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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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talk to her, discuss any problems or reasons! has there been any factors you can see that may be causing it that need addressing?
failing all that ^^^ jagermeister  |
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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago
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"talk to her, discuss any problems or reasons! has there been any factors you can see that may be causing it that need addressing?
failing all that ^^^ jagermeister "
And Vodka. 
Only kidding. Just talk it through. But don't get cross with her. It happens for a lot of reasons. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How are other aspects of your relationship with her...?
How is her work life balance...?
Does she do much exercise...?
How is her diet...?
Be gentle, loving and supportive... |
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"talk to her, discuss any problems or reasons! has there been any factors you can see that may be causing it that need addressing?
failing all that ^^^ jagermeister
And Vodka.
Only kidding. Just talk it through. But don't get cross with her. It happens for a lot of reasons. X"
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"Starting to get concerned my wife has lost her libido, what can I/we do to get it back, can anyone help ! "
Try a really romantic scenario go to a bar and chat her up.
If that does not work trade in for a younger model
No just work at it without getting stressed up about it |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Surprised by the responses here. Where is any advice at all? You have all presumed he is sneaking around, when they may just be an open couple, and he is asking for ideas!!! Fuck! A bloke asking/taking interest in his wife! Drown it, burrrn it, cast it out with pitch forks!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surprised by the responses here. Where is any advice at all? You have all presumed he is sneaking around, when they may just be an open couple, and he is asking for ideas!!! Fuck! A bloke asking/taking interest in his wife! Drown it, burrrn it, cast it out with pitch forks!!! "
Who suggested he was sneaking around?? Many said that he is better off talking to her , sooner than asking on here and plenty more said that making a fuss of her could be the way forward
All good advice as we dont know of the reasons! You sound angry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surprised by the responses here. Where is any advice at all? You have all presumed he is sneaking around, when they may just be an open couple, and he is asking for ideas!!! Fuck! A bloke asking/taking interest in his wife! Drown it, burrrn it, cast it out with pitch forks!!! "
?can you read? Everyone gave advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surprised by the responses here. Where is any advice at all? You have all presumed he is sneaking around, when they may just be an open couple, and he is asking for ideas!!! Fuck! A bloke asking/taking interest in his wife! Drown it, burrrn it, cast it out with pitch forks!!! "
Maybe you should actually read the responses before you make a comment like this! People have given some very good advise to the OP and no one has suggested that he is sneaking around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have dips and low times when tiredness and worries take over. As others have said, the only way to find out is communication. I'm sure she will appreciate your concern. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
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Who suggested he was sneaking around?? Many said that he is better off talking to her , sooner than asking on here and plenty more said that making a fuss of her could be the way forward
All good advice as we dont know of the reasons! You sound angry "
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?can you read? Everyone gave advice"
"I think he commented on the wrong post cos mr angry hasnt read this thread "
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Maybe you should actually read the responses before you make a comment like this! People have given some very good advise to the OP and no one has suggested that he is sneaking around. "
MAYBE... people just shouldn't assume that he is talking behind his partner back. As that is pretty much the crux of all the responses.
I do not see how "maybe you should start talking to her and stop chatting away on here" type responses, in anyway help. Essentially you are voting him in as the guilty party, that he is directly responsible for her sex drive. The guy is making a simple enquiry!
I am wondering if all women are somehow mules to men or something? Is it at all possible some of you do actually take sex into your own hands occasionally???????????? 
(hint it's a swinging site - and this is in support and advice)
Try horny goats OP, a decent multi vitamin, decent varied diet, good sleep, Ginseng - there are a fair few supplements if you want to go down that route. Obviously a Dr might be a good option too. As well as mixing it up, taking time and having a chat. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I've lost mine now and again on here, I wouldn't worry about it too much, it's not like my area is full of respectful good looking guys..... 
On a serious note, it does happen, but it will come back as long as there is no pressure, well it did for me, so fingers crossed |
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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago
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Talk it through with your partner
We all have these times in our life where stress & worry take over
I know from past experience but be open & honest & most of all understanding & I'm sure you will both be fine
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It's a couples profile, so presumably they are asking for advice......as usual, the know better than everyone else's, jump right in with their assumptions.
I,m sorry I have no advice, but I hope you both work through it
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who suggested he was sneaking around?? Many said that he is better off talking to her , sooner than asking on here and plenty more said that making a fuss of her could be the way forward
All good advice as we dont know of the reasons! You sound angry
?can you read? Everyone gave advice
I think he commented on the wrong post cos mr angry hasnt read this thread
Maybe you should actually read the responses before you make a comment like this! People have given some very good advise to the OP and no one has suggested that he is sneaking around.
