenty of couples who play alone with consent .Hubby and i play alone snd zero isdues confirning it.Then there are also those who will say anything and everything just to get a meet. Your gutt instinct already told you which category this guy fell in to so no surprise when they delete message thread and block you .You know ow it was heading to that .Why waste further concern over pleaseyou don't wanna meet anyway .Trust your instinct and just use your time one the ones you do wish to meet and happy to confirm consent of partner.

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By *oui11Woman over a year ago

Sutton in ashfield

I actually met a man from a couplr after speaking with his partner on the phone and asking her if it wouls be ok to meet her partner, she and he both really nice, went round to his, and sat drinking tea for first three houra anyway, I asked if we were going to play or not and he said yes but has to be in the spare room cos it wouldnt feel right, if it was just us playing in their room. ok I thought, I guess I can understand that, only after having a bit of a play (he couldnt get a hard on by the way, no matter what I did) it was only after leavimg I thought about things, like in the bathroom, their was only one vsn of deoderant, which was male and also only one shower gel in the bathroom , which again was male, although he convinced me whilst downstairs that all the plants including numerous hanging baskets out in the back yard, were all hers. I now wonder if she exists? so out of curteousy, whan I got home I thanked him for the meet, and mentioned all the above items and guess what, yep, he blocked me too!!!! so be careful when meeting couples or one half of couples, is all I have to say on this matter!! _

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had 3 messages from couples in the last few days. All from the male saying tgeyd live to olay but she cant cos (insert shite reason).

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"*couples.

Sincerely, the British Apostrophe Society"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a real couple, but we have had messages from the male parts of couples saying they the mrs is away ect! We just don't bother replying to those messages

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By *lackCherryCouple over a year ago

Bristol

This site is basically dominated by horny men who want to get their end away no matter how they manage it, some set up fake MF couples, some go to extreme lengths to get a meet.

We get it all the time

"oh I can meet alone"

So where is your other half ?

"on she moved to Australia"

uh oh so you're a single male then ?

In all walks of life people (not just guys) are lousy and do anything to get what they want it doesn't change just because they signed up to a swinging site im afraid and your instincts were probably quite right.

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