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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know the obvious reason most people don't entertain me is because am attached but is there any other reasons people can see why I even struggle to get chat on here? Advice appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know the obvious reason most people don't entertain me is because am attached but is there any other reasons people can see why I even struggle to get chat on here? Advice appreciated "

think you've answered your own question there...for most people anyway..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wrote that to point out the obvious straight away

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I wrote that to point out the obvious straight away "

and its the main reason why you struggling sorry but its a fact!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The advantages to meeting a married man are far outweighed by the disadvantages. Add to that the amount of truly single men who can't get a meet on here and you really are going to struggle.

Have you considered a swinging club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wrote that to point out the obvious straight away

and its the main reason why you struggling sorry but its a fact!

"
ok rather keep it on so people know from the off will just keep struggling on lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The advantages to meeting a married man are far outweighed by the disadvantages. Add to that the amount of truly single men who can't get a meet on here and you really are going to struggle.

Have you considered a swinging club?"
yes but would like to find a female to take me rather than walk in on own

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By *rince Charming 69Man over a year ago

Loughborough

If you constantly use the term "FEMALES" then I am not surprised that you cannot get a meet, as it is quite a derogatory term.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok cheers pal

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The advantages to meeting a married man are far outweighed by the disadvantages. Add to that the amount of truly single men who can't get a meet on here and you really are going to struggle.

Have you considered a swinging club?yes but would like to find a female to take me rather than walk in on own "

Don't be a wuss. Loads of men go to clubs on their own. Just go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok may try it x

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By *hrissie1961Woman over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

There are way more people who will meet attached people than wont. They just don't say so in forums. The info is there, so people know and your not hiding it.

There's nothing wrong with you or your profile, just keep plugging away

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There are way more people who will meet attached people than wont. They just don't say so in forums. The info is there, so people know and your not hiding it.

There's nothing wrong with you or your profile, just keep plugging away"
thanks lovely some faith restored there x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"The advantages to meeting a married man are far outweighed by the disadvantages. Add to that the amount of truly single men who can't get a meet on here and you really are going to struggle.

Have you considered a swinging club?yes but would like to find a female to take me rather than walk in on own "

See this type of comment really pisses me off, your adult enough to join the site but need your hand held to walk in a club on your own?

Even normal socials, I get men asking 'can I come with you?' Jesus, if I can go on my own, so can you, some people just want everything handed to them on a plate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The advantages to meeting a married man are far outweighed by the disadvantages. Add to that the amount of truly single men who can't get a meet on here and you really are going to struggle.

Have you considered a swinging club?yes but would like to find a female to take me rather than walk in on own

See this type of comment really pisses me off, your adult enough to join the site but need your hand held to walk in a club on your own?

Even normal socials, I get men asking 'can I come with you?' Jesus, if I can go on my own, so can you, some people just want everything handed to them on a plate!

"
bit out of my comfort zone as never done it before would go with a male friend just couldn't walk in on own first time.. My bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

"
ok

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"Happy hunting " don't think so..but if it works for you..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know the obvious reason most people don't entertain me is because am attached but is there any other reasons people can see why I even struggle to get chat on here? Advice appreciated "

Surely from the replies and comments you have had from your countless other threads you have a good idea by now?

You seem just another married guy who is cheating on his wife and using swinging as an excuse.

Whatever your reasons seem to be, the fact is you are still a cheating married guy. Why not have the bottle to tell your wife?

Simple really, lots of people on here do not want to help someone cheat, especially when there are hundreds of single guys to choose from.

Advice? Tell the wife and then at least she can confirm to any potential players you have her permission. Until then you will just be a cheat on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

Absolutely spot on, but he knows this already!!

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm a married man and I meet as many women as any single guys I know, Kim my wife told me to get a profile so I could photograph local girls and play with them if they wanted.

This profile came about as a joke at first because to everybody on my couples profile I was Mr Kim husband of a well known porn star so it give me an identity having my own.

People told me being 50+ married and having a single profile won't get you anywhere on Fab but I proved them wrong, yes some people ignore you and some are sarcastic best rise above and be yourself mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

Absolutely spot on, but he knows this already!!"
you's are a proper negative couple every post I've seen you comment on is negative I asked you last time not to comment on my stuff as I've heard your opinion on married/attached guys over 40 times it's boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a married man and I meet as many women as any single guys I know, Kim my wife told me to get a profile so I could photograph local girls and play with them if they wanted.

This profile came about as a joke at first because to everybody on my couples profile I was Mr Kim husband of a well known porn star so it give me an identity having my own.

"
cheers for the helpful advice mate

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Had a look at your profile mate and one thing you need to do is change the pics, cock pics are old hat now.

Try getting some done in different poses blanking your face if required, make you as a person sound interesting and a challenge for the ladies as they love what they can't have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Had a look at your profile mate and one thing you need to do is change the pics, cock pics are old hat now.

Try getting some done in different poses blanking your face if required, make you as a person sound interesting and a challenge for the ladies as they love what they can't have."
nice 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

ok"

Do not tell people you are married, you have the same right to privacy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you's are a proper negative couple every post I've seen you comment on is negative I asked you last time not to comment on my stuff as I've heard your opinion on married/attached guys over 40 times it's boring "

Nearly as boring as some of your moaning threads?

The forum is open for all, and like you we can speak as we find.

Don't worry we will comment as and when we feel like it.

See ya.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As you're looking for a local couple or lady, I just hope that your wife isnt built like Attilla the Hun!

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The operative phrase is 'won't entertain me' as if you expect them to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

Absolutely spot on, but he knows this already!!you's are a proper negative couple every post I've seen you comment on is negative I asked you last time not to comment on my stuff as I've heard your opinion on married/attached guys over 40 times it's boring "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

So if you asked last time for them not to comment, you've asked about cheating before. I take it you didn't get the "It's ok, cheaters are fine" response you were looking for then either? This is a forum. You asked for opinions. You can't decide you don't want them because they don't agree with you."
no I didn't ask if was right this isn't an advice site they just kept writing same bullshit on every post alls I can say is if they or you don't agree with what I do in my life there's no need to help am on here for my reasons not there's

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people bite the bullet and say to their other halves, "I need to swing" and then they have had a lot of communication and internal struggles with that partner.

Which may result in that partner joining their other half in this swinging lifestyle or just saying just go and shag who you want I can not do it.

This process can be painful and may take people years and many partners, just because they want to live their private lives how they want with no lies.

Then you have the people who sneak around living this lifestyle behind their partners backs.

So next time you wonder why people will not meet you, please remember a lot of people on here have gone through a lot of shit to say I am a swinger and I am happy with that, I do not care who knows.

A lot of us are not out in our public lives, but in our private lives we are. To the people who love us the most.

So when married people come on here moaning no one will meet them, I have no sympathy.

Do not tell people you are married, you have the same right to privacy "