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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been dressing for some time and always at my place where I feel secure even when I meet a man I never go out as yet.
I will have my first date at someone else home and need some advice how to dress and be safe please |
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Hi...I guess its about confidence& right now it maybe easier to do it with another tv/ts or friend until yr ready..
If yr driving to your dates place it could be easier than using public transport.
If still unsure take a bag to change into..good luck...j  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I pull some clothes on over the glam stuff and do 90% of my make up before leaving the house with soft hat on. This ensures the neighbours don't twig on. I then finish glamming up away from home on my way to my destination.
In public, I'd never claim to be the most convincing, but I've found no one really gives a monkeys what you are wearing. Apart from one guy who wanted to meet me in a lane at the back of his house. Not because of me not passing, but more because of my figure - he was worried they his neighbours would think I was being paid by the hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you both for great advise what worries me is people in general as I never practice this before I know probably no one will notice but still worried about to begin catch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a conversation with another tgirl in a bar recently. I thought if I'd passed her in the street I would t have guessed she had something extra downstairs.
She told me these simple tricks not to get noticed.
Dress sensibly. If you dress like a whore you'll be noticed. (Hence my coat!)
Walk slower so you don't stomp in heels.
Don't look people in the eye. Guys do that.
Go people watching in your drab clothes. Look at how many women could be tv's. You'd be surprised at how many masculine features normal women have.
Remember that the most likely worst case scenario is that you hear someone laugh behind you. They are unlikely to be nasty to your face. People don't tend to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet at night and get ready in the car round the corner from the meet. A pain in the arse but at least if I got pulled by police they wouldn't wonder what was going on when I gave them my driving license  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!! "
How do you run in 6 inch heels lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!!
How do you run in 6 inch heels lol"
Depends on which pair. Some are so comfy I can dance run whatever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must say again "tell someone where you're going".
Even if you don't tell them why, tell them where you will be and what time you'll confirm you're out safe by.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!! "
Bloody hell Rachel!! Can you give me lessons?? I can barely totter around in my heels - let alone run!!
OP be brave hun - and if anyone looks at you look them straight in the eye and smile! You have every right to be who/what you want to be honey!!Big hugs!! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!!
Bloody hell Rachel!! Can you give me lessons?? I can barely totter around in my heels - let alone run!!
OP be brave hun - and if anyone looks at you look them straight in the eye and smile! You have every right to be who/what you want to be honey!!Big hugs!! Xxx"
It's all about practise. Wear them whenever possible, start with low ones and build up. And legs together! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!!
Bloody hell Rachel!! Can you give me lessons?? I can barely totter around in my heels - let alone run!!
OP be brave hun - and if anyone looks at you look them straight in the eye and smile! You have every right to be who/what you want to be honey!!Big hugs!! Xxx
It's all about practise. Wear them whenever possible, start with low ones and build up. And legs together!"
That's got to be the first time on this site that anyone's told me to keep my legs together!!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!!
Bloody hell Rachel!! Can you give me lessons?? I can barely totter around in my heels - let alone run!!
OP be brave hun - and if anyone looks at you look them straight in the eye and smile! You have every right to be who/what you want to be honey!!Big hugs!! Xxx
It's all about practise. Wear them whenever possible, start with low ones and build up. And legs together!
That's got to be the first time on this site that anyone's told me to keep my legs together!! xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought a long ladies coat for getting from the car to venues. Especially useful for when I'm in the crop top micro skirt look.
I can walk and even run in 6" heels but if you feel venerable tottering along take some flats and change into your heels at the door.
Tell someone where you're going!!!!
Bloody hell Rachel!! Can you give me lessons?? I can barely totter around in my heels - let alone run!!
OP be brave hun - and if anyone looks at you look them straight in the eye and smile! You have every right to be who/what you want to be honey!!Big hugs!! Xxx
It's all about practise. Wear them whenever possible, start with low ones and build up. And legs together!
That's got to be the first time on this site that anyone's told me to keep my legs together!! xx
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Lol. I just laughed out loud in Screwfix
Honestly the first heels I wore were 6" platforms and they felt like I'd always worn them. I love heels. Hence why I have so many |
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Also some nerves will just be because it's your first time in public in addition to the meet.
You could pop out anytime, even 4 in the morning,And have a walk around somewhere. Or go out tonight as a witch, with Halloween no one will think anything.
In general I create the air of owning a place, a comfortable confidence. |
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dress like any normal woman would for a nite of fun.sexy but with out showing everything as u walk up his garden path . maybe leave a note saying where your going in case he turns out to be a psycho and u dont make it out |
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