MAYBE... people just shouldn't assume that he is talking behind his partner back. As that is pretty much the crux of all the responses.
I do not see how "maybe you should start talking to her and stop chatting away on here" type responses, in anyway help. Essentially you are voting him in as the guilty party, that he is directly responsible for her sex drive. The guy is making a simple enquiry!
I am wondering if all women are somehow mules to men or something? Is it at all possible some of you do actually take sex into your own hands occasionally????????????
(hint it's a swinging site - and this is in support and advice)
Try horny goats OP, a decent multi vitamin, decent varied diet, good sleep, Ginseng - there are a fair few supplements if you want to go down that route. Obviously a Dr might be a good option too. As well as mixing it up, taking time and having a chat."
horny goat is a natural testosterone booster, its his wife he is talking about, MAYBE you didn't read that bit either and just PRESUMED that aswell, you are digging an even bigger hole with your ranty anger, x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"It's a couples profile, so presumably they are asking for advice......as usual, the know better than everyone else's, jump right in with their assumptions.
I,m sorry I have no advice, but I hope you both work through it
X"
8 comments made pointing to either it being his fault or to stop talking behind the Mrs back. Bloody amazin.
I am going to post a profile review or another question about the best way to to dv/dvp and see if that brings something new to these forums
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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horny goat is a natural testosterone booster, its his wife he is talking about, MAYBE you didn't read that bit either and just PRESUMED that aswell, you are digging an even bigger hole with your ranty anger, x "
You know women take horny goat ?
And ok, I wont be ranty anger, if you stop trying to be the guru of all things sexual. Deal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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horny goat is a natural testosterone booster, its his wife he is talking about, MAYBE you didn't read that bit either and just PRESUMED that aswell, you are digging an even bigger hole with your ranty anger, x
You know women take horny goat ?
And ok, I wont be ranty anger, if you stop trying to be the guru of all things sexual. Deal?"
we cant make a deal with someone that jumps to their own conclusions and hijacks someones thread by slating the advice given and harping on about non existent cheating accusations and then slates the health advice given but hypocritically suggests a test boost to a lady  we are certainly not claiming to be gurus of any kind but after 17 years of our own trials and tribulations we feel that we may have been able to offer a little help |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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horny goat is a natural testosterone booster, its his wife he is talking about, MAYBE you didn't read that bit either and just PRESUMED that aswell, you are digging an even bigger hole with your ranty anger, x
You know women take horny goat ?
And ok, I wont be ranty anger, if you stop trying to be the guru of all things sexual. Deal?
we cant make a deal with someone that jumps to their own conclusions and hijacks someones thread by slating the advice given and harping on about non existent cheating accusations and then slates the health advice given but hypocritically suggests a test boost to a lady we are certainly not claiming to be gurus of any kind but after 17 years of our own trials and tribulations we feel that we may have been able to offer a little help "
Ummm how have I hijacked someones thread? Opinion is just that! Simply because I dont agree with the belief that 'chatting on a forum will be negligible to their relationship' I am hijacking it? LOL.
What would be seen as a hijack on the other hand is you believing that somehow you are an all seeing eye, not to be reckoned with or disagreed with! NO?
Now as far as assumption. Who has mentioned cheating? Not me. That would be you - assuming again. Wjat I have said is you presume he is sneaking around asking advice. You have jumped to the conclusion of cheating. Dont ask me how as it has got no relevance to the thread at all)
I haven't seen any health advice other than check any meds Mrs may be on - which I haven't disagreed with. Again some kind of assumption by you! As in fact, I said speak to a GP!
And I dont know what tests you are going on about, that I have some how suggested? I have suggested suppliments and diet. Which if you look at Horny Goat Weed - you will see if can help women in menopause! Not that I am seeting your awesome factdom right again.
I will not mention anything about your 17 years of marriage, I bet every 9pm on Saturday has been an event of miraculous proportion. Do you think I lost my virginity yesterday and therefore have nothing to contribute?! Granted, that last paragraph was hijacking a bit (sorry OP), but I felt it necessary, seen as you appear to have a bit of a qualm with whatever suggestion I post, you might as well have something proper now  Enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surprised by the responses here. Where is any advice at all? You have all presumed he is sneaking around, when they may just be an open couple, and he is asking for ideas!!! Fuck! A bloke asking/taking interest in his wife! Drown it, burrrn it, cast it out with pitch forks!!! "
Havent you seen the show cheaters with joe greggo? might get it from somewhere else, but lets hope its just a phase and that she get horney soon |
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