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What does it take?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you a boring or exciting person? |
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"Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey "
Already half caught it, will accept pleasure from anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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you could always do what I do..? buy some candles..some incense and a prayer mat..and pray hard to your higher power and have faith..it hasn't worked for me yet..but im going to persevere and hope a miracle will happen..?  |
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"Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey
Already half caught it, will accept pleasure from anyone!"
Ya know men don't read profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You say you are in your 50s but profile says 44. Profile says straight, but you say you are happy to please and be pleased by both sexes. It's all a bit inconsistent. Plus the only pics are cock pics. And you can't accom. All that will count against you unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its by luck, your time will eventually come, but takes abit longer, like Russian roulete, its bound to land on your profile one day. |
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Yeah, the age thing needs sorting!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You say you are in your 50s but profile says 44. Profile says straight, but you say you are happy to please and be pleased by both sexes. It's all a bit inconsistent. Plus the only pics are cock pics. And you can't accom. All that will count against you unfortunately. "
I have to agree and add that a profile pic that contains more ski of another person is a complete turn off, Especially during play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Skin* not ski lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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Confusing profile - check
Not very nice profile pics - check. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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Ticking all of those boxes means nothing if people don't find you attractive (disclaimer - I haven't seen the face so this is not a personal comment) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your going to be less then honest regarding your age do make sure your profile text marries up
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone for the help and advice.
Will sort the profile issues.
Cheers |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
You do not have a clear and honest profile!
Your profile says 44 liar, because you text says 50's!
Cannot accommodate? Married per chance?
Straight, but happy to be pleased by both sexes? Really? - You are not straight! So reality check, your total profile is a complete lie!
And you have to ask???? |
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"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
you could always do what I do..? buy some candles..some incense and a prayer mat..and pray hard to your higher power and have faith..it hasn't worked for me yet..but im going to persevere and hope a miracle will happen..? "
God loves a trier  |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
leeds |
"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me."
I got 9 .... do I win!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me.
I got 9 .... do I win!! "
Yep. You win the OP. x |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
leeds |
"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me.
I got 9 .... do I win!!
Yep. You win the OP. x"
Am I allowed to donate my prize!!!! |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.
Will sort the profile issues.
Cheers"
So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.
Will sort the profile issues.
Cheers
So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!! "
But he looks younger than what he is..maybe he's in his 50s but looks 44  |
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"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check. No face picture or hobbies and interests . On a simplistic basis your profile just says you are a male wanting sex .
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.
Will sort the profile issues.
Cheers
So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!!
But he looks younger than what he is..maybe he's in his 50s but looks 44 "
Ohhhhh I never thought of that, silly me! That makes it ok to lie then!!! Lol |
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"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......
Clear and honest profile. Check
Pics. Check.
Face pic on request. Check and sent.
Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.
Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.
Being patient. Check.
You need some pictures of face plus hobbies and interests
I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.
Any thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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all of the above and the biggest problem is NOT being able to accommodate!!! allways sounds like someone playing away!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Biggest turn off for many couples?
Calling yourself SouthWestDogger and picks of your cock... are you trying to meet a man or woman, think about what a woman wants, not what you want 
Good luck, I'm sure it'll happen soon... if it hadn't already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all of the above and the biggest problem is NOT being able to accommodate!!! allways sounds like someone playing away!!!!"
So come on OP, don't keep avoiding the question, are you playing away? |
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I get the impression that the OP may now be regretting his lookatme OP, given the universal negative reaction to it...
Personally, whilst I agree with all points made by contributors, I find this juvenile Supercar-startup sequence of "Check" the most irritating aspect of it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I asked the question, and I got the responses.
Thank you all for the mainly positive comments.
Learned a great deal. I am sure it will help.
For those who were not to complimentary, I can't change your opinion but can say I am not a liar, I have not set out to deceive and I am not playing away.
Thanks again. |
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People don't make mistakes about their age, dude. Which is it? 44 or in your 50's? That annoyed quite a few people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we would be put off by your username, and dink pic's , I know its fickle but that's all it take. but good luck with your search
Connie x |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Think we can leave it there |
